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Of course, the little girl finally found the reason for those people through her own observation and her own summary, extraordinary comprehension, etc., that is, these people are not like themselves, they started to do it early, ready to know that there are many things in this life that need to be taught by others, and he knew it when he was very young, and he knew it very well to him when he listened to the private discussions of the elders, people really have a lot of masks, these elders are one in front of others, and they are another when they are behind them, their words and behaviors, expressions and even cognitions may be completely opposite attitudes。

In the little girl's opinion, the faces of these people on the outside are really dull and boring, but in fact, when they have a thing in private, that face is fresh and real, so for the little girl, she is more willing to hear those private ones, alas, that is, because she is young, she has heard a lot of small words, so gradually she has mastered a lot of skills to eavesdrop quietly on the side.

And the little girl thinks that it is because she has heard enough of these things, her own things are wide enough, and she thinks about enough things, so her cognition and understanding of life are very beyond ordinary people, anyway, in his opinion, she is clearer than those brides who are ready to get married.

He knows that for these new families, the husband's family is a completely unfamiliar field, but as brides, they should pay attention to themselves, then the least is their dowry, anyway, who to marry has been decided at this time, and the most important thing for them should be to strive to make their in-laws' family better, so the most basic factor to ensure them is the dowry they married this time.

The little girl doesn't look at every time she says in front of her parents that she will not get married, she is really happy to be by her parents' side, and she must stay by her parents' side all her life, be filial to them, and let them enjoy happiness. But he knew that these words were all learned from those people, that is, the set of high-sounding words on the surface, anyway, such words would please his father and mother, and he would be more favored.

But in fact, the little girl had already planned early, since she heard her father and mother discuss her in private, when the dowry and dowry of the future marriage, she always paid attention to her words and deeds, and strived to do what she said and did, everything could please her parents, and only if they liked themselves more would they be more willing to spend money on themselves, and the richer their dowry, the more comfortable and comfortable they would be in the future.

At that time, the little girl didn't know what the difference was, in her opinion, the dowry was the most decisive factor that determined a woman's marriage happiness, so she would be so stimulated after going to the cousin's wedding for three days, it was the first time in her life that she saw the real so-called ten miles of red makeup.

Of course, it is still an exaggeration to say that the water red makeup is still a little exaggerated, but the dowry of his cousin is already several times that of a person of their status who marries his daughter.

This kind of dowry is enthusiastic enough for the little girl, but then she also gradually knew as she grew older, when those high-ranking families married their daughters, it could be called ten miles of red makeup, this head of the parent may have just entered the door of the co-pilot, and the driver's license has not yet left the door of the mother's house for the last one, so that the situation can be called red ten miles of red makeup, but for Mrs. Jia, who entered the door at that time at a young age, the wedding he observed was the first time he knew in history, it turned out that they were like this, and people can also have such a level of dowry。

And he knows very well that my cousin's family, in fact, is not as good as theirs, but they can give so many things to their daughter, and even when he listens to those people talking in private, he also knows that the dowry sent by the south is several times more than this, and their cousin's parents still left most of the dowry, and only gave a small part of the dowry to their daughter, so that he could take it out of the house as a dowry, even so, the level of this dowry has surprised him like this, envious, and even he was thinking in his heart at that time, if he could have such a dowry when he got married, then he was simply happy。

And when he heard that the man's dowry was several times more than this, most of them were privately deducted by the cousin's parents, and when he wanted to supplement the family, the little girl's heart was full of grievances, and at that moment he seemed to have become the cousin himself, he was simply angry, since it was the man's dowry, then people were completely looking at the cousin's face to give the dowry, why did his parents dare to deduct these in private.

Later, he also listened to a lot of people's discussions, and then he realized that such operations as his cousin's parents were normal. After all, the daughters in the family are generally not valued, and there are several brothers and sisters in addition to this beautiful girl, of course, the girls don't need to worry too much, but the boys each need to marry a wife, and many of the dowries they are in are also lost, his cousin is too beautiful, and is favored by the rich son, so the dowry given by the man is really much, with most of the dowry left over from this part, their own boys don't have to worry about marrying.

That is almost the first time that the false lady who entered the door realized the difference between men and women, before he just thought that there was not much difference between men and women, but in terms of marriage, for men and women is to marry and marry, the two aspects of the man to pay the dowry, the woman to pay the dowry, this is an important factor that can ensure the life of the husband and wife in the future, but he did not realize that the average person is indeed more important in the family.

The little girl is the first time to reflect on the situation in her family, he has a big brother who is five years older than him, anyway, he has the impression that his parents love her very much, after all, the eldest brother is much older than him. The eldest brother couldn't play with him since he was a child, so he really didn't pay attention to his parents, how much difference there was between the two of them, and the most important thing was that the living resources of boys and girls were different, and the things they needed in the environment were different, so there wasn't much comparison at all.