Chapter 767
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But Mrs. Jia, who came in late, didn't play with those children or girls of the same age as him, after all, in his opinion, when to play, wasn't it all a good thing? Isn't it so important to have two more pieces of candy if you are more complimentary? Of course, the most important thing is to study more for him, and he has realized that marriage is definitely the second reincarnation for a woman.
By the way, he still listened to one of his aunts, but he agreed very much in his heart, just look at this aunt's words, the big girls and daughters-in-law around him are busy nodding their heads, he is based on his grandmother's words are absolutely the truth, and this girl is also firmly in mind, since marriage is so important, then she has to observe more, to see what other people are like when they get married, so that when they get married, they will not be so flustered and right-so.
It is indeed ridiculous and good, no matter how much, this Mrs. Jia who entered the door later has been able to realize when she was still a girl, these new brides are actually very flustered and at a loss to get married, no matter how good they marry, no matter how bad they marry, no matter how many guests come, no matter how much their dowry, anyway, each of them is very worried in their hearts, for this, the girl's heart is full of disgust.
He doesn't think it's terrible to get married, anyway, it's to move from this yard to another yard to get along with another family, he hasn't met a person who doesn't like him so far, he will please people with his sweet mouth, so those adults love him very much after seeing him, in fact, those neighbors who didn't like him at the beginning, and then he received them one by one, anyway, those people are all smiling when they see him now, of course, his sweet mouth is the most important reason.
Smile when you see someone, say hello when you see someone you know, smile when you don't know someone you don't know, and at the same time carefully observe each other's words and deeds, and realize what kind of attention the other party has, then the girl will immediately run to the side, oh, auntie, are you tired? Auntie, are you thirsty? Oh, it's really hard now, such hard days are still thanks to the efforts of aunts and aunts, we children should learn more from you.
Sometimes he didn't know what he meant by those words, but it didn't prevent him from saying those words, and the women and men on the other side who weren't too happy, or didn't express much, would show a smile of relief when they heard these words, and they were much more harmonious with him.
So gradually the girl knows what she says, others will be good to him, and he has taken this advantage to the extreme, anyway, so far, he has not seen him uneven, so for him, it is not difficult to deal with strangers in a different environment, he also believes that he has the confidence and charm to conquer all people, so for him to come, marriage is really not a particularly difficult thing, he really can't understand why those brides are so nervous and uneasy。
Of course, later the girl through her own observation and her own summary, extraordinary comprehension ability, etc., these finally found the reason for those people, that is, these people are not like themselves, they started to do it early, ready to know, there are many things in this life that need to listen to the lessons of others, he knows it very well, listening to the private discussions of the elders, he is very clear to him, people really have a lot of masks, these elders are one in front of others, and they are another when they are behind them, their words and behaviors, expressions and even cognition may be completely opposite attitudes。
In the girl's opinion, the faces shown by these people on the outside are really dull and boring, but in fact, when they have a thing in private, that face is fresh and real, so for the girl, she is more willing to hear those who are private, alas, that is, relying on her age, she has heard a lot of words, so gradually she has mastered a lot of skills to listen quietly on the side.
And the girl thinks that it is because she has heard enough of these things, her own things are wide enough, and she thinks about enough things, so her cognition and understanding of life are very beyond ordinary people, anyway, in his opinion, she is clearer than those new godmothers who are ready to marry.
He knows that for these new families, the husband's family is a completely unfamiliar field, but as a bride, they should pay attention to it, then the least is their dowry, anyway, who to marry has been decided at this time, and the most important thing for them should be to strive to make their in-laws' family live better, so the most basic factor to ensure them is the dowry they married this time.
Don't look at the girl every time she says in front of her parents that she will not get married, she is really happy to be by her parents' side, and she must stay by her parents' side all her life, be filial to them, and let them enjoy happiness. But he knew that these words were all learned from those people, that is, the set of high-sounding words on the surface, anyway, such words would please his father and mother, and he would be more favored.
But in fact, the girl had already planned early, since she heard her father and mother discuss her in private, when the dowry and dowry of the future marriage, she will always pay attention to her words and deeds, and strive to do everything in her own words, everything can please her parents, and only if they like themselves more will they be more willing to spend money on themselves, and the richer their dowry, the more comfortable and comfortable they will be in the future.
At that time, the girl didn't know what the difference was, in her opinion, the dowry was the most decisive factor that determined a woman's marital happiness, so the three went to the cousin's wedding to be so stimulated, it was the first time in her life that she saw the real so-called ten miles of red makeup.
Of course, the red makeup is still exaggerated, but the dowry of his cousin is already more than several times the dowry that a person of their status gives when he marries his daughter.