However, this time the matter of lying in bed was finally controlled.

Without her urging, Jane Jane only can't get up on time once or twice a week. Coupled with the "+1 system" in place, there is basically no hunger.

Although it is not possible to eliminate the bad habit of lying in bed 100%, Yan Rushun is not in a hurry: she uses the method of managing personnel, but no matter how good the management method is, it cannot guarantee 100% effect, and the modern management concept is only to stimulate the initiative of the managed as much as possible, and to eliminate their negativity as much as possible.

Of course, motivating initiative is never as good as spontaneous initiative.

Therefore, Yan Rushun started the second plan, which is interest cultivation.

Only things that are very interesting to oneself will take the initiative to invest without urging.

If the child's daily learning and activities are something that the child is interested in, she will definitely want to get up earlier and faster than anyone else.

Of course, things are easier said than done. Because Jian Jian is just an ordinary person, not a genius like her father.

People like Xin Weiyang, because of their talents, are born with a sense of affinity for knowledge or skills. You give him a book, and needless to say, he also wants to read the second and third books, and he is thirsty for knowledge.

As for Jian Jian, even if Yan Rushun spent a lot of effort, she herself can read and write, but she doesn't have such a strong desire for knowledge. Sometimes you don't need adults to say that you can read books for a while; sometimes Yan Rushun is busy by herself, and it is recommended that she read the book alone, but people are unwilling at all; most of the time, she still has to be accompanied by Yan Rushun, and she is interested in reading a few more lines.

In short, an ordinary child, her interests need to be constantly guided and cultivated by parents.

It's like reading books, it's like that, it's about other things.

It's time to cultivate your interest as soon as possible, and now is almost the right time.

However, the two of them argued for a while on this point.

Xin Weiyang adheres to the traditional point of view, that is, girls should mainly cultivate special hobbies such as musical instruments and dancing to shape temperament - from this point of view, even if he is a genius, he still inevitably has the attributes of a straight man.

Yan Rushun's starting point is more complicated, not only hoping that her daughter can develop in an all-round way, but also hoping to cultivate some practical specialties.

Dancing is not impossible because it exercises the body and exercises the coordination of the limbs.

Music is not impossible, because it can cultivate temperament and open-mindedness.

However, in her opinion, girls can't just be limited to singing and dancing.

Thinking training for girls is especially important, otherwise acting on the basis of feelings alone will be toyed with sooner or later, so it is necessary to learn some Go and the like.

In the future, since I hope that Jian Jianzi will inherit her father's business, can we start cultivating her interest in science now? If so, then it is time to take action.

Also, now that society is in such a mess, will 30 million men not be able to marry a wife? So, do you want to protect yourself? If so, it's better to learn taekwondo or something.

However, learning taekwondo and learning dance are both physical exercises, and people's energy is limited, so I am afraid that they cannot have both.

She made up her mind to only cultivate two hobbies for Jian Jian, at most three, and no matter how much she resolutely worked.

Xin Weiyang felt that "there are many skills that are not pressing", so she replied: "Jian Jian is just an ordinary child, you can't use your standards to measure her ability." You can learn a skill quickly, but Jane Jane needs to practice many times to learn, and she doesn't have that much energy to learn so many things. ”

When she was in early education and kindergarten, she didn't see the kind of family that enrolled her children in five or six training classes in one go, and basically the final result was: everyone knows everything.

It's better to concentrate and learn two or three subjects, so that you can walk the rivers and lakes in the future.

In this way, the two of them argued for a while, and in the end, Xin Weiyang won a big victory, and Yan Rushun only won a small victory.

The reason is simple: music and dance can be cultivated and learned at about the age of three, but Go and taekwondo are too early. There's only one science that can be touched on right now.

Yan Rushun thought about it, things in the future can be talked about later, and music, dance and science are not bad first.

At this time, her workload has increased considerably.

Not to mention the training classes of music and dance, she also has to come up with a charter on how to cultivate scientific interests.

Don't look at Xin Weiyang as a scientific researcher, but he is too genius, and he has not followed the same path with ordinary children since he was a child. Other children needed to develop interest, and he skipped this step and strode forward.

Now Yan Rushun asked him how to cultivate his daughter's interest in scientific research, and he said that he was going to directly put out the textbooks of junior high school students and then give lessons to Jian Jian.

Bah!

If you want to crush people and crush others, Jian Jian can't withstand such a high-energy blow now.

In this way, the entire planning work can only be carried by Yan Rushun himself.

The only consolation is that Xin Weiyang said: Yan Rushun has orders, and he is not reluctant to do so - the style of going to the soup makes Yan Rushun feel like teaming up to fight monsters and clear the customs.

So, after staying up for a few nights, Yan Rushun finally came up with a plan.

First of all, Yan Rushun did not rush to register for classes, but first paid attention to all the concerts and dance performances in the city, and she planned to take Jian Jian to see more of these concerts and performances in half a year, and she was infected and edified.

Not to mention anything else, at least let the children have more interest and basic concepts, so that they will not start learning in a daze, and after learning for a period of time, they will say that they don't like it, and they can't stick to it, and they will screw it with adults, and finally make adults and children miserable.

No matter what specialty you cultivate, you should be interested in it first, and she calls it a sharpening knife and not a woodcutter.

As for science classes, she found a large number of teaching materials and teaching aids on a certain treasure of almighty, including physics, chemistry and biology programming, and she could find suitable ones from three to eighteen years old, which simply opened up a new world for her.

Yan Rushun happily collected a lot, and then bought it back one by one every week and handed it to Xin Weiyang, with only one requirement: be sure to cultivate a good interest in Jian Jian and cultivate good scientific thinking and habits.

Xin Weiyang looked at the name of "color fountain" in his hand, adding up to two steps, no measuring spoon, no need for precision, no pursuit of what has changed, only pay attention to whether it looks good or not, so simply and rudely pour white vinegar, pigment and baking soda together even if the acid-base neutralization experiment, very painful pondering: how to reflect scientific thinking and habits in these two steps?

The so-called shallow drowning can water people, this is simply true.

Yan Rushun bets that Xin'an children will definitely be able to win the first place in Xin Weiyang's coaching career.

As soon as she thought that she had given the genius a big problem, her mood was as refreshing as this season.

Of course, in addition to a fulfilling life, she has another thorny problem to deal with, and that is - mother-in-law.

Since the last quarrel, although Xin's mother has done a lot of tricks in private, and has met with Xin Weiyang intermittently, she has never taken the initiative to come to the door again.

She is a good-looking person, and since she let out cruel words when she left, she naturally didn't want to slap herself in the face, and took the initiative to go back.

This period of time is a critical period for correcting Jian Jian's behavior and habits, Yan Rushun hasn't slept well every day, so naturally he can miss one thing and one thing less.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law didn't poke the layer of window paper, so for nearly half a year, the two didn't communicate with each other, and I didn't pay attention to you if you ignored me.

Xin's mother originally expected the little couple to invite her back, but Yan Rushun was so unpopular, Xin Weiyang pretended to be deaf and dumb, she couldn't help it a little, and began to complain to her son about it, saying how she missed her granddaughter, what good things she bought for An An, and asked An An if she missed her grandmother? Will she not recognize her grandmother?

Of course, Xin Weiyang knew his mother's intentions, but he also saw how hard Yan Rushun and Jian Jian were competing during this time, and he couldn't bear to destroy her hard work.

He said, "Mom, if you can completely listen to Shun Shun in matters of education, then you are welcome to come over at any time." ”

Xin's mother was furious: "I eat more salt than she eats, you let me listen to her, no way!"

Then there is no way.

Xin Weiyang could only ask Jian Jian to call her grandmother and say a few words when she was at home.

At such times, Yan Rushun pretended not to hear and avoided it, Xin Weiyang knew that his wife was still not happy that his mother would come over and interfere in her daughter's affairs.

Although Jian Jian is small, she has her own ideas, and she may not listen to her parents' arrangements.

Xin Weiyang asked her to talk to her grandmother, and she said "no" five or six times out of ten, no matter how she coaxed her, she couldn't come back, and after not seeing each other for a long time, although she still talked a lot, she was not very willing to tell her grandmother, and the remaining four or five times said goodbye directly after a while.

Because of this, Xin's mother misses the time when she was so hot by her granddaughter that she couldn't put it down.

Seeing that summer went to autumn and winter came again, she finally couldn't sit still, and hinted to Xin Weiyang in a roundabout way, asking him to try to let herself go back to see her good granddaughter.

Xin Weiyang didn't hide it from his wife, and discussed it with her directly.

Yan Rushun knew that it was time to solve this matter.

Mother-in-law is not a big traitor, and it is impossible to sever the blood relationship with Xin Weiyang and Jian Jian, she can't keep people out forever.

Not to mention anything else, her heart for Jian Jian is at least undeniable.

Yan Rushun felt that she had no right to cut off her daughter's family affection.

However, she didn't want to give in and invite people back, so it made it seem as if she bowed her head in front of her mother-in-law.

Of course, it's not impossible to bow her head, but she must not let her mother-in-law have the illusion that "from now on, she can point fingers at Jian Jian again".

She is ready to resolve the impasse lightly, but she maintains the relationship at a polite level, keeping a little distance, so as not to make everyone unhappy again in the future.