Xin's mother complained to Yan Rushun: "You usually raise An An too delicately, and you can't stand ......it at all."

The daughter was frightened, and Yan Rushun was already distressed. As soon as my mother-in-law said this again, she couldn't help but say: "Mom, children have a stage of recognizing life, which is normal, and it will be fine after this time, and it has nothing to do with how we raise it." ”

"If you raise it roughly, the time for recognizing life is short. Xin's mother had the tone of a passerover.

How can there be such a thing?

The child's sense of security is more important than anything else, when the child needs the protection of the mother, if she pushes her daughter into the situation she is afraid of, then who knows if it will leave a childhood shadow in Jian Jian's heart.

To hurt her daughter's fragile little heart for the sake of a bigger fart and a little face, this is simply putting the cart before the horse!

In front of so many relatives, she couldn't keep talking to her mother-in-law, so she smiled lightly.

Xin Weiyang hurriedly protected his wife and children: "Mom, what are you talking about." Today's grandfather's birthday, do you have to make the child cry to be happy?"

As soon as he said this, he finally closed this public case temporarily.

It's just that Xin's mother and Yan Rushun are a little uncomfortable in their hearts, but they didn't show it in front of their relatives.

Yan Rushun whispered to Xin Weiyang and bit his ears: "You look at it more today, your relatives are too enthusiastic, and sometimes they will do bad things with good intentions." In some cases, it is not convenient for me to speak, so I can only rely on you. ”

Xin Weiyang nodded, indicating that he knew, and felt that today's scene was a bit chaotic, and secretly hoped that it would end soon.

At this end, Xin's mother complained to her sister-in-law: "Look at it, my daughter-in-law guards me all day long, for fear that I will touch An An, and my granddaughter will not be close to me." I have a granddaughter and I don't have a granddaughter, and I'm sad to death. ”

The sister-in-law smiled and whispered to her, "At least you don't have to work hard, that's good." ”

Xin's mother snorted to show her dissatisfaction.

Seeing this, the sister-in-law whispered to her: "Today is a good day for Dad, don't be unhappy, there are so many ways to hug your grandson, do you want your sister-in-law to say no to you?"

Xin's mother was tempted, put her ears on it, and asked, "What's the way?"

The sister-in-law squeezed her eyes at the other end of the table: "Jian Jian is also seven months old, you can let Yang Yang give birth to a second child." No matter how capable Shun Shun is, can he dominate two babies at the same time?"

I can't help it, so I naturally have to hand one out and ask someone to bring it, maybe I even ask my grandmother for help.

Xin's mother suddenly brightened up, and muttered to her sister-in-law with a smile.

Yan Rushun didn't know what her mother-in-law was scheming about, she felt hungry at the moment.

A table full of delicacies was placed in front of her, but she had to take care of the little ancestor first.

The supplementary food was prepared by Qingcheng a long time ago, and there were just a few children who were about the same, so the relatives helped Jian Jian prepare by the way, which saved them trouble.

Yan Rushun thanked him and took out a simple bowl and added a spoonful.

Xin Weiyang is next to assembling the baby high chair.

The relatives of the Fu family looked strange - whose children here are not held on their knees, and the adults are fed spoonful by spoonful, but Xin Weiyang and his family still have to make such trouble, and the people in the city are really good at playing.

Yan Rushun didn't care about other people's eyes, calmly wiped Jian Jian's hands, put on a bib, and then put the rice bowl on the plate, and began to feed the rice spoonful by spoonful.

When the relatives were thinking that "one more baby high chair is no different", they saw Xin'an children stretching out their little paws in the bowl and digging it out, and then stuffed it directly into their mouths with their hands full of paste, eating half of it, and half of it was pasted on the mouth, face, dinner board, and even the floor, which can be described as a mess.

No wonder you have to eat chairs, otherwise wouldn't this stall all fall on adults?

The child himself was happy to eat, while eating while watching his mother grin, the mother did not feel any different, while feeding the child while smiling and watching her take out the paste, it seems that it is already a habit, only Xin's mother turned around to hide her face, and couldn't bear to look directly.

Is this a return to primitive society?

When we countrymen don't pay attention to it, the city people pay attention to it so much that we can't understand it. Now when we countrymen begin to pay attention to it, the city people don't pay attention to it anymore, and they can't understand it.

The faces of the crowd were quite wonderful.

Xin's mother's sister-in-law really couldn't see it, so she came over and whispered to Yan Rushun: "Oh, Shunshun, you can't let the child make trouble by himself, this is a mess, and half of the food is lost, no child here eats like this, and the relatives will laugh at it." ”

Yan Rushun smiled politely and explained, "Auntie, Jian Jian is not making trouble, she just wants to eat by herself." Although it doesn't look good, it can exercise her motor ability and awareness of eating by herself, and we can clean up after eating in a while. ”

Seeing her resolute attitude, my aunt was inconvenient to say more, so she had to retreat to her place in a huff.

Xin's mother made eye contact with her, and said with a smile: "I told you a long time ago, my daughter-in-law has a lot of crooked truths, and she still doesn't listen to what she says." Yang Yang only knows how to defend his wife, and I have a good heart to treat it as a wolf's liver and lungs. ”

After all, it's a birthday, and it's not good to be unhappy, so my sister-in-law subconsciously played a round: "I heard Shun Shun say that she also has her reasoning, maybe that's what people in the city are doing now." ”

"!" Xin's mother gritted her teeth, "I chatted with other children and grandmothers in the community, and I didn't find any ones like her, only if she wanted to come out one by one, An An would be raised by her as a monkey in the future, so I would slowly settle accounts with her!"

Sister-in-law comforted: "Shun Shun is always An An's mother, she shouldn't have a bad heart, you go back and bother more, just teach it yourself." ”

Speaking of this, Xin's mother was even more angry: "You think easily. An An has been raised by her so much that she can't take it back. I said to wipe An An's hands clean, put the bowl up, and don't let her touch it, so she howled and cried, lost her temper, and refused to eat. What can I do?"

At this moment, my sister-in-law could only laugh awkwardly.

On this side, Yan Rushun was also biting her ears with Xin Weiyang: "Look at those children who are about the same age as Jian Jian, when adults feed them, they love to eat or not, and taking a bite seems to give adults a lot of face, how can they eat happily like us Jian Jian." ”

At home, Xin Weiyang thinks it's nothing to mess with Jian Jian casually, but he is still a little unaccustomed to being in the spotlight because of this kind of thing in public.

So, he spoke a little perfunctory: "Yes, yes, yes, what do you think is right, anyway, I support you." ”

At this time, a one-year-old relative child who saw Jian Jian eating was amused, slipped off his grandmother's knees, ran to Yan Rushun in small steps, and looked at Jian Jian Han with his neck up.

His grandmother hurriedly hunched her waist and chased after her with chopsticks, coaxing while rushing: "Mimi, you haven't finished your meal yet, come here, grandma feed me again, it's delicious." ”

Mimi saw her grandmother coming, but she lifted her feet and ran again.

The grandmother took three more steps before catching up with her grandson, quickly encircled him in her arms, and stuffed him hard.

Mimi chewed it twice reluctantly, and slipped under her grandmother's arm again.

So, a new round of you chase me and escape from feeding has begun.

Grandma was so tired that she was sweating profusely, and she beat her old waist from time to time.

Yan Rushun said to Xin Weiyang Nunu: "Well, if you follow the traditional method, you will be raised like this." If you think their solution is good, you can be in charge of feeding the food when the time comes. ”

It's better to just kill him.

Xin Weiyang hurriedly begged for mercy: "Wife, come according to your way, I will definitely support you." ”

Yan Rushun nodded with satisfaction.

At this time, everyone was half-full and began to toast.

The scene became lively, and Xin Weiyang also hurriedly picked up the cup and went to greet his grandfather.

Yan Rushun made Jian Jian comfortable to serve, and quickly cleaned up, so he took her to pay homage to her birthday.

Old Man Fu is full of children and grandchildren, four generations in the same hall, full of red light, it seems that he can live for another 800 years.

Although there is the discordant factor of Yan Rushun, in general, the birthday is still very harmonious.

When they came back in the evening, the three brothers and sisters of the Fu family sent the old man back to the room to sleep, and the family was in a good mood, and they gossiped together for a while.

Xin Weiyang came back little and hadn't seen each other for a long time, and everyone talked about the anecdotes and gossip in the countryside accumulated during this time, and the house was full of laughter.

Seeing that the atmosphere was just right, Xin's mother couldn't wait to persuade her son and daughter-in-law in front of her brother, sister-in-law, sister and brother-in-law: "An An is also older now, I think you can also consider having a second child." ”

When the sister-in-law heard this, she immediately said with a clear help: "Yes, yes, Yangyang, while you are still young, your mother's body can keep up, you can help, hurry up and have another one, both children and daughters, just make up the word 'good'." ”

Chinese culture is about being like Mr. Fu, who is full of children and grandchildren.

When others heard it, they naturally made fun of it and encouraged it.

Yan Rushun was very sensitive, and the invisible hair on his body exploded all of a sudden: "Forget it, you may not be able to give birth to a son." ”

Xin's mother and the others hurriedly defended: "You don't have to have a son, your daughter likes it too." Two daughters are two 'China Merchants Banks', which is not bad. ”

Everyone was happy, and there was no reluctance.

Seeing that everyone didn't mean to favor sons over daughters, Yan Rushun relaxed at this time, but still said: "We don't think about having a second child for the time being, and now Jian Jian is struggling to bring one of them." ”

The sister-in-law hurriedly pushed Xin's mother out: "Isn't there still your mother?"

Mother-in-law...... I can't imagine what the child she brought out was like.

Of course, Yan Rushun refused in her heart, but this kind of thing can't be told the truth, so she smiled and declined: "Forget it, my mother has a migraine, and the child will blow her head up when she cries." ”

Xin's mother's sister grabbed a sentence: "Isn't that still your parents?"

"They, they've already brought enough Jane, and they told me that the second one would trouble them. ”

Uncle Xin Weiyang said: "It's a big deal, hire a nanny, anyway, Yangyang's income is not low." ”

Mother Xin's face changed, but she couldn't help but speak, and looked at her daughter-in-law with blank eyes.

Yan Rushun still waved his hand: "I had a caesarean section, and I can't conceive a child again for two years, let's talk about this later." ”

Xin Mu hurriedly said: "It's been seven months, there is only more than a year left, and it's time to start preparing." ”

Yan Rushun didn't think about it: "Mom, let's talk about it then." Wei Yang is also busy with work, besides, didn't you also say that I can't do it without work. ”

Xin's mother was speechless for a moment.

The sister-in-law hurriedly played a round: "It's okay to have a second child and not work, the important thing is to take care of the child, right?"

Yan Rushun smiled silently.

Everyone saw what she meant, but in the end, it was someone's housework, and it was not easy to point fingers too obviously, so she could only take the path of saving the country with a curve, and turned her head and said Xin Weiyang:

"A child is too lonely, if An An has a younger brother and sister, and the two children play together and grow up together, when the two of you are gone, the children will have someone to help them when they encounter a difficult problem, how good. ”

"That's right, now Dad gets sick from time to time, and our brothers and sisters can take turns to take care of it, if the two of you get old and sick in the future, how can An An bear it alone." ”

"Yangyang, give birth to two, it's a pity that you waste such good genes!"

"Giving birth to two is a little bit safer. We have a relative's relatives who are quite miserable, the children are getting married, but suddenly they have a car accident, and they don't leave a grandchild, and the old couple is called a bleak night......"

……

The cousins and cousins watched the show and didn't say a word, so as not to get burned, but just squeezed their eyebrows and said silently: Brother, this is the only way for everyone to grow up, hold on, we support you!

Xin Weiyang sweated, and finally couldn't hold back his voice: "Uh, you have a point......

All eyes were on him.

He looked around, and Xin's mother's expectant eyes were shining, which was really unbearable to deny.

And Yan Rushun's eyes were like knives, swishing and flashing with cold light, as if he dared to say that one was going to be chopped over.

Hey, whether to have a second child or not, this is a question!

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