Chapter 134: Life's Big Problems (3)

Meng Lianghua understood that this decision was indeed difficult for anyone to accept all at once.

He looked at Zhao Qingfang sincerely, and explained: "In fact, the hardships you said are secondary, which job is very hard, and the doctor's job is to save lives and help the wounded, I can save more people, no matter how hard and tired I can overcome, and I also like the feeling of treating diseases and saving people, that is a noble thing." ”

"Of course, when you really work, you found out that you were thinking about the patient in order to treat the disease and save people, but you are always misunderstood by the patient's family, coupled with the current tense doctor-patient relationship, the patient and the family are more sensitive, and it is easy to have medical disputes. ”

"Just like Xie Pengfei, inexplicably encountered such a flying disaster, that case has nothing to do with his own treatment, or unfortunately suffered such a crime, when I heard Pengfei's decision to go back to his hometown to do business, I was shocked at first, and then admired his decision, because only people who really study medicine understand how much courage he spent to make this determination. Meng Lianghua continued, "Although I did give up the idea of becoming a doctor a little from the moment Peng Fei's accident happened, these were not enough for me to give up the sacred job of a doctor. ”

"Then when did you come up with this idea?" Zhao Qingfang asked curiously.

"I had this idea from the moment I saw my mom sick and hospitalized, and my dad at home had no one to take care of him. Meng Lianghua replied, "At that time, I found out that the responsibility is not just work, I also need to take on the responsibility of the family, the responsibility of the son, the ancients said that filial piety comes first, as a person, the least filial piety is not fulfilled, am I still worthy of being a son of man?"

Zhao Qingfang looked at Meng Lianghua like this, and at this moment she was once again attracted by Meng Lianghua's words.

"My family situation is very special, you know, my father is now unable to move and needs someone to take care of him, I don't want me to make money and come back just to give him money, in fact, what they need most is care. Meng Lianghua said his heart, "I don't want to be working in the emergency department one day and suddenly receive a patient who is my father, if that's the case, I think I will feel guilty for the rest of my life." ”

After speaking, Meng Lianghua looked at Zhao Qingfang with sincere eyes, trying to gain her understanding.

I saw Zhao Qingfang nodding and responding: "I understand, I understand what you mean, to be honest, I was even a little moved." ”

Zhao Qingfang can always think about the other party when dealing with problems, so reasonable, she makes Meng Lianghua both happy and guilty.

In his heart, he actually understands that Zhao Qingfang still prefers him to be a doctor all the time, doctors have always been a career she dreams of in her heart, maybe because of this, she also has a good impression of people who are doctors, and now she doesn't plan to practice medicine anymore, Meng Lianghua is ashamed in his heart, and always feels sorry for Zhao Qingfang.

"Actually, I don't want to be a doctor because it's not just my dad who no one takes care of, and I don't want to wait for us to get married and have children in the future, I still miss the growth of my children and miss the opportunity to accompany you by being on duty in the emergency room for so long every day, I want to be by your side every day and take care of you. Meng Lianghua said sincerely, "Although my thoughts look like a woman to others, but that's what I think, people live in a hurry for decades, like a white horse, if people live in the world only for their careers and can't even take care of and accompany their families, then what's the point of such a life?"

Meng Lianghua's parents went out to work since he was a child and lived with his grandmother for many years, so unlike others, Meng Lianghua is more looking forward to the family's love and more willing to pay for the family.

"So I hope you can understand my thoughts. Meng Lianghua looked at Zhao Qingfang with earnest eyes.

Zhao Qingfang nodded again: "Well, I understand, I understand." ”

"Actually, I myself am also very conflicted, I really want you to be a doctor, because whether it is from the social status or our future medical treatment, of course, you say that you have classmates in the medical treatment is the same, but we always trouble others is always not as convenient as ourselves, but I also know that once you become an emergency doctor this time, it means that you will be busy all your life, on duty endlessly at night, and you can't always be by our side, and there is a great risk in the current medical environment. Zhao Qingfang also expressed her concerns and contradictions.

After saying that, Zhao Qingfang was a lot more relaxed, she looked at Meng Lianghua with a sullen and worried look, and she smiled at Meng Lianghua again.

"It's okay, if you don't go, you won't take the test, or that sentence, where are you going? What are you going to do? I have no opinion, but there is one thing I have requested. ”

"You say. ”

"Don't forget to take me with you wherever you go. Zhao Qingfang said shyly to Meng Lianghua.

Meng Lianghua was originally worried that Zhao Qingfang would object, but he didn't expect that she was as understanding as ever even in the things she cared about very much, and the stone that Meng Lianghua put in his heart was finally put down, and at this moment he was more down-to-earth than ever.

He looked at Zhao Qingfang and said, "Fool, what nonsense are you talking about, no matter if I go to the end of the world or the cape, I will drag you in the palm of my hand." ”

"That's good. Zhao Qingfang replied with a smile, "Hehe... ”

"Ever since I was a child, I have always felt that God is unfair to me, and that things are easy for others to get, but it takes ten times as much effort to get them to me, but now I feel that God is fair, because it made me meet you. ”

Meng Lianghua's sudden confession shocked Zhao Qingfang, and she replied shyly: "When did you become so good at talking, I'm embarrassed to say it." ”

"I'm telling the truth, and I'm not hypocritical, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about. ”

With that, Meng Lianghua stood up and put his arm around Zhao Qingfang's shoulder, the two glanced at each other, and began to help everyone clean up the mess together.

That night, after Meng Lianghua was busy with family affairs, he told Li Jianping and Liang Bo his thoughts respectively.

After all, Li Jianping went to fight for him for this emergency seat tomorrow, and now he suddenly doesn't go, he must greet him and express his apologies.

And Liang Bo, as his best friend in Linzhou for so many years, made such a big decision himself, and he also wanted him to know.

The next day was the Fourth of May.

Liang Bo was anxiously waiting for Meng Lianghua to appear in the examination room this day, although Meng Lianghua had clearly told himself last night that he would not come to the exam, but Liang Bo still couldn't believe this fact, during this period of time, Xie Pengfei returned to his hometown to do business, and Meng Lianghua said that he didn't plan to continue to be a doctor, these two are Liang Bo's best friends in school, since he went to college, he never thought that the people around him would not practice medicine.

But too many things have happened one after another this year, although Liang Bo has asked why he studied medicine in the first place when the hospital has no training and the hospital's recruitment requirements are high, but he has never thought of giving up, and no matter how difficult or bad the plan is, it is nothing more than to go away to work.

But a career change, he never thought about.

On the phone, Liang Bo also persuaded Meng Lianghua several times to hope that Meng Lianghua would not easily give up this opportunity that Vice President Li had spent his time fighting for, but the figure he was looking forward to outside the examination room did not appear before he entered the examination room.