Quarrels come to quarrels, and since then, a relatively fixed daily schedule has finally been formed between the three families.

Usually, the young couple takes care of the children by themselves, but they report to the Yan family for lunch and dinner, and the two take the children to see their grandparents on weekends. This not only prevents grandparents, grandpas and grandma from having too many opportunities to spoil their children, but also allows grandparents and grandchildren to enjoy the joy of family, and also allows Yan Rushun to free up the code word.

I can't say that everyone is very satisfied, but finally everyone feels that they can get by, and there are many fewer quarrels, and life is much more comfortable.

Yan Rushun settled down and taught Jian Jian carefully.

In a blink of an eye, it's time to go to kindergarten.

Before this, Jian Jian was proficient in eating, sleeping, dressing and taking off clothes, but at the age of three and a half, exercise was still a little clumsy.

Yan Rushun used the strength to take her to practice, but she still couldn't jump with both feet, couldn't jump on one foot, and didn't wipe her butt by herself when she went to the bathroom.

Yan Rushun couldn't help but sigh secretly: It seems that some things really can't be changed just by hard work.

Fortunately, she was mentally prepared and did not expect the child to be a 360° all-rounder, so she did not rush to hurry, instead of forcing Jian Jian to make up for her shortcomings, she just tried to take her for a walk and exercise every day, thinking that it was better than not moving anyway.

While walking, she told her daughter interesting stories about kindergarten, some of which she experienced herself, and some of which she searched for at some point, Jian Jian smiled and leaned back, looking forward to going to kindergarten for a long time.

When it was finally time to go to kindergarten, a group of little children hugged their mothers and refused to let go, crying profusely. Jian Jian looked left and right in it, not only was she not sad, but she also asked ignorantly: "Why are you crying? Why don't you let your mother go? In the kindergarten, except for the teacher, other adults can't stay." ”

Many parents noticed this little girl and said, "Yo, this child is really good at talking, just like a little adult." ”

Hearing this, Xin's mother felt a burst of pride in her heart, but her mouth was modest: "She usually likes to read by herself, so she is more sophisticated in speaking." ”

So, everyone discussed the problem of teaching the child to read, and Xin's mother was so proud that she couldn't close her mouth.

Yan Rushun and Yan's mother exchanged glances in the back, and they both looked helpless.

On the first day of school, Jian Jian jumped and jumped into Yan Rushun's arms, and then happily talked about the kindergarten:

She didn't cry for a day, and several children cried and cried for a while, and the teacher praised her and said that she did everything well and should have a little red flower; what kindergarten lunch and dinner were super delicious, and she had to come to the kindergarten every day to eat; why did she make a few good friends, but the good friends snatched away her toys......

There was not a moment of peace along the way.

Yan Rushun listened with a smile on her face, and from time to time she said "Oh, is that so" or "And then", and Jian Jian would continue with great interest.

Later, I don't know if there is nothing to say, so I began to make up stories, she told it very mysteriously, saying that there is a huge swimming pool in the kindergarten, and all the children are swimming in it, swimming in the air. When a child swam too far and refused to come back, the teacher got angry and dragged his shoes down and threw them at him......

Yan Rushun can only hehe: Okay, shouldn't she consider training Jian Jian to write another "Alice in Wonderland"?

However, can you believe what your daughter says?

Is it too stupid to expose the true nature of the teacher on the first day, even if the teacher really has bad habits?

This kind of thing is naturally not good to ask the teacher directly, even if the tone is tactful, I am afraid that it will cause the teacher to think more.

Fortunately, during the parent-teacher conference, the parents formed a group. She inquired about the situation inside, and corrected the words of the children revealed by several parents, and found that Jian Jian was talking nonsense at all, so she was relieved.

In any case, it is really fortunate that Jian Jian was able to spend the days of entering the kindergarten smoothly and smoothly.

Several parents in the group begged how to coax their children to go to kindergarten willingly, which was a big headache, Yan Rushun sat firmly on the Diaoyutai and was inexplicably relieved: At least, the three years of hard work have not been in vain.

Now Jian Jian is lively and generous, cheerful, willing to be reasonable, curious, no matter how you look at it, she is also positive, full of positive energy little Lori.

People say that three years old is big.

The first stage report card she handed over should be passable.

In the future, Jian Jian will inevitably like to get along with children more and more. When the time comes, after she goes to school, she will make money by coding words, and after she gets out of school, she will be at ease to accompany her to read and play games. When she fell asleep, she went to huddle with Xin Weiyang in a quilt to talk and do what to do.

This little day is simply getting more and more complete.

She thought about it beautifully, but unexpectedly, people are not as good as heaven.

In the first month of school, Jian Jian had a cold and fever.

This illness suddenly turned people on their backs.

Jian Jian was sick and uncomfortable, calling for her mother to hold her all day long, all Yan Rushun's arrangements were disrupted, taking care of her day and night, and there was no time to breathe.

When her daughter recovered, her eyes became blue, her cheeks were sunken, and she lived like a big smoker, and she was thankful that the little one was finally bouncing back to kindergarten, and she could take a breath.

By the second month, Jane had fallen ill twice. One time at home for four days, one at home for five days;

The third month made people vomit blood even more, because they suffered from herpangina, and the kindergarten directly let people rest at home for half a month.

Yan Rushun couldn't bear it, slapped the table and said, "Why don't you go to kindergarten at all!"

Xin Weiyang was taken aback: "Why?"

"Now I am sick for three days after two days of school, and not only adults are suffering, but Jian Jian is also suffering. Look how much she's lost all at once!"

"Doesn't it mean that children who have just started kindergarten will get sick more or less several times?"

"If I get less and less sick, then I'll put up with it. But the current trend is more and more, can we just let Jian Jian get sick like this?" Yan Rushun hugged her daughter and complained distressedly, "The energy that should have been used for growth and development is all used to resist germs, can this person still grow well? It is better to stay at home, at least be healthy." ”

Xin Weiyang thought about it, it was not easy for him to drive to the hospital overnight several times.

Although there is no one in the city who does not go to kindergarten, he only stayed in kindergarten for a few days when he was a child, and he felt bored, so he dropped out of school and went home, so he didn't think there was anything bad.

Besides, Yan Rushun is not unable to teach her daughter by herself, and Jian Jian didn't learn more in kindergarten. Come home and continue to learn with Yan Rushun, the progress will definitely be several times faster than in kindergarten.

Because staying at home would require a return to the previous schedule, Xin Weiyang and his wife had to discuss it with their parents.

As soon as the idea of the little couple was thrown out, it was like pouring a bowl of water into a frying pan, and it immediately exploded.

"What, don't go to kindergarten?" the two mothers said in unison, "Are you crazy?"

Isn't it just to stay at home and not go to kindergarten, how can you go crazy?

The two young women felt that the two mothers were making a fuss and explained their reasons.

However, the two fathers disagreed: "Jian Jian is not young now, she needs to socialize with her peers, otherwise she will be locked up at home and work alone behind closed doors, with no communication skills at all, and she will be completely out of touch with society, how will she survive in the future?"

This is indeed one of the most important issues that homeschooling families need to consider.

However, Yan Rushun has been pondering this point since he was exposed to homeschooling. Since Jian Jian fell ill, the idea of homeschooling began to come to her mind, and it has been several months now, and she is naturally not completely unprepared.

"Just because Jian Jian stays at home doesn't mean that she doesn't have to socialize. I've set up several activity groups in her kindergarten class group, and now she has regular activities every week, so she won't be lonely. ”

She said as she showed the photos taken on her phone to everyone.

A group of children read a book together, play outdoors together, or draw together, looking quite interesting, and each child has a smile on his face.

The four old men looked carefully, and Yan Rushun felt faintly empty in his heart.

There is really an activity group, but the number of people can be counted on two hands, and so far only three activities have been organized, so the convincing power is really not enough.

However, the people who look at the photos don't care about this either.

They questioned another question: "These activities can only be organized on weekends, right? Can they be organized once or twice? Is it possible that Jian Jian waits for one or two activities a week to play with children?"

Yan Rushun responded: "Of course not, she is also in interest classes now, and she also learns with children in music classes, dance classes and gymnastics classes." Music classes are held once a week, dance classes are held twice a week, gymnastics classes are held once a week, and on weekends we organize our own activities, six times a week. Basically, it's still at a rate of once a day. ”

Xin Weiyang also said: "Now Jian Jian is always sick and goes home, which is equivalent to cutting off contact with children, and she doesn't even have a frequency once a day, and she has suffered a lot of crimes, I think it's better to stay at home, and occasionally she wants to go to the kindergarten to play and play again." ”

In a tone, the kindergarten is like a large amusement park.

But, then again, for a genius like him, isn't kindergarten the same thing?

Xin's mother sneered when she heard this: "When you went home back then, it was because you were different from other children." But as you said yourself, An An is just an ordinary child with normal intelligence. If you have to let her come home and stay, if she doesn't teach her well, it will affect An An for the rest of her life! Can you afford that responsibility?"

This question is quite powerful.

Even parents may not be able to afford such a big responsibility.

Xin Weiyang had no charter in his heart, and in the face of his mother's sharp eyes, his scalp suddenly went numb, and he could only look at Yan Rushun like a help.