Chapter 108: A Month of Early Education
Yan Rushun brushed his hand and said funny: "What's the hurry, the puerperium is a month and a half." ”
That is, you have to wait for half a month.
Xin Weiyang couldn't help but hang his head.
has a child, there are people in the family all the time, and Yan Rushun is accompanied by the confinement lady anytime and anywhere, and she also guards the little milk baby. He and Yan Rushun didn't have time to be alone at all, and finally Sister Wu went home on vacation today, but he couldn't do "bad things" at this opportunity, and he felt very depressed.
What's even more depressing is that he just promised his wife that after Sister Wu left, he would immediately invite a sister-in-law to come back.
My wife also said that she would have to ask for at least another three months.
Wouldn't his life as a monk end at least later?
After a moment of silence for his little brother, Xin Weiyang decided to devote all his energy to contributing to the country's communications industry.
Although Xin Weiyang had already tried his best to compromise on the matter of the confinement sister-in-law, after the final decision was announced at dinner, it still caused strong dissatisfaction from Xin's mother.
Sister-in-law is cheaper, but it still costs money.
12,000 a month is 78,000 a month, it's not cheap!
Since Sister Wu was not there, Xin's mother said without scruples: "You really don't treat money as money? Shun Shun basically has no income now, and you spend money so lavishly, have you considered it in the future? Do you need to hire one for the childcare sister-in-law, one for the housemaid, one for the cook, and another for the housekeeper, we are directly on par with the life of the British aristocracy?"
Yan Rushun buried her head in eating and did not open her mouth.
It's not that she's too squeamish, but if she wants to code words well, she must have someone who can take care of Jian Jian.
Otherwise, as soon as there was a little idea here, Jian Jian would cry over there, and when he finished a busy circle, he would have forgotten all his inspiration. Or if you have a heart in mind, but you have to be patient to comfort the child, you are anxious and impatient, and it is easy to make mistakes.
However, she can't make this reason clear, because she can't make money by writing now, and she will definitely be ridiculed if she says it. Even if she pulls the tiger skin of entrepreneurship, she can not recruit that wind.
On the other hand, if the mother-in-law or the old mother can really come up, the money can indeed be saved. However, although the mother-in-law can listen to the new ideas, the implementation is always a little poor, and she is obsessed with her daughter's work problems, and she has to babble a few words from time to time, which greatly affects her mood.
Yan Rushun can only hope for her sister-in-law.
At the moment, spending money is to make better money, and anyway, Xin Weiyang said that the money is given to her to spend. She comforted herself silently and cheekily.
In any case, at Xin Weiyang's insistence, a plan to hire another sister-in-law was determined.
Xin's mother's kindness was denied again, and she couldn't help complaining resentfully for several days.
Yan's mother listened to her complaints, and said a few words along with her words, but she didn't say a word in front of her daughter.
In her opinion, the sister-in-law was invited to take care of the Xin family's children, and as long as Xin Weiyang could afford it, it was a matter of course. It's just that in the end, he was a head shorter in front of Xin's mother, and he didn't speak so reasonably.
Of course, this does not mean that she will admit it in front of Xin's mother.
As the life of the three families becomes more and more intertwined, more and more parts of everyone's disagreement are discovered.
But when it comes to Yan's mother's profession, or what she thinks is necessary, the two mothers have to argue.
For example, Yan's mother insisted on using 84 disinfectant to sterilize and disinfect her home, and Xin's mother felt that Yan's mother brought the smell of the hospital into the home, which was quite unlucky.
As a result, the two mothers acted as the pros and cons of the debate topic of "whether you are sick if you don't eat clean", and conducted several rounds of inhumane decisive battles, which made the home full of gunsmoke and low air pressure.
In order not to set themselves on fire, the others let the two mothers quarrel and only wait for the final winner to formulate a future household cleaning version ISO9001.
If the debate on this issue is indeed about practical application, then issues such as whether the knife should be hung up or inserted in the knife holder, whether the dishwasher should be hung up and dried or spread out to dry, whether the bag should be stored in the cabinet anytime and anywhere for the sake of beauty, or put it in the entrance for convenience, etc., are purely public and reasonable, and the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law is reasonable.
After the child was full moon, Sister Zhou, the sister-in-law of child-rearing, successfully took over Sister Wu's work, and Xin Weiyang devoted herself to work with confidence, leaving Yan Rushun trapped in these trivial things every day, annoying.
And when she finally calmed down the two mothers, and then looked around, she found that the beautifully designed bungalow had been mixed and matched beyond recognition, and the feeling was simply maddening.
Qi Qing took the captain to visit her and Jian Jian, and Yan Rushun was exhausted and looked dying.
Qi Qing, who was strong in her heart, couldn't understand her madness and collapse: "It's all trivial, why bother." ”
The captain was already able to walk on his own, but he couldn't speak yet, but at this time he should cry "oh oh oh" like his mother, and his eyes were full of curiosity about his ugly sister.
Yan Rushun sighed: "It's true that it's all trivial, but when the little things are endless, and day after day, you will fall deep into the abyss of negative energy and can't extricate yourself." To be honest, I thought I was already very positive, but at the moment, there is still no way to resist the impact of the negative energy atomic bomb. ”
Qi Qing didn't answer her immediately.
The captain danced at Jian Jian's hands, and couldn't be quiet for a moment, she had to put down the captain and let him explore Jian Jian's little hands and feet curiously through the gap in the railing of the crib, she just whispered to her son to be sure to touch it gently, not to hurt his sister.
The active captain really didn't make any effort, scratching Jian Jian and laughing.
The two little ones interacted, and the scene was warm and quiet.
Yan Rushun's motherhood was cured, and her impetuousness suddenly calmed down a lot.
Qi Qing said at this time: "Although it is inevitable that these parents will be short, we can't be limited by it. Let's just talk about me, when the captain was young, his facial features were not clear enough, and others didn't think it was particularly strange when they saw it. Now, his mixed-race characteristics are very clear, and I don't know how many of those classmates, friends, and neighbors slander me for going out of the wall, and I want to be like you when I hear these words, I will not just jump my feet, but jump off the building directly. ”
She claims to the outside world that Cousin Chen is her child's father, but no matter how chic Cousin Chen is, he is still an authentic descendant of China, and he and her son are basically two molds, no wonder it will attract criticism.
Yan Rushun imagined that scene, and couldn't help laughing for a while, and asked, "Didn't you explain?"
"Do you need it?" Qi Qing's posture widened, and her aura was full of crushing, "My parents only think that I broke up with a foreign man now, and then gave birth to a child out of wedlock, so why should I explain to unrelated outsiders." ”
actually concealed half of the truth.
Yan Rushun sweated: Anyway, Qi's father and mother finally knew the existence of the child, and they didn't know how big their psychological shadow area was at that time.
In front of the powerful Seventh Master, Yan Rushun fully realized his mortal nature.
She asked, "Do you really not care about the terrible words of people?"
Qi Qing glanced at her, and then looked down at the two little guys: "Of course it is impossible not to care at all." ”
"Then how do you calmly face the gossip?"
Qi Qing shrugged: "It's very simple, just focus on your goal." He looked at her strangely, "Don't you have the ambition to become a great mother, isn't a simple enough thing for you to do, how can you still have so much energy to care about family tears?"
A word wakes up the dreamer.
Yan Rushun was both ashamed and admired: Yes, her biggest goal now is to bring Xiao Jane well, and the second goal is to write it well, even if other things don't go your way? Let go and let the two mothers take care of it, she should grasp the main contradictions.
She made up her mind to learn from the Seventh Master and stay sober anytime and anywhere.
So, she finally calmed down, gathered her mind, and focused on her goals.
Although Jian Jian has only been for more than a month, there are already a lot of things that can be done.
She now sleeps just over ten hours a day, with about six or seven hours of waking time. Whenever she was refreshed, she always looked around with wide eyes and curiosity.
This time is actually precious.
Yan Rushun knew that she needed to hurry up and interact with her, and the best way was to take her to know the world around her.
For example, take out a cloth ball, put it in front of her eyes about ten centimeters to show her, and repeatedly tell her: "Jian Jian, this is a ball." ”
Jian Jian, like all children in the world, followed her mother's movements with curious eyes that were so clear that there was no trace of impurities.
When Yan Rushun then put the ball in her hand, rolled it over her, and led her to turn her neck to look here and there, she would smile and let out a very infectious crisp laugh.
Jian Jian also likes to watch throwing and catching balls.
Yan Rushun took the trouble to say: "Throw the ball...... Catch the ball...... Throwing the ball...... Catch the ball......"
Admittedly, this is definitely one of the most boring games in the world.
When the game is played 800 times, it easily becomes the most boring game in the world - there is no one.
But as long as she saw Jian Jian watching them play very carefully, Yan Rushun gritted her teeth and insisted. Even if Sister Zhou yawned over and over again, she didn't see it.
Of course, she won't just play ball. Such as cloth books, small dumbbells, wind chimes, pictures, word cards, and even cups with warm water, cool cucumbers, potholed potatoes, flashlights that are turned on and off, vinegar bowls with a sour smell, etc., as long as she can contact things in life, she tries her best to let Jian Jian use her five senses to perceive and recognize.
When this kind of work is deepened, even the time for changing diapers is fully utilized.
Every time, she took the trouble to disassemble her movement process in a gentle voice: "Mom, now untie your diaper...... See soft wipes...... Mommy is going to wipe your little ass with soft wipes...... Mommy lifts your little feet...... Mommy wants a clean new diaper under your ass...... Isn't your little ass dry...... Now mom glues the belt, okay, your diaper is ready!"
Absolute ISO9001 operating standard.
Every time she repeats this, when she talks about herself, her lips and tongue are stiff, and Sister Zhou looks numb from the sobbing smile on her face, until she screams that her mother-in-law can't bear it: "Shun Shun, can you spare us?"
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