Chapter 86: Chen Bailu's Teachings
This Spring Festival, my parents and my eldest brother both spent it in Shanghai. On Chinese New Year's Eve, my mother and Chen Bailu were making dumplings in the kitchen, my dad and the two of us were sitting on the sofa chatting, my dad asked me what Bailu did, and I said to do some small business. My dad asked me again that day, Bai Lu's mother said that she was going to Nepal. What does she do. On the day of her daughter's wedding, she was in a hurry to go abroad. I said she was a travel writer and ran around. My dad didn't understand what I meant, so I said she was a book writer. My dad asked again, and I hesitated about her dad, saying that her dad was in Beijing and was a petty official. My dad nodded again and again, saying that's fine, as long as you want. We don't have a big deal. I said in my heart that we are both married, what else can you say, the woman is not up to me. The son can't help his father, and now it's not an arranged marriage in the old society. As long as the two of us are in love freely, even you can't care if we get married, of course, I thought so in my heart, but I didn't say that, but smiled and said, you don't have an opinion
As a result, my father asked who owned the house, and I said that it belonged to Bailu. He said suspiciously, then the last time we came to your house, I said it was rented. My dad nodded, looked at the simple house, and said that the house was estimated to cost a lot of money. My dad said again, you have to be nice to others in the future, don't be foolish all day long. It's not a shape. I smiled and said a word, Cheng My dad smiled, and told me that the password of the card in the red envelope he gave Bai Lu on the wedding day was my birthday, and it contained their savings, and I would take it out and add some furniture to the house or something. I asked my dad how much money he had, and my dad said forty-five thousand. I smiled and didn't speak, and that day the girls took them out to play and buy clothes for my mother in Hang Lung. More than 8,000, my dad bought a pair of leather shoes, more than 9,000, and my brother bought a dress for 28,000, and he didn't bring some gold jewelry that my mother bought. It was only later that I learned that the personnel girls lied to my parents, saying that this mall deals with low-priced fakes, and they are very cheap. When the bill was paid, the bill came out with a full sixty-nine thousand. When the girl swiped the card, my mother just saw that there was a good bag next to her, and asked the girl what brand of bag this was, and the girl said nonsense, saying that this is Hermes, specializing in promotional goods, not famous.
As a result, my mother went in to see a very big bag, and the girl didn't say a word to pay the bill, and the bill came out 197,000 and the girl said to my mother, it's not expensive, and it's only 987 for us to buy so many things. At that time, my mother said that it was quite cheap, and I wanted to buy some more and bring it back to others as gifts, and then the girl hurriedly said Auntie, I am a little tired, let's go back first, and was persuaded by the girl, and my wife stopped shopping carnival. When I knew that my wife had bought so many things, I was immediately confused. She, a rural woman, knows what Hermes is, isn't it a waste to carry her, I wanted to take it and return it at that time. Chen Bailu said, if this is your own money, will you return it?
I was stunned and put things down. Chen Bailu came to me and said that my parents have worked hard all their lives, and it is also appropriate to buy them something, and I specially asked Hongling to take them to Henglong to buy some meeting gifts. When Chen Bailu said this, I was moved in my heart, but she laughed at me for being stupid. The day after we got married, my parents stayed at Bailu's house until today's Chinese New Year's Eve. Winter Regimental Garbage.
I was discussing with my dad about Turkey's shooting down of a Russian plane when Bai Lu came out of the kitchen with two plates of dumplings. The Spring Festival Gala was playing on TV, and our family was sitting together eating dumplings, and the table was full of dishes made by my mother and Bai Lu in the kitchen for an afternoon. My mother is very good at cooking, she is doing it, and Bai Lu is helping out on the side.
Eating dumplings, watching the Spring Festival Gala, chatting, Chinese New Year's Eve passed like this.
The moment the clock struck zero, my brother suddenly stood up and walked to the window to look at the brilliant fireworks outside. Bai Lu and we all looked at him from behind and laughed, my brother suddenly muttered something in his mouth, Qinqin I was startled, and hurried over to ask my brother to come back and sit down.
At night, before going to bed, I spread my mattress on the floor of the second bedroom. These days, my parents sleep in the second bedroom, my brother sleeps on the ground in the second bedroom, and Bai Lu and I sleep in our bedroom. The mattress I made for him was thick and the blanket was soft, so it would never be cold at night. Bai Lu was chatting with my parents, and after I made his bed, my brother lay on the mattress, and I sat next to him and watched him.
I asked him, "Brother, do you want to play the piano?"
My brother nodded, pitiful in his eyes.
I hesitated, comforted him and then came out and closed the door. When I returned to Bai Lu's side, I found that my parents were full of excitement, I said What are you talking about Bai Lu turned his head and said to me, I want my parents to marry a daughter-in-law for my eldest brother, and my eldest brother is in his thirties this year.
I looked at her in amazement, and then turned my head to see the excitement on my parents' faces, and I understood.
Bai Lu persuaded my parents: "As long as the woman agrees to marry, I will help her settle down in Shanghai, and when the time comes, when Qi Tian's work is stable, buy a bigger house, and our family will live together." ”
My heart was hot, and my eyes were filled with tears. I would never have imagined that she would be so kind to my parents. At the beginning, I was afraid that she would dislike my parents and eldest brother, but now I think that I am a gentleman with the heart of a villain. Chen Bailu told my parents again, don't marry someone who doesn't know anything, you have to marry a normal person, it's best to have some cultural knowledge, it doesn't matter if you are shrewd, as long as you are willing to live with your eldest brother.
My parents, especially my mom, were already excited and incoherent. She is a lover of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law ethical dramas on TV, she originally thought that her son would definitely not want to see their rural parents when he married a daughter-in-law in the city, but she didn't expect the daughter-in-law married by her son to be so reasonable.
My dad was calmer, but he didn't immediately deny Chen Bailu's statement, but smiled and said that he had to ask if the government agreed or not. Chen Bailu smiled and nodded, saying that he had to ask.
Back in the bedroom, I hugged Bai Lu excitedly. I asked her why you just said that, and she turned to look at me and said, I have your child in my belly now, we have been a family for a long time, what do you mean by that
I quickly admitted my mistake and said that I was thinking too much
Bai Lujiao snorted and said that you will be punished for kissing me.
I kissed her, but she said it wasn't enough, kiss again.
Outside the window is the lights of thousands of homes, but inside the house is full of enthusiasm.
Just after the second year of junior high school, my parents said they should go back. I was stunned, and Chen Bailu was also surprised and asked why I was in a hurry to go back, just stay here. My dad was a little embarrassed, but my mom stood up and said that she still had a lot of work to do at home, and Qi Zheng said that she was uncomfortable sleeping at night and was homesick. Bai Lu immediately said, the store has not been open for the past few days, I can't buy a bed, and I will buy a bed for my eldest brother after the seventh day of the new year, you can live here, don't hurry to go back My parents smiled awkwardly, my father stood up and said, it's time to go back, you two just got married, you can live well by yourself, and you don't have to worry about us for ten or eight years. Bai Lu wanted to say something, but when she saw that my parents wanted to go back, she agreed.
Until my parents left, neither of us told them that Bai Lu was pregnant. The two of us also discussed whether to tell them or not, and the conclusion was that it was better not to tell them first, and wait until we had a pregnancy test. On the seventh day of the Lunar New Year, Bai Lu and I went to the hospital for a pregnancy test, and when we did B ultrasound, we could already see the appearance of the fetal buds. We both were very happy to come out of the hospital. Bai Lu immediately took out the phone and told my parents, and my mother was so happy on the phone that she said that she always felt less on the day she came back, and it turned out that she forgot to bring her eldest grandson back to Shanghai.
On the eighth day of the new year, the company officially went to work, and the atmosphere of work just after the holiday was not strong, but they all knew that Chen Bailu and I got married during this time, and those who did not attend the wedding that day blessed the two of us. Just after the ninth day of the new year, Feng Shaohui officially entered our company with his team and served as vice president. Feng Shaohui's team has a lot of people, but not many are willing to come to Shanghai, there are more than a dozen people in total, but each of them is an elite.
After Feng Shaohui's team joined, the company's people immediately increased. Moreover, the relevant software website platforms have set up projects, and a software engineer has been hired to be responsible for liaison and scheduling with software outsourcing companies. Almost just after the first month, the first version of Bailu Finance's software was officially launched in the AppStore and Android App Store, and the relevant website and financial operation qualification certificates were also successfully obtained, and the company was officially opened. At this time, the company's employees have reached more than 40 people.
Every night at ten o'clock, after the people in the other companies on the same floor are clean, our company is still not absent, and the employees have a good working attitude and strong coordination skills. All this is because Chen Bailu is well managed, and when she is working, I sometimes really feel that her emotional intelligence is super explosive. The same sentence that came out of her mouth, and the same sentence that came out of my mouth, made the person who heard it completely different reactions.
She explained to me the reason for this, saying that it is called the ugly effect. And give me a book on the subject, so that I can have time to read it. I was a little surprised, and said how you have read everything. She said, I majored in psychology in college, I have read some books on this subject, and now I am managing a business, and my professional knowledge in this area is very useful to me, so you should also read more books on this subject.
As soon as I gritted my teeth, I began to read the books on psychology in Chen Bailu's house from this day on. After reading a lot of these books, I was confronted every day with everyone thinking about what was being said in the books. Sometimes it's a very simple sentence, but it takes me a long time to say it. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with this, after all, I did it according to what I read in the book, and it is possible that there is something wrong
When I was puzzled, Bai Lu didn't help me, and when I read those books, I quickly went from high interest to mediocre interest. One day, when Han Jiale was working on a project in the company, there was an obvious mistake, but at that time, I suddenly remembered that there was a cat kicking effect mentioned in the book, and I hesitated and decided to wait until I went back and dealt with the mistake myself, so I didn't tell Han Jiale. As a result, I forgot about it when I was busy, and when this mistake broke out, I asked Han Jiale and the two of us to be busy in the company until more than two o'clock in the evening before making up for it.
When I got home, Chen Bailu didn't sleep. She was sitting in the study reading a book, wearing a silk nightgown, and her legs were wrapped in black silk because she was afraid of the cold. At this time, he was holding a book with his legs stacked together, with delicate gold-rimmed glasses on the bridge of his nose, the hair on his head was pulled back casually, and a strand of restless hair was scattered from his sideburns, which looked very feminine.
I walked up to her, only to find that the books I was reading during this time were all in front of her, and she looked at me and smiled and said, "The book is almost done"
I nodded, a little tired.
She said calmly, "From now on, you have to forget all the books you have read. ”
"Ahh
Chen Bailu said with a smile: "If a person wants to succeed from books, the result is bleak, and the reality is never so high-spirited as written in the book, nor is it the peak and loop written in the book." After a little success, many entrepreneurs like to watch the biography of Jack Ma, the biography of Steve Jobs, and the business empire of Ma Huateng. I think I can learn a lot of business experience from it, but in reality, Tencent has a South African company among its shareholders, and this South African company has shares in a certain line, in the final analysis, this company is not a so-called entrepreneur, is it not a success, there are no rules to follow, only with a tenacious mentality, never give up, can achieve fame. ”
I was stunned, and Chen Bailu continued: "Of course, you can't stop reading books. Reading books can broaden your horizons and let you know more, but don't put books and life together, that will only make you seem out of place with reality."
I looked at Chen Bailu, who was very feminine in front of me, and hesitated and asked, "Are you teaching me?"
Chen Bailu smiled and said, "I can't talk about teaching, just a little experience." ”
I walked up, picked her up and said, "I understand what you mean, but I want to read the golden plum on you now, you say no"
Chen Bailu's face turned red and scolded me: "Shameless"