Chapter 109: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's experimental dispute
Yan Rushun was puzzled: "Mom, what's wrong?"
Xin's mother rubbed her temples and squirted: "Don't you know that I have a migraine? Now, you keep chanting some things every day, just like a monk chanting sutras, which makes my mind jump suddenly. I ask you: What are you talking about?"
Yan Rushun felt aggrieved when she heard it.
No matter how boring she felt, she insisted on chattering for hours every day, talking until her saliva dried and her throat became hoarse, and she didn't complain, but her mother-in-law didn't do anything, but instead complained about her bitterness on the side, and criticized her for disturbing people's purity.
It's really worse than Dou E.
She defended quite unconvinced: "Mom, I'm doing early education for Jian Jian." Talking to her now can help her develop her comprehension and language skills. ”
Xin's mother covered her cheeks, as if she was about to laugh and lose her big teeth: "Ouch, how old is An An, can she understand what you say so much? Don't think that you can recite a few words of mantra and you can pull out the seedlings to help them grow." ”
What a mantra, this is not witchcraft!
Yan Rushun puffed up her chest a little angrily, and explained in a hard tone: "Mom, don't talk nonsense if you don't understand, okay? Now that Jian Jian's brain is developing at a high speed, the more sensory stimulation we give her, the more synapses in her brain will be, and the smarter she will be when she grows up." How can this be said to be a seedling pulling?"
Xin's mother waved her hand disappreciatively: "Don't show me those professional terms, let me tell you, I didn't do these things for Yang Yang at the beginning, and Yang Yang hasn't become two hundred and five now." ”
As far as he could tell the truth, Yan Rushun clenched his fists angrily: "Mom, a genius like Weiyang is something that can be met but not sought." Now none of us can guarantee that Jian Jian will also be born a genius, if we miss the golden period of her brain development, only to find out that she is just an ordinary child, then we will regret death?"
Xin's mother sneered: "Don't tell me these words, I used to talk to my parents a lot." I have been teaching for decades in my life, and I have seen countless tricks in the teaching process, and I have never heard of your method of tossing. ”
also uses her profession to oppress people, so she bullied her because she wasn't from a professional background, right?
Yan Rushun was angry: "Mom, there must be more things you haven't heard." Thirty years ago, who knew what mobile phones and computers were? Now everyone is used to seeing them; Twenty years ago, IVF was still a fantasy for everyone, and now there are advertisements for IVF all over the street; Ten years ago, no one dared to imagine what it was like for a mobile phone to travel all over the world, but now, take-out and Didi are not too convenient, and even the old women on the street use Alipay. The times are developing, things and ideas are changing with each passing day, are we still living by the old yellow calendar before you retire?"
That's a very polite remark.
Both sides moved real fire.
Xin's mother was so angry that she slapped the table and asked, "That's okay, I'm Lao Huangli, and you're the new era." Let me ask you, after you tossed for so much half a month, will An An be able to speak?"
Even if Wenqu Xing descends to earth, it is impossible to speak for more than a month!
Yan Rushun's heart was suddenly blocked, and she gritted her teeth and argued: "Mom, can you be reasonable? Jian Jian can't even raise her head and turn over now, how can she control the muscles in her throat to speak? Moreover, even if she has a different talent and that control ability, she must have enough language input for her brain to build the entire language system......
She spoke endlessly.
Xin Mu didn't want to hear it at all, so she asked unceremoniously: "Okay, don't talk about the big truth, just tell me the time." With your input, An An will be able to speak for a few months?"
How is this possible to give a timetable?
Every child has different talents and different characteristics.
Some people like to speak when they understand a little, even if it is just a word by word; some people have to pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger when they understand it all, and when you start to suspect that it has a language barrier, a phrase or even a sentence suddenly pops up; and some babble two sentences when they are in a good mood, and they don't open their mouths at other times.
Unless she was an immortal, how could she know now that Jian Jian would open her mouth in a few months.
Yan Rushun was almost mad when she was choked by her mother-in-law's words.
She pressed her chest to force the breath down, and said angrily, "I can't tell you the exact time, but I can be sure of one thing: I will do it sooner than if I don't." ”
Xin's mother spread her hands: "How to prove it?"
She doesn't have big data in her hands, and it is impossible for there to be two Jian Jian to do the experimental group and the control group.
But it can't be said that it's wrong for the mother-in-law to want to verify it.
is so strong that Yan Rushun suddenly held back his face and flushed: "Mom, you come with me to see Jian Jian's concentration." ”
Biting her lip, she walked to the side of the crib and stood still, adjusted her mood, took out her mobile phone and fiddled with it again, and then called "Jian Jian" softly, and stretched out her hand to play a game with her: "Jian Jian, look at Mom...... Look, it's Mom's left hand, look at it......"
She suddenly raised her hand and said in an exaggerated tone, "Left hand - up...... Left hand – put down...... Raise your left hand...... Put your left hand down ...... "Over and over again, over and over again."
Jian Jian stared at her mother with a saliva in her eyes, her clear eyes full of curiosity and inquiry, and she grinned and giggled from time to time.
Xin's mother's eyes went up and down like a convulsion with her movements, and she didn't see a name for a long time, so she threw a sentence angrily: "Inexplicable!"
Yan Rushun ignored her, and waited until Jian Jian lost interest in her movements and turned her head to look away, before she confidently handed the phone to her mother-in-law: "Mom, look, when I was playing a game with Jian Jian just now, although my movements were very simple, she stared at her eyes for twenty-five seconds without blinking, about half a minute! I think this should show that her concentration has really improved through the game.
"And because I told her the words 'left hand,' 'up,' and 'put down,' she was able to understand the meaning of these words early on, and even learn the subject-verb structure of the sentence. When her vocabulary and sentence structure accumulate to a certain extent, she will naturally speak. So, I input a lot of language to her through the game, and it's not a meaningless act. ”
Xin's mother rubbed her temples irritably again: "You have been talking for a long time or a theory, this theory is public and reasonable, and my mother-in-law is reasonable, so don't talk about these things that are not there." You say she can understand the word 'left hand,' so can she refer to my left hand when I say 'left hand'?"
Yan Rushun was forced to go up the cliff, and the upper and lower rows of teeth touched fiercely: "Okay, I'll show you the evidence." ”
She casually picked up the cloth ball and cloth book that she used to play with Jian Jian before, walked back to the side of the crib, carried a toy in each hand, and hung it in front of her daughter left and right.
Mother Xin didn't know what medicine was buried in her gourd, so she stood on tiptoe and watched. Even Sister Wu, who was huddled in the corner just now to avoid trouble, was curious to come up and watch the excitement.
Both of them have the same thought: Could it be that such a little baby can really create miracles?
Yan Rushun looked full of confidence, but in fact, he didn't have any bottom in his heart. It's just that the loser doesn't lose, so why should she give it a try.
Didn't she think she hadn't read "Introduction to Psychology"?
She took a deep breath, then raised her voice and asked softly, "Jian Jian, where is your ball?"
As soon as the words fell, the three women all held their breath and looked at Xiao Xin'an.
Jian Jian didn't seem to understand what her mother meant, waved her little arm and kicked her calf, and let out a vague "oh".
Xin's mother teased her granddaughter with ridicule: "Oh, An An, do you really know?"
Yan Rushun ignored her, and repeated softly: "Jian Jian, where is your ball, see where your ball is?"
This time, the daughter glanced quickly at her left hand and then moved her gaze back to her mother.
Yan Rushun suddenly jumped up excitedly: "Look at you, she knows what a ball is." As soon as I asked, she looked at my left hand. ”
Xin's mother couldn't help but roll her eyes: "A glance can prove that she knows? I think she just glanced to the left casually, you just hit a dead mouse with a blind cat." ”
Yan Rushun was unconvinced: "We can experiment again!"
She turned around and asked again, "Jian Jian, where is your book?"
The three women held their breath and waited for the result, but Xin'an's children cried loudly.
Xin's mother complained angrily: "Look, look, toss and turn, but it scared An An." Oh, An An doesn't cry, An An doesn't cry, grandma hugs. ”
How can there be such a pot?
Yan Rushun pulled her face and stopped her: "Mom, wait for Sister Wu to check it out and find out why she is crying." ”
Sister Wu had already opened a slit on the diaper's lining, and glanced at it: "Ouch, she stinks." ”
Look, is this what you said scared you to cry?
Yan Rushun glanced at her mother-in-law defiantly.
Xin's mother didn't eat her at all, raised her head and snorted: "If you hadn't tossed people miserably, how could people suddenly stink?"
What kind of fallacy is this? It's really old and stubborn, rotten wood that can't be carved!
Yan Rushun was so angry that he died.
She has the heart to pull her mother-in-law and mother to theorize well, and she has to defeat her crooked reasoning. However, Jian Jian had to wash her buttocks with water, and after washing her buttocks, she wanted to drink milk, and she had to coax her to sleep after feeding.
After this mess was completed, she thought about the theory again, but the daylilies were cold.
Damn, the nature of the country is easy to change, and she shouldn't expect to transform her mother-in-law.
No, she didn't want to reform her mother-in-law at first, it was her mother-in-law who always wanted to point out her parenting plan.
If you can't understand the advanced concept of parenting, you won't admit it if you have strong evidence in front of you. Insisting on going his own way and covering his ears and stealing the bell to this extent, he can simply participate in the "Wonderful Talk".
Just like that, I wanted to coax her to go to work and take over Jian Jian by myself, but she would only agree when she had a long brain.
Hmph, Jian Jian must not be handed over to her mother-in-law!
Yan Rushun was indignant, feeling that she couldn't be wiser to be at home full-time.
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