Chapter 208: Have You Ever Tried to Love Someone?
In the winter months, as the cold air drops, the days in the school are getting more and more difficult, the students rub their hands and shake their legs to class, and the teachers are actually similar.
In fact, the temperature is much better than in the north, and it is only hovering around zero, but it feels cold, even if the northerners run to the south, they will say that it is colder than the north.
The school was poor and had no money to buy a stove, so most of the teachers went back to their dormitories or homes after class, and then climbed into the bed, not wanting to come out.
But Guo went to be a class teacher, and he couldn't stay at home all the time, so he bought a small electric stove, like a small electric fan.
So, Wu Wenwen was blessed, and she was reluctant to go back to the bedroom.
Because, in fact, it is cold in the bedroom, especially when you get into the bed, you have to shiver all over, and your teeth start to fight.
"Mr. Guo, how much did you buy this stove? Why don't I pay half of it?"
Guo went to look at Wu Wenwen, and said that girls are born with a fear of cold? This Wu Wenwen has never left the electric stove except for attending classes and eating.
"No, it didn't cost much. That Teacher Wu, let me ask you questions, are you girls afraid of the cold?"
"I don't know about the others, but I'm scared, as long as it's winter, I don't want to go out, I used to make a fire at home, and I have to cover the quilt with a bottle of hot water in advance to sleep at night, and then I dare to go to sleep. β
"Mr. Guo, I have a question for you too. β
"Say it. β
"Do you have anyone you like?"
Guo went to be silent, and after thinking about it carefully, it seems to be there, right?
It's just that it was all when I was young and vigorous, and once that time passed, it didn't seem to be a big deal.
"I guess there is. β
"What do you mean by should?"
"I used to have it, but I was still studying at that time, maybe I was not an adult, I was not very mature, and then it slowly faded. β
Wu Wenwen frowned and asked again, "What kind of feeling is that?"
"What else can I feel? I thought that without her, life would have no meaning, but later I realized that I was still living a good life alone, except for sleeping alone at night, I ate as usual. β
"When a person gets used to being alone, they find that these are really nothing. β
"Speaking of which, I've been forced by my family several times this year, asking me to find a girlfriend. But it's not that easy. β
"Why is it not easy? With your family conditions, if you want to find a daughter-in-law, I'm afraid there will be a lot of matchmakers coming to the door!"
Guo Qu smiled bitterly, "It's not a secret, my mother found several matchmakers behind my back, and then asked me to get to know the woman, but in desperation, I went once or twice, but they all ended in failure." β
"Not satisfied?"
"That's not it, can you see a person's personality just by meeting a few times? Maybe I've seen too many misfortunes, I think even if you want to get married, you have to find someone who agrees with each other, and you have to tolerate each other's shortcomings. β
"Do you see how many people in my father's generation, or at your father's age, really have a harmonious family? β
"Are you afraid of having a daughter-in-law?"
Guo went to be silent, he thought about it carefully, felt that this question was not easy to answer, and asked himself again, and then said:
"That's not true, I often think that I should marry a daughter-in-law, I don't want to be the right person, I just want to meet the right person, marriage means responsibility. If I marry all kinds of people who don't like me, how can I do it? Quarrel all day long, I'm afraid to think about it, and ......"
And if there are offspring, do you let the children watch their parents quarrel? If they really can't get by, will they just divorce like that? What about the children?
Perhaps because of the environment in which he grew up, Guo went a little far ahead.
"And what?"
"Hey, nothing. β
The chat between the two ended, and they fell silent again, people are too long in this life, and they need to be accompanied by a companion.
At the same time, people's lives are too short, just a few decades have passed in a flash, if the person who accompanies you is not compatible with yourself, what a tragedy.
Maybe.
Everyone's way of thinking is different, and that's how Guo Qu thinks.
"Mr. Guo, no wonder you are so old that you can't find a girlfriend yet. Wu Wenwen was silent for a while, and then suddenly said.
"Oh?
"You didn't try to get along with girls at all, you relied on your own assumptions, you didn't think it was appropriate, and then you were single until now. β
"Really?" Guo Qu wondered.
Wu Wenwen nodded heavily.
"But I think you are a person with a story, and you do things like a person in your forties and fifties, and you are always looking forward and backward, calm and steady. β
"Isn't that bad?"
"It's good, it's no edges, but it's less wrong. β
"Hehe, you're saying I'm not bloody, right? But I don't seem to have any, I'm always thinking too much, and then I like to think about things from other people's perspectives. β
"No, I really think it's good, you seem very mature, not naΓ―ve. β
Guo Qu shook his head and smiled, which reminded him of a passage from the movie:
A woman's youth is only a few years, and it is only a few years that can attract the opposite sex, so a woman's youth is very precious.
And men are different, because adolescent men are naΓ―ve and angular.
But what attracts a man to a woman the most is the calmness after puberty, and the unique temperament that has been fermented over time as he grows older.
Wu Wenwen talked a lot today, Guo Qu suddenly thought.
He also thought about whether Wu Wenwen would be interesting to him, but he was immediately vetoed, because he hadn't seen another side of Wu Wenwen except for the office.
That is, not to understand.
He doesn't know Wu Wenwen, so naturally, Wu Wenwen doesn't know him either, so naturally, he thinks too much.
"Mr. Wu, I'm leaving. Guo went to get up, and when it was time to get off work again, his stomach was also a little hungry.
"Teacher Guo, let's go to dinner, how about I have a treat today?"
"Why did you remember to invite me to dinner today?"
"No, you've helped me a lot in the past few months, and if I don't invite you to dinner, I won't be able to do it. β
"It's okay, it's all what I'm supposed to do, okay, that's it, don't break the bank. β
Wu Wenwen bit her lip with her teeth, opened the door, and stood at the door watching Guo go and leave, not knowing what she was thinking.
"What a ruthless person!" After a long time, a cold wind blew outside, waking up Wu Wenwen who was in a daze.
Then she closed the door, went back to the office, and sat down in front of the electric stove, her hands stretched out to bake the fire, and the faint yellow light from the electric stove shone through her fingers on the wall behind her, and her hands and head were imprinted very large, but they did not move, and I did not know what she was thinking.