Chapter 61: How to get married and separate?

Can anyone with a discerning eye see it?" Qi Qing expressed deep sympathy for Yan Rushun's naivety and ignorance, "You take a closer look at the boyfriends and girlfriends and couples around you: men and women who have been in a relationship are different from those who have not had a relationship, and the feeling of that look, posture, and movement is different. Even if men and women in love stand far away, they feel that there is a slimy relationship between them, while even if men and women in the Cold War period sit next to each other, there is like a swishing knife wall in the middle, which is full of murderous aura. ”

Yan Rushun's eyes unconsciously looked at the sky, and he recalled with great effort in his mind: "Is there a murderous aura between me and Xin Weiyang?"

"There's no murder between you, and the one in your family is going to look at you every minute, but you don't seem to take anyone seriously at all. Qi Qing glanced her up and down, and guessed boldly, "Don't you look down on him?"

Khan! She didn't notice anything about it.

He is a national-level talent, a genius professor, how dare she look down on him, to be honest, she admires him, appreciates him, and is grateful to him now.

However, Xin Weiyang is cold, she has never thought in the direction of impurity, it is already good to be able to maintain the current relationship with him, a little more than simple cooperation, a little less than a real husband and wife, with a common goal, like comrades fighting side by side.

Maybe it's a little purer, and it can last a little longer.

Xin Weiyang's chosen restaurant was not far from the cafΓ©, and the three of them chatted all the way.

She simply told her about the matter between herself and Xin Weiyang, and Qi Qing's eyes widened at the same time.

Mei Bai asked in surprise: "Did you really quit your job as the general secretary's office? Are you really going to be a kindergarten teacher? Does he really promise to support you?"

Yan Rushun was a little bottomless: "Isn't this okay?"

"And how much did he give you?"

"Their family was going to give ...... In the end, though, I refused. ”

"Oh, my God!" Mei Bai raised his forehead, "In other words, he didn't give you any protection except for a card, so what if he repented in the future?"

Yan Rushun was arrogant: "It's a big deal, I'll sell my house!"

Mei Bai was anxious for her: "You will make your godfather and godmother angry!"

Yan Rushun felt unwilling: "Life is short! Before the age of eighteen, my life was all about their ideas, and now that I am an adult, can't I still decide my own life?"

The truth is true, but not everyone has the qualifications and confidence to be capricious.

Mei Bai spread her hands, not knowing what to say, and finally sighed: "Others always say that I am independent, but compared to the two of you, I am simply not enough." Sure enough, things gather like and people are grouped, why I have maintained such a long-term friendship with the two of you, it is not unreasonable. She patted her little shoulder heavily, "Forget it, you can do whatever you want, it's really not good, I always have you to eat here." ”

Is there a need to be so pessimistic?

Yan Rushun, who was devastated, turned to Qi Qing: "Seventh Master, do you also think that my future is quite pessimistic?"

Qi Qing nodded: "The risk is indeed quite big. ”

Isn't it, do you have to be cheeky to ask for your resignation tomorrow?

"Butβ€”" Qi Qing added, "I'm quite optimistic about you." ”

"Huh, Seventh Master, how do you feel contradictory in what you say. Mei Bai was puzzled.

Qi Qing said: "It depends on how you look at this issue. From a general point of view, Ah Shun gave up a job with a monthly income of 10,000 yuan and a lot of room for promotion, and went to a career with no great prospects, and may even preset his future as a housewife, which is indeed quite risky.

"But, in the long run. The further our society develops, the more refined the division of labor becomes. The same is true for the family, only when the family's financial resources are insufficient, the husband and wife need to work together. Families who have reached a certain level of financial resources will not only focus on the immediate future, but also look forward to the distance and the future.

Specifically, how can wealth and resources be accumulated from generation to generation and continue to develop? There is only one answer: there are successors! Therefore, the real wealthy families now do not flaunt their wealth, but show off their children -- in essence, children are the comprehensive embodiment of the family's strength and potential. Because of this, shows like 'Where Are You Going, Dad' continue to be popular. Therefore, the important skill of parenting children will be more and more valued.

"Once there is a consensus in the whole society, then as long as Ah Shun can make achievements in this area, he can sit back and relax. And Ah Shun has the determination to break the kettle, and the ability is not to be said, I personally think she is definitely a potential stock. ”

Mei Bai was completely stunned, and she stammered and asked, "You mean, Ah Shun can take care of the child and write a book like "Harvard Girl"?"

"It depends on each person's vision, marketing ability and resource network. After a pause, Qi Qing looked at Yan Rushun and laughed, "But for now, if you treat marriage as a profession, your income after marriage is much higher than that of H Communication, right?" ”

"Hmm?" Yan Rushun didn't react, "What income?"

"During the marriage, Professor Xinda's income belongs to the joint income of the husband and wife, and you can share at least half of it. ”

Yan Rushun remembered the bank card in her wallet, and suddenly her face turned feverish - she felt like a person who had blatantly robbed money by getting married.

Qi Qing saw through her thoughts at a glance, put her arm around her shoulders and said, "It's awkward, you can spend your husband's money boldly." Think of it this way: you are the biggest and most important investment he has made for his children. As the saying goes, marrying the wrong wife ruins three generations, a wife who can raise her children well, can prosper the three generations of their Xin family, isn't it worth that money?"

Yan Rushun suddenly brightened: Yes, she didn't marry for nothing, her actions will also be of great significance to the whole family in the future, what are you embarrassed about? !

"However, you have to remember one thing, if a man doesn't value you, he usually doesn't value your child, even if the child is his own, understand?" Qi Qing added earnestly.

She, a woman who is not ready to get married, seems to have seen marriage the most thoroughly, and I don't know if it is because she has had too many experiences over the years. The confident and domineering Seventh Master, for some reason, makes people faintly distressed.

Mei Bai also nodded in agreement: "Yes, just read a few ancient romances, what is the future of those children with three wives and four concubines is closely related to whether their mother can win the favor of their father." ”

Qi Qing "snorted" at her: "Do we Ah Shun still need to live by inviting pets from men?"

Mei Bai hurriedly said: "Don't get me wrong, I just want to say that if Ah Shun wants to be a good father in his family, it is still very important for the husband and wife to live in harmony." ”

Yan Rushun blushed from her face to the base of her neck.

She knew that her friends were well-intentioned, and although this kindness was probably not needed, she still nodded her head in understanding.

Qi Qing sighed: "Therefore, I still think that the life mode of the Mosuo people is more in line with human nature - it doesn't matter whether the relationship between husband and wife is good or not, the relationship between sisters and brothers who grow up together is unbreakable, so my uncle will always love his nephews and nieces." ”

Yan Rushun and Mei Bai exchanged glances, and thought to themselves: It turns out that her husband was PK by her brother, could this be the legendary brother-lover complex?

As he spoke, the restaurant had arrived.

The four of them sat down and chatted while eating.

Qi Qing and Mei Bai thanked Xin Weiyang, and began to torture some clichΓ©d questions with laughter, such as the details of Yan Rushun's understanding, Xin Weiyang's confession, and so on.

Without Qi Qing's shocking words before, the whole lunch was much more relaxed and enjoyable.

Halfway through the meal, the captain pulled the stinky and began to cry.

With the previous experience, the cooperation of the three women this time is much neater.

Mei Bai and Yan Rushun felt that they had a hard time with and pee, and they rushed to make trouble thinking that they were the godmothers of their children.

As a result, Xin Weiyang, who has not yet experienced a woman, took the lead in experiencing a happy father.

Yan Rushun handed over a ball of meat to the child and asked him to hug him, and he looked distorted and stayed away - it was not that he disliked the child, but that this soft and boneless little meat ball was tantamount to a little monster to him.

The three women laughed at him for a long time.

On the return trip, Xin Weiyang first sent Mei Bai, Qi Qing and the child to Mei Bai's new home, and then drove Yan Rushun to the rented house.

Yan Rushun relaxed and sighed long: "I don't accept anyone, so I will obey Qi Qing." ”

Xin Weiyang's heart suddenly lifted, and he felt that the real test had just begun.

He cleared his throat and retorted euphemistically: "Actually, she may not be good to the child like this, didn't you also say that the absence of a father has an impact on the child's personality." ”

Yan Rushun glanced at him with a smile: "What, I'm afraid I'll sweep you out of the house?"

It is about the dignity of men, Xin Weiyang subconsciously denied: "It's not ......"

Yan Rushun had already smiled and said, "Don't worry, Qi Qing and Meibai didn't persuade me to leave my husband, they have a good impression of you." ”

He breathed a sigh of relief and wanted to make a joke: "If you are as rich as Qi Qing, you won't dump me too, right?"

"Uh......" Yan Rushun thought for a moment and replied half-jokingly, "It depends on whether you can be a good father or not." ”

Xin Weiyang: "......" instantly felt a lot of pressure.

He decided to change the subject: "By the way, where would you like to move to?"

One is the nest that Yan Rushun has just installed, and the other is a hardcover room that lives next to Meibai.

Yan Rushun is inclined to that hardcover room, there is one more room, and it has been shelved for almost half a year, the decoration pollution is relatively light, and she can often walk around with Mei Bai and Qi Qing.

Xin Weiyang intuitively couldn't let his wife get close to Mei Bai and Qi Qing, and tried his best to persuade her to move to the nest, saying that her hard work could not be wasted.

Yan Rushun said that the suite had just been renovated, and the pollution was still heavy, so it could not be inhabited for the time being.

Xin Weiyang said that he would rather stay in the rented house for half a year, so as not to move around and toss.

After talking for a long time, the two didn't decide where to move.

As soon as they stepped into the rental house, the eyes of the two collided head-on with Xin's mother, and they were stunned.

Xin Mu had a straight face, and her expression was not very good-looking.

The two glanced at each other, and before they could say hello, Xin's mother took the lead and blew up: "How did you do it? Why do you sleep in two rooms after getting married?"

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