What love is

What love is and what love is. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoI think everyone has a different answer in their hearts, and this difference comes from different understandings and feelings of love. Therefore, there is no unified answer to love, only a unified result - love can build a person's character.

My love may be different from most people, and this difference makes my character simple to say, and naïve to be precise.

It's funny to say that there are many students and friends in my life who are younger than me, and when they walk, they feel that they are 'bigger' than me, and they will quickly adjust their roles and treat me as 'carrots and sticks', hehe.

What kind of love is what makes me who I am? What is my love? Then I have to start at the beginning.

When I was growing up, I was separated from my parents shortly after I was born due to their busy work, and I was raised by a wet nurse at my grandmother's house. My grandfather and my mother's (wet nurse) family grew up in a very good environment, probably because my relatives felt sorry for me because they didn't have parents around me, and they poured all their love into me. All I saw were smiling faces, I didn't get beaten in my memory, and there was very little criticism, I grew up in the palms of my relatives' loved hands, and I spent it in the ocean of love.

I once saw a sentence that 'children who grow up in love have no shadow and hatred in their hearts.' I agree with that. At that time, I felt that the people around me loved me, and I was like eating a hundred family meals of love, and there were all of them, but the difference was that everyone gave me the best. I've grown up, and they're still treating me like this, treating me like a child.

This kind of growth environment has created a kind and simple character, I feel that I am a child in my heart, everything is beautiful, and at the same time, I will pass on love within my ability, and see that everyone is my family.

There are two sides to everything. That environment led me to be timid and overly dependent, which continues to this day.

The first time I found this problem was when I applied for university and divided my high school Chinese science class, what to learn was determined by my fifth uncle, who taught me physics. I went to his department and asked and answered.

"Fifth uncle, it's time to divide classes, do I study literature or science?"

"Studying science. The fifth uncle didn't look up and was correcting the homework.

In fact, I knew the answer when I asked, but I knew that it was up to the fifth uncle to decide.

However, when I walked out of his office, I felt a feeling in my heart that I couldn't put into words.

Now understood. Actually, Chinese and law were more suitable for me, but it was a liberal arts subject, and at that time, I would not have chosen it. No one in the family studied liberal arts, and none of them studied liberal arts until now.

Later, I went back to Xi'an to go to school. Because we have not lived with our parents, we have formed a barrier, which causes us eternal pain in this life. They had no feelings for each other, they accused me inexplicably, and I didn't like anything else, and I quickly experienced the torture from heaven to earth, and it was really hard to live. My personality has changed a lot, and when I come back home, I'm like a frightened bird.

That's it, I never told my relatives in my hometown, and they still don't know what I went through. Needless to say, I don't want to make people who are used to giving me love suffer at the same time.

At that time, I often had a dream that I was in a hurry on the street, looking for a place to stay, begging my mother not to send me back to my hometown, because I could not let my relatives worry about me. And this dream, done now, as long as I encounter difficulties, I will have this dream. When I wake up, I feel very sad, I feel sorry for myself, I feel sad for a long time, and I don't understand how my mother and the whole family hurt me (I didn't let go until a few years ago, thinking that my mother didn't mean to). During that period, I was very lonely and helpless. But I didn't cry.

Thankfully, the process was short. I'm completely independent.

Soon that carefree me returned. I recovered so quickly, it was determined by the environment in which I grew up when I was a child, love made my simple character, in order to be happy, unhappy things are put down in the shortest possible time, happiness is much better than pain. To this day, I'm still like this, and the unpleasant ones are swept away.

Because I know the importance of love, I cherish the receiving and giving of love. I am grateful for the love I received when I was growing up, and I deeply appreciate the power of love.

I have experienced the two heavens of love, and I cherish love very much. Deep down, I refuse to grow up, because when I grow up, my relatives will not get used to it, and when I grow up, the people around me will not get used to it. It doesn't seem like I'm going to grow up either. I've also tried my best, I want to be an adult and experience what it's like to be in charge of others, but I feel bad and tired after pretending to be a few times, because I don't pretend to be like it, and no one is afraid of me.

That's great, I'm still myself, let you love, I enjoy it!

It's such a character that has made me a lot of honest friends in my life. I love the people around me as much as everyone loved me when I was a child. I let the people who come close to me realize what love is, and when there is sincere love as a bridge between people, the distance between each other's hearts is the shortest.

When I love them, I am different from my predecessors, and they feel that it is an equal love. In this way, there is no psychological pressure, and when they leave me or I leave them, they are not like me, always thinking about repaying my relatives. Because I am their friend and their relative, and when I give them love, I get greater love......

I have talked so much about family and friendship because I have realized that in the realm of love, this kind of love is precious and easy to do. There are no conditions, no boundaries, just a simple heart.

It's time to write about love, I originally wanted to write more about wonderful love, but before I wrote it, I began to struggle with "once had" and "forever" in my mind, obviously the answer to love is also uncertain, or other people's conclusions affect me.

I don't agree that love is unholy. Feeling unholy is the loving partner conditioning it. When you approach the one you love with a holy heart, like a religious pilgrimage, love is holy. I agree that love is 'once had' and yearn for 'forever'. Having either of these two types of love is a measure of the sense of responsibility of two people. 'Once had' is only impulsive, and 'forever' is more important to test men's sense of responsibility and perseverance. Both parties who find a lot of reasons for themselves to give up easily will not be 'forever' in this life. What will become of 'once had'? Is it a sweet memory or a bitter memory, or does it make us want to stop and be entangled in our hearts forever?

Love, only this kind of love in the world will make our hearts beat faster, will make our blood gush, will make us unable to ourselves, with this love we want to hold hands for a lifetime, share joys and sorrows, how can this not be the most beautiful and holy love of human beings? cherish it!

There is another kind of love that we all have, and that is the love of blood kinship. This love is innate, and cannot be chosen. Because there is no choice, it cannot be discussed. This love can be remembered, and it is enough to be grateful. Because in the face of the people who give us life, in addition to gratitude is gratitude.

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In the end, I also folded my hands eleven times (laughing): May those who love me and those I love enjoy the most love in this life and dedicate the most love in life.

With love with us, we will not be lonely, with love with us will always have sweetness in our hearts, with love with us will we feel that it is good to be a person in this life, with love with us we will know how important our existence is to others, and with love and companionship, we will look forward to reunion in the next life and continue the love in this life......

2011－11－20

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