Chapter 137 The mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law was reasonable, and the daughter-in-law said that the daughter-in-law was reasonable
Xin Weiyang's tone finally turned and he was in a bad mood: "But this matter is not in a hurry, I've been busy recently, how can I have the heart to think about this?"
Work is the right thing, the big guy is not good to persuade again, casually concerned about his work and life situation, and then shouted to go out to play mahjong.
Only Xin Weiyang and Yan Rushun, who needed to take care of the children, stayed, just to guard the house.
Without the help of others, everything is self-reliant.
Xin Weiyang clumsily followed Yan Rushun's instructions, sterilizing the milk bottle, warming the milk, preparing the breast pump, brushing the teeth, washing the face, washing the little fart, and then took out the portable folding bathtub and mixed it with warm water to bathe her daughter, and she was so busy that her feet did not touch the ground.
After this period of exercise, the novice father's bathing skills have been greatly improved, Jian Jian put a swimming neck ring in the bathtub, while leisurely walking in the water, while letting the father scratch a few handfuls from time to time, very comfortable.
Yan Rushun took the opportunity to tell him the right thing: "Do you want to have a second child?"
This topic is a bit sensitive.
Xin Weiyang coughed and asked tentatively: "You don't want to have a second child?"
Yan Rushun couldn't help but roll her eyes: "I beg you to use your brain to think about it, where do we have the conditions to have a second child? β
Xin Weiyang didn't understand what she meant, so he pondered and asked, "Isn't the money enough to spend?"
Yan Rushun glared at him: "Did I say it's a matter of money? The most realistic problem, who will take the child after it is born? Don't say hand it over to our mother, I really can't trust her." As for my parents, don't expect me, my mother is really sad, her tenosynovitis is now more serious than mine. Of course, I'm even more impossible. β
Xin Weiyang hesitated and asked, "Why can't you?"
"Now with Jian Jian full-time, I have been despised by our mother and my mother all day long, and I am about to grow up, and I will soon be able to enter kindergarten, so I can free my hands, and you let me have a second child? !
Xin Weiyang smiled dryly: "Don't despise it, you are too exaggerated." β
"Exaggerated?" Yan Rushun sneered, "I won't say that it's wrong for me to take a child, I'll just say one thing: our mother publicly told my mother that I studied in college for nothing, and my mother even felt ashamed that I went to a class reunion, do you know what kind of life I've been here for more than a year?"
Xin Weiyang was speechless.
He witnessed the whole process of how his arrogant wife was blocked by the poisonous tongue of the two mothers and hid in the corner and secretly wept, and he really couldn't say anything to make her ignore the gossip.
Yan Rushun asked, "Do you really want a second child?"
Do you really want to?
Before, he didn't even think it would matter if he didn't get married.
In the bathtub, Jian Jian raised her head and yelled at her father dissatisfied, wanting her father to scratch her a few more times, but her red face was so tender that it made people's hearts soft.
Xin Weiyang involuntarily smiled at her daughter, reached out and tickled her a few times, making her giggle before replying, "Uh...... To be honest, I just think that if Jian Jian had a younger brother or sister to accompany her, maybe she would be happier if she grew up together. β
Yan Rushun asked, "Do you have to?"
"Not really. β
"Isn't that the end!" Yan Rushun twisted his arm hard, "Let me tell you, unless I make a lot of money and can block the mouths of the two mothers, I will never consider having a second child, hum!"
Xin Weiyang grinned and hissed, and said helplessly: "Bring the bath towel, it's time for the little ancestor to get up." β
That night, I don't know if it was because I didn't adapt to the change of environment or because I was frightened by my relatives during the day, Jian Jian slept badly.
For no reason, I woke up several times in one night.
Every time it was a sudden heart-rending cry in the silence, the frightened voice was like a magic sound, tearing the nerves of Xin Weiyang and Yan Rushun fiercely, scaring them from the dream world A carp jumped straight back to the real world, and then groped for clothes and children in a dizzy state.
And every time she wakes up, Jian Jian needs her mother to comfort her for a long time, and she can't sleep by herself no matter what.
Yan Rushun had to break the rules and hold her until she fell asleep.
Several times, I saw that my eyelids were also closed, and my little arms were hanging down, but after being put on the small bed, before the little couple could completely relax their nerves, the tearing cry sounded again, causing the two to have to start again.
Since Jian Jian was able to sleep a whole night, Yan Rushun had not been woken up so frequently for a long time, and Xin Weiyang had suffered this crime for the first time.
The two of them tossed and turned around for most of the night, and finally got a moment of peace at dawn.
Yan Rushun fell asleep.
The novice father was lying on the bed exhausted, only to feel as if there was an electric drill working in his head, and the next moment it would explode directly, so that he obviously wanted to sleep, but all his senses were vibrating and he couldn't sleep.
For the rest of the day, he was wandering in a chaotic situation that didn't know whether he was asleep or not.
The only thing he remembered was a magic voice lingering in it: in fact, a child seemed to have enough to bear......
When they got up the next day, both of them were depressed and yawning.
Throughout the morning, the two of them fought hard and took Jian Jian for a walk, to see relatives, and finally after eating, they had the ambition to go straight to the bedroom together, ready to take a nap together while Jian Jian was napping.
Unfortunately, Xin Weiyang was stopped by his mother, saying that it was rare for him to be free, and the mother and son just had a heart-to-heart conversation.
Oh, talk to the heart, talk about it.
Xin Weiyang sat down with his mother with the tragedy of killing people but not nodding his head.
And Xin's mother's so-called heart-to-heart talk is for the second child.
If you want to talk about Yan Rushun's daughter-in-law, in general, she is okay, and other things are easy to discuss, but when it comes to children, she can't get along with her, and often pushes her son out as a shield, saying what "Wei Yang also thinks so, Mom, if you think there is a problem, why don't you tell Wei Yang first, if he agrees, I have no opinion."
Hmph, I don't know what kind of curse this woman put on her son, who obeyed her.
I really have a daughter-in-law and forget my mother.
In short, around her granddaughter, she has not been fighting with her daughter-in-law for three or two days, and in general, she has lost more and won less.
Therefore, she also learned to be smart, and did not tear up with Yan Rushun on the matter of the second child, but found her son in a roundabout way, ready to fight the snake and hit the seven inches.
If the son agrees, see what else the daughter-in-law can say.
She said bitterly and tear-jerking, in addition to some of the reasons mentioned yesterday, the most mentioned is: "People say that children and grandchildren are around their knees and family fun, I have a granddaughter now, but Shun Shun always thinks I hold too much, afraid that her daughter will be spoiled." Over time, An An was not willing to let me get close, and it was difficult for me to hug me once. What do you mean by my grandmother......"
Thinking of Yan Rushun's cruel words last night, Xin Weiyang could only sigh: "Mom, since you dislike her for not having a job, she must not be in the mood to have a second child, I don't think you should be strong." β
"Aren't I just talking about it, I'm an elder and can't say two words about juniors?" Xin's mother was still in a false voice in the previous sentence, and the latter sentence began to be raised.
"You said that I had nothing to be sorry for her except for a few words? When she gave birth, I also ran before and after! When she took care of the children, I also helped with housework, doing this and that! I didn't think An An was a girl like other feudal mothers-in-law, right?
"In the beginning, she told me that she was going to have two, didn't she? At that time, she made me happy and made me think it was good for her to marry into our family. Oh, now that she's married, and she's halfway there, she's gone?"
Xin Weiyang frowned, yawned, and said embarrassedly: "Mom, Shun Shun doesn't seem to have said that he wants to give birth to two, right?"
"Why not, I remember it clearly. β
"How do I remember, it was Shun Shun's mother who said it. β
Xin's mother was stunned, and then waved her hand: "It's the same, it's all their family said anyway." β
Xin Weiyang: "Mom, you can't say that......"
Xin Mu interrupted him: "We don't fight for this, and this doesn't matter. Well, if Shun Shun doesn't want to give birth because she is afraid of pain, then I have an idea here: Didn't she have a friend who gave birth to a child by surrogacy? I heard that she is quite healthy and beautiful. You go back and discuss it with her, and you also go to surrogacy to have a baby. β
"Huh?" his slumber was scared away.
Xin's mother glared at him: "Ah what, you tell Shun Shun that I will pay for this money." β
But it's not just a matter of paying for it.
Xin Weiyang sweated: "Mom, don't think about it as soon as you come out, the child has to be raised and taught after birth, this is not a simple matter." Now that An An's side hasn't sorted it out yet, can we slowly talk about the second child?"
Xin's mother disagreed: "What's so difficult about raising? she doesn't want to bring me here!"
"You can bring it. Xin Weiyang's words made Xin's mother want to vomit blood.
However, thinking about her daughter-in-law's temper, Xin's mother decided to endure it: as long as the child is born, Yan Rushun can't bring it herself, can she still not let her interfere?
After making up her mind, she compromised on the surface: "Okay, if you don't want me to bring it, I can understand it." Then invite a sister-in-law to come, and I will help watch or help on the sidelines. I'll also pay for my sister-in-law's money, so it's always okay, right?"
She was also watching from the sidelines before, but she couldn't bear to point fingers, which caused a lot of contradictions.
Xin Wei scolded and said bluntly: "Mom, I have the money to take care of the child, but the question is, can you accept Shun Shun's educational philosophy? If not, it will be a matter of time before you and Shun Shun have a conflict, and when the time comes, the family will be unhappy all day long because of the child, so why bother?"
Xin's mother asked dissatisfiedly: "Oh, as far as your wife's education concept is good, my concept is ruinedβdidn't I bring you up? I also brought you like this when I was a child, have you been spoiled? Have you been wronged? Are you abnormal? Or do you have some psychological shadow?"
Xin Weiyang was speechless all of a sudden.
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