This method is: birth, second, fetus!

is still the same sentence: After giving birth to a second child, the daughter-in-law is too busy to be busy, so she will not still bully the child, right?

So, she brought up the old matter again - of course not to Yan Rushun, the fire between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not cooled yet.

She is still saving the country and is ready to convince her son: "I said before that I had to rest for two years before I had a caesarean section to regenerate, but now it's enough for two years." Now pregnant, born next year, just when An'an goes to kindergarten, it is easy to take care of, everything is just right, don't you say?"

The husband and wife had told the truth about this before, and Xin Weiyang didn't dare to agree easily.

He cleared his throat: "Mom, I'm pretty busy right now. ”

Xin's mother glared at her son angrily: "You are busy with you, the child has Shunshun, me, and their grandfather and grandmother, what else do you want to do?"

What else do you want to do......

It means that after he donates sperm, it will be useless in this family?

Do you dare to treat him like a breeding pig?

Xin Weiyang said helplessly: "Mom, look at what you said." Besides, I see that Shun Shun is also busy, and she can only write in the middle of the night every day, which is very hard. Let's talk about it later. ”

Xin's mother disagreed: "Just her broken, what is there to write about?"

"Mom!"

"Okay, okay, I don't rate her work. Obviously said this, Xin's mother murmured again, "I don't have a fixed income, I don't have a social security provident fund, and I don't have a colleague, this job is still a treasure." ”

Xin Weiyang warned again in an accentuated tone: "Mom, don't judge other people's lifestyles. Shun Shun has been working hard and has paid a lot. ”

I know how to protect my daughter-in-law!

Xin's mother was full of feelings when she heard this, thought about her purpose, and stopped entangled with her son, waved her hand to return to the point: "If you are too busy, then leave the child to me." Shun Shun is almost thirty years old, and those over thirty are elderly mothers, and if they want to give birth in the future, they are afraid that the risk is not small. It's better to be born while you're young, and you can recover later, right?"

"You bring?" Xin Weiyang twitched the corner of his lips as if he had a toothache, "That's better not to be born." ”

Otherwise, when the two children grow up, the eldest has the love of their parents, but the younger one can't even see their parents all day long, and they won't hate them to death when they grow up.

Is this raising a child or raising an enemy?

Xin's mother misunderstood her son's meaning and said, "If you don't worry about me, then there are Shun Shun's parents." Whether the child is handed over to me or not, in fact, I don't care, I am mainly for you, especially for the sake of Shun Shun's body. Doesn't she like children very much? If she has to give birth sooner or later, it is better to have children earlier, don't you think that's the reason?"

Anyway, let's coax someone to give birth to the child first.

Xin Weiyang had already made up his mind, but when Xin's mother said this, he hesitated again: What if Yan Rushun herself also wanted to have a second child?

Let's go back and discuss.

Yan Rushun refused without hesitation: "Don't think about it, my parents have made it clear that they won't help us bring a second one." ”

Xin Weiyang asked: "What about yourself, do you want to give birth?"

Yan Rushun was silent for a moment: "I want to live, but forget it." ”

"Why? Our family can afford it. ”

"The back-end support system is not friendly. "She's not a masochist, and she really doesn't want to review all those picky, disgusted, and sarcastic again," Xin Weiyang, to tell you the truth, I will never forget how my mother disliked me for having no job and no income. ”

gave birth to a second child, and her career will inevitably be affected again, and her mother-in-law will not be considerate of her at that time, but will only dislike her more arrogantly.

In this case, how is it possible to have a second child?

Xin Weiyang's face was embarrassed: "My mother's mouth is a little damaged, but her heart is still good." She was willing to help us with the kids. Moreover, we have the final say on how to help. ”

Yan Rushun mockingly raised the corners of her mouth: "Don't listen to our mother's lively talk, anyone will say big things, and when the drudgery comes, she won't be able to say it if she's still there-don't forget, before Jian Jian was old enough to speak, she didn't even change a diaper." At that time, I couldn't hold it anymore, so I asked her for help, and she sat next to me and watched me laugh. If you believe her, she will stop doing it in the future, and you will continue to take it?"

Honest and hardworking, like Yan's father and mother, can't stand it, and refuses to bring a second grandson, whether his mother can do what she says, he really has no confidence.

Xin Weiyang was so blocked that he couldn't say anything.

Anyway, his wife didn't nod, and he didn't particularly pursue a second child, so he just did it.

Although Xin's mother was grinding her son, Yan Rushun couldn't hear the wind at all.

She can finally calm down and dissociate herself from her daughter's life and study.

Without the old man beside her, she was unaccustomed to seeing and thinking about it, and her mentality and emotions were very stable.

Even if Jian Jian played Laipi, she was not angry, and she was not obedient, but she gently and firmly adhered to her principles. Anyway, your old lady has time now, and I'm not afraid to do this water grinding work - just think of yourself as a jade mason, come to a good one.

Don't eat when it's time to eat, right?

OK, you can!

Mom, I'll tell you the truth and the gains and losses, you choose. Either eat it now, or you don't have to eat it until the next meal.

Why, you ask? It's very simple, if you don't eat now, you're definitely not hungry. Since you are not hungry, then eat again at the next meal, so as not to have a fever after eating.

So, you're choosing to eat now, aren't you?

OK, there are rules for eating, eat well when you are hungry, eat well and play slowly at the table;

Oh, you regretted it and stopped playing?

It's okay, it's not more than three. You continue to eat, and there are two more times when you don't eat well, then resolutely put away the bowl without discussion.

Of course, being hungry is not a good experience, and Jian Jian has cried several times about it.

However, Yan Rushun decided that a long pain is better than a short pain! If you are hungry for a few meals now, you will be able to eat well and grow your body well in the future. Otherwise, for the sake of temporary purity, the good habits will be ruined, and there will be no points for eating in the future, and your health will be affected sooner or later.

After only holding on for more than a month, Jian Jian confessed.

Eat obediently from now on, and there are no more tricks to play.

As for walking, Yan Rushun does not come hard, and focuses on encouragement.

At first, it was not too troublesome, walking for a while and hugging for a while, tired and tired, but it always made Jian Jian, a housemaid, move.

Later, she also slowly pondered her daughter's temperament, and added a lot of items while walking, such as counting while walking, or playing games while walking, or telling stories while walking, or taking her to visit the dentist's office after telling Jian Jian about "What's New on Dental Street".

Many of the projects were designed by herself according to Jian Jian's interests at the time, and although they were very simple, the results were not bad.

After more than two months, Jian Jian is very comfortable walking on her own.

Although sometimes she still wants her mother to hug her, Yan Rushun only squatted in place and hugged her, and even asked her to sit on her lap, and finally insisted on letting her walk the whole way by herself.

Without grandma and grandma beside her, Jian Jian was no longer so squeamish.

Especially now, the spring flowers have bloomed, everything has recovered, the clothes worn on the body are a lot lighter, flowers and butterflies are flying everywhere, and there are also many children in the community and the surrounding municipal parks, playing balls, flying kites, flying airplanes......

Jian Jian liked this atmosphere very much, and her eyes showed a look of fascination, but Yan Rushun encouraged her many times, and she didn't want to try to socialize with the children, just ran around and looked strange and giggled.

Yan Rushun is not in a hurry, generally children have a strong desire to socialize when they are over three years old, so let Jian Jian slowly adapt and feel the call of her heart.

Of course, there are good and bad things in everything.

Not only are there more children in the spring, but there are also more people doing business with children.

Bumper cars, trampolines, cassia sand pits, coloring templates, patchwork parts, and dazzling toys, etc., are all colorful, attracting a group of children to gather around and refuse to leave.

Jian Jian also strongly asked her mother to pay for a ticket and let her play.

Of course, it's not a matter of playing it, but the problem is that it's not over once you play it.

The bumper car for five yuan a time, sitting and sitting, obviously expressionless the whole time on it, but shouting to come again as soon as it stopped.

There are all kinds of toys, too, I bought this one, and I want that one, obviously the two roller toys have similar efficacy, and let you buy one after changing the shape.

Every time Yan Rushun buys or doesn't buy, he is very entangled.

Money is certainly not the problem, the question is the effect on her spiritual development.

Poor raising, don't buy it at all, that's definitely not good - maybe it hurts the child's self-esteem, makes her feel that her family conditions are different everywhere, and she has low self-esteem at a young age, and then becomes a little bun, so what's the point?

Wealthy, buy whatever you want, that's definitely not okay - although these things are not worth a few dollars, they don't have any problems bearing it, but people's desires are endless, they learn to squander at a young age, and when they grow up, they are afraid that the gold and silver mountains will not be satisfied.

Therefore, the way of small health care is the best, not to wronged people, but also to be limited.

The key is, how to set this limit so that my daughter can be convinced?

Yan Rushun feels that this is a very important problem, and once it is not handled well, it is likely to affect the child's future growth.

This incident really hurt her brain for several days, and when she asked Xin Weiyang, he couldn't let out a fart.

Yan Rushun was a little unhappy: "Can't you make such a little contribution after being a father for a while?"

Xin Weiyang smiled: "I follow the instructions of the leader at any time." ”

She glared at him: obviously has a genius head, why is he unwilling to spend a little bit of thought on his daughter.

Xin Weiyang was very helpless: who made his brain cells only excited about science and engineering problems, and he would be dumb when he encountered these people.

Yan Rushun said coldly: "Listen to my instructions, right? Okay, from today onwards, you have one more job, that is, you must stay within Jian Jian's line of sight when reading books." ”

"Why?"

"Create an atmosphere for reading and cultivate interest in reading. ”

What does this mean...... Is it for him to make a backdrop?

"Besides, on weekends and holidays, you sleep with her. ”

"Huh, why?"

"Because the wife is a human being, not a god, and the wife also needs to rest. ”

The reason for this...... No problem.

Yan Rushun continued: "There are still ......"

Xin Weiyang's expression was terrifying: And?!

"Also, please try to play with Jian Jian for a while every day, five minutes is fine. ”

"What to play?"

Yan Rushun squirted at him very irresponsibly: "I don't care what you play, you just want to play anyway! Even if you pretend to be a big tree and let her swing on you, you must swing for five minutes." ”

So, after the background board and the bed warmer, he will be honored to be his daughter's high-end humanoid toy?

In order to be such a dad, it's easy for him!

After arranging three tasks in one go, Yan Rushun felt a little more balanced in his heart. Now, she has finally recovered from full blood, and she can study the important topic of cultivating her daughter's consumption habits.

Fortunately, the predecessors have conducted in-depth research and experiments on this issue.

For example, many times, the child is not really unacceptable to rejection, she is just in a period of self-consciousness and is not very happy to let others decide her affairs.

So, the best thing to do is not for his parents to reject him, but for him to control his desires.

Yan Rushun checked the information carefully and did some homework, and suddenly became enlightened, and ambitiously prepared to establish a complete set of financial management system for her daughter.