Chapter 24: Director Jiao
Chen Han has lived in his grandmother's house for more than a year, and under the care of his mother-in-law, he is as beautiful as a flower, lively and lovely, smart and clever, and has learned to walk and speak. It brings a lot of laughter to the lonely mother-in-law's house, and the happy mother-in-law often wakes up laughing in her dreams.
Lotus goes to her mother's house whenever she has time, both to see her mother and her daughter.
Although the two girls are well-behaved and beautiful, the worldly prejudice makes Lotus very stressed.
As the saying goes: there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great. The mother is also secretly sad and uneasy because she thinks of her grandson.
In the eyes of the older generation, male superiority and female inferiority are very serious, and ten peach blossom girls are not as good as a croutical grandson.
Once, when I bought two sets of clothes for my parents and sent them to my mother's room, my mother called me to me and quietly asked me, when will I be asked to hold my grandson when my two granddaughters are so old?
That night, I told my mother's thoughts to Lotus, which was exactly what Lotus wanted, and she also thought about her son for a long time. So my husband and wife decided to have three more children.
When Zhenzhen was 5 and a half years old, Lianhua became pregnant, and this pregnancy was not as strong as the previous two pregnancy reactions. After 3 months, I went to the hospital for a pregnancy test and everything was normal. When she was six or seven months pregnant, Lotus still took care of the housework, working in the fields without rest. She was pregnant in October and gave birth to another daughter, and her angry mother didn't even want to cook for Lotus.
This time it was difficult for the lotus, three days later, the mother-in-law took Chen Han to see the lotus, and when she saw her mother Lotus, she cried, saying that her life was bitter, why was it so bitter, and she didn't even have the life of a son. The mother-in-law comforted Lotus: Don't worry, if you can give birth to a daughter, you can give birth to a son. Three daughters, three golden flowers, you will be blessed in the future!
Said the daughter burst into tears and laughed.
My mother-in-law stayed at my house for three days, and my mother didn't see her in-laws for three days. This can be a bad mother-in-law, because a woman is sick when she gives birth, and she will leave the root of the disease.
I had no choice but to send Lianhua to the hospital and find the best gynecologist Weng Huilan in the hospital for diagnosis and treatment.
Dr. Weng is in his 30s and is a top student who graduated from the Medical University.
Lianhua stayed in the hospital for 5 days, recovered from a serious illness, and was discharged from the hospital in 7 days, leaving no so-called confinement disease.
The mother is a reasonable and virtuous person, but when it comes to wanting her grandson, she can't think about it, and she is also very worried when she sees that Lotus is sick.
During Lianhua's hospitalization, her mother knew that she was wrong, and she ran before and after, took care of her granddaughter with her mother-in-law, and was busy cooking with pots.
After Lianhua was discharged from the hospital, under the mediation of her mother-in-law, the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was reconciled as before, and the former peace was restored.
A month passed unconsciously, and the mother-in-law invited the lotus flower into her house to live for three days, which is called the full moon. Three days later, Lotus returned home, and that's when the expected finally happened.
The township family planning staff came to visit us and asked us to go to the township hospital for sterilization, which made me very embarrassed, the second child passed the test in a fool's way, and the third child had to be sterilized.
I didn't have a son, and I couldn't bear to be sterilized, so I scratched my ears and cheeks and fidgeted.
After Lianhua's mother knew about the situation, she went to the county community to find her brother, explain the situation, and asked her brother to help settle the family planning level.
Lotus's uncle loves the lotus very much, and his sister only has a single lotus seedling, so he can't bear to let his sister worry and be afraid, so he has to promise his sister to think of a way.
Sending away his sister, my brother fell into deep thought, as a state cadre, he must not engage in favoritism and corrupt the party style. If I didn't help, I was sorry for my niece, so I had to bite the bullet and go to the county family planning guidance station to find my good friend for help.
Uncle who doesn't ask for help, for his niece, had to bring good wine to invite someone to dinner, and the uncle explained what his sister entrusted at the wine table, and asked his friend to help, and the friend pondered for a while before agreeing to let me go to him personally to take charge of the knife, so that it was foolproof.
On the third day, my friend informed my uncle that he was on duty and asked me to go to the county guidance station for sterilization.
Accompanied by my brother, I took the car to the county guidance station, met Lianhua's uncle, under the introduction of my uncle, I entered the operating room, my uncle's friend gave me sterilization, but the operation process is the same as other people's process, but I don't know how my uncle's friend is merciful? That is, I can still have children and make a difference.
After the surgery, I rested at home for a week and started a new life.