Yan Rushun really didn't want to answer this question, but she couldn't lie to her mother, so she tried to get through vaguely: "It's a little less than before, but it's enough." ”

Yan's mother didn't eat her set: "Then you show me your bank statement." ”

"Then get to the bank, the trouble is dead. ”

"I know you have mobile banking now, don't play dumb on me. ”

Yan Rushun is out of line, and her mother can't say bad about keeping up with the trend, but at this time, she is passive.

Seeing that her daughter couldn't say a word for a long time, how could Yan's mother not know the situation.

She became anxious all of a sudden: "I'll just say that freelancing is not safe, and if you say no income at any time, you will have no income." Shun Shun, Jian Jian is also so old now, or let her go to kindergarten now, you can find a job quickly. ”

Yan Rushun, who was originally wilting, immediately jumped up: "No." She definitely can't go now. ”

"Why? There are a lot of people in our community who send their children to kindergarten when they are two years old. ”

"They are them, I am me. Yan Rushun was very persistent, "I don't say anything else, Jian Jian's self-care ability is not up to par now, she can't wear clothes completely by herself, she can't drink water from a water cup, and she won't relieve herself of defecation, especially if she is not suitable for squatting - she lacks these abilities, and she is very passive when she goes to kindergarten." ”

She knows the situation in kindergarten better than anyone else.

If you want your child to go to kindergarten without sin, and if you want your child to enjoy kindergarten life happily, self-care ability is absolutely indispensable.

She has given so much, how can she fall short in the last level!

Yan's mother was very anxious: "Then Jian Jian doesn't go to kindergarten for a day, you drag yourself like this all day? I can't sleep well every day, and I can't sleep well, and I can't get panicked with code words." How long can you hold on to the physical and mental exhaustion?"

"It's going to be kindergarten in the blink of an eye, and I'm relaxed. She comforted her mother like this.

Yan's mother did not follow: "Do you know that your eyes are all black? If it doesn't work like this, you should hurry up and find a job, and your life will be more regular." Don't bring the child out, the body collapses first. By the way, it happened that Foxconn was recruiting workers before, so you signed it up for me. ”

Has she come to this point?

Yan Rushun almost choked to death with her own saliva, puffing out her eyes and protesting: "Mom, now is the critical time to cultivate habits, and I must not give up at this time." ”

Yan's mother yelled at her: "Are you going to live like this for the rest of your life?"

"Why can't I live like this for the rest of my life? I might be selling big one day, can you not be so anxious?"

Mother Yan looked disdainful: "It's been three years! I haven't seen you put a satellite." ”

"Li An has been dormant at home for seven years before producing results, you are too eager for quick success!"

……

As soon as the mother and daughter met, they had a big quarrel, and the dinner was weirdly dull.

In the end, Yan's mother compromised: "I think it's still like this, in the future, you will bring Jian Jian to eat at home for lunch and dinner, so that you can buy vegetables and cook and wash dishes and wipe the table, so that you can have more time to code." But I'll help you this year, and if you can't get results in another year, then don't write it as soon as possible. ”

She was helpless.

The daughter shaved her head and drilled into the tip of the horns, she couldn't persuade her, she couldn't wake up after scolding, so she could only accompany her for a while, waiting for her to hit the south wall.

I only hope that she can turn back as soon as possible, so as not to get old and not accept any work unit.

Mom's words are a bit yin and yang, if Yan Rushun is tough, he should decisively refuse.

However, she really can't remember the word "backbone" now, and after a few months of suffering, it was easy for her mother to be willing to lend a hand, so she almost jumped up and shouted "Long live" three times!

Buying vegetables, chopping vegetables, cooking rice, stir-frying, washing dishes, and wiping the table are just small things, but two meals add up to at least three hours.

If you don't do it, you can't do it, it's time-consuming and tiring, and no one thinks about you, she doesn't want to do it for a long time. If it weren't for my mother's constant chatter about gutter oil, additives, bisphenol A, heavy oil and heavy salt that are harmful to health, she really wanted to order takeout directly.

Now take the bus from downstairs, and it will take ten minutes to go directly to the downstairs of Yan's house.

She's liberated.

After liberation, she was in a better mood and had plenty of time, and she began to practice her plan.

The first item is naturally about how to get Jane Jane to dress herself.

First of all, she added an incentive system - she can wake up and watch a TV show, the English version of the animated show "Peppa Pig".

In order to protect her eyesight before, she had never watched TV for Jian Jian, but now she is two and a half years old and almost three years old, so it should be no problem to watch it for twenty minutes, and she also happened to increase the project of honing her English ear.

Jian Jian was really excited, and the next morning without her mother's urging, she turned over and sat up, got dressed after dividing by two, and hastily sorted out the shop.

Yan Rushun desperately ignored the little blanket like a rotten vegetable bun, and praised her greatly, she walked with the wind, watching Peppa play all kinds of treasures hehehe.

Children are just that, as long as they haven't read the Chinese version, they won't be so repulsive to the English version.

Yan Rushun let go of her worries and was happy for two days, and Jian Jian returned to her original state.

The marginal effect doesn't deceive me.

Fortunately, she was also prepared, and sacrificed the next magic weapon: breakfast enrichment.

In the past, it was always milk steamed buns, but now she changes her tricks, bread, buns, flower rolls, sesame paste, black rice cereal, fruit porridge, etc., in short, what is fresh.

Jane didn't get out of bed, so she coaxed her with a delicious breakfast: "Oh, I ate corn cereal this morning! ”

Xin Weiyang also cooperated and shouted: "Really, come first and eat first, then eat, and finally don't have to eat." ”

"I want to eat, I want to eat, you are not allowed to eat!" Jian Jian was screaming, making trouble and crying at first, and Yan Rushun told her: Unless she gets up by herself, there will be no food.

After understanding that "no matter how much trouble you make, Mom and Dad will not compromise", Jian Jian shut up and got up with her head down.

The delicious breakfast made Jian Jian last a little longer, but it was only a few days longer before it returned to its original shape.

Even the food can't keep the foodie motivated, so Yan Rushun has to continue to add to the Peppa Pig and the rich breakfast.

This time it's an amusement project - it just so happens that Jian Jian has also reached the age of walking around and gaining knowledge.

Yan Rushun will announce in advance every night that the next day she will go out to experience games that she has not experienced before: go to the library, go to the bookstore, go to the exhibition hall, go to see children's plays, experience oil painting, go to see, learn to make dumplings, camping, climbing and so on.

Once, even because Jian Jian looked at the pigeons, he said, we can also sell steamed buns to feed the pigeons to tourists, and the next day the mother and daughter really steamed the steamed buns to sell.

Yan's mother felt ashamed, but Jian Jian didn't have stage fright at all, she really brought a small folding bench by herself, and her mother helped her write a label on cardboard, and sold it according to the practice she had practiced the night before.

A pea-sized man sat on the side of the road selling steamed buns, which attracted the attention of a lot of people, and in less than three minutes, the "pigeon steamed buns" of Xin'an children were sold out.

The sense of accomplishment is simply full, not explained.

Of course, there is one condition for experiencing these fun activities: wake up on time. Why, you ask? Because if you don't get up on time, you won't be able to catch the car, so you can't go to play – that is, the child is still young, and you can use this excuse to coax her.

So it's time to do it early!

This measure is still effective, but it is not very stable, Jian Jian can sometimes get up by herself very actively, sometimes she is still lazy, and misses although she cries bitterly, but she still doesn't get up next time.

That said, things are always getting better anyway.

It's just that you can't continue to increase the size.

First, there is no way to increase the size, and second, the blind increase seems to make Jian Jian have an illusion: getting up by herself is something that her parents want to exchange for rewards.

So how can it work?

Looks like it's going to have to be subtracted.

Yan Rushun continues to launch the next step: breakfast is limited!

To put it simply, this time-limited order is: every morning before half past eight, if you don't get up and wash up and rush to the breakfast table, then there is no breakfast to eat.

Addendum: This time-limited order is not only valid for Jane, but also for the whole family.

Hearing that it was a fair treatment of the whole family, Jian Jian did not object.

Yan Rushun said to her: "If Dad is late, we will laugh at him: shame, lazy bed, okay?"

Jian Jian smiled and seemed to think it was funny.

Not surprisingly, the next day, the little one bumped into his head.

Although he strongly expressed his desire to eat breakfast through various ways of splashing and rolling, Yan Rushun was hard-hearted in this regard and did not waver at all.

The little one looked at his father pitifully.

Xin Weiyang sighed and sighed to Yan Rushun: "It's really incredible to say, people who used to sleep until twelve o'clock are not lazy anymore." ”

Yan Rushun replied with a fierce kick: Tell you to expose the old lady's old bottom, hum!

This time, Jian Jian was cleaned up thoroughly.

After two days without breakfast, she got up honestly on the third day.

Yan Rushun's heart was put down: Jian Jian really broke off her breakfast with a hard temper, and she didn't know if she could really continue to starve her for lunch.

But come to think of it, the cost of hungry food is so big, and there are so many encouragements to get up, as long as you are not stupid, you should know how to choose.

However, it turns out that even though she has done so much, there is still no guarantee that every day will go her way.

There is always a day in three or five days when breakfast is missed.

Damn, why is this little child so naughty? If she is sick with hunger like this, won't she be a sinner for eternity!

Yan Rushun's sleeves were rolled up and put down, put down and pulled up, gritted his teeth for a while, and finally pulled it up, walked in front of the little guy, and stretched out his palm: "Follow me!"

This time, she made a chart, drew it seven days a week, and told her daughter, "If you can get up on your own, put a check in the grid, and if you don't, put a cross in the grid." Let's see how many checks Jian Jian can put every week, okay?"

Jian Jian asked, "Is this like a little red flower?"

Grandma always told her that she behaved well in kindergarten, and the teacher would reward her with big red flowers.

Yan Rushun nodded: "Yes, besides, there are many hooks, and we have other rewards." ”

Jian Jian's eyes sparkled: "What reward?"

"If you wake up on time for two days in a row, we'll reward you with a pancake, okay?"

"Okay!"

"For three days in a row, you can change the cake from the bakery, okay?"

Jian Jian asked expectantly, "What about four days in a row?"

"For four days in a row, we ate steak. ”

"The kind of steak that I want my dad to cook. ”

Yan Rushun was a little unhappy, but agreed with a smile on her face: "Yes." ”

Jian Jian asked, "What about five days in a row?"

"You don't have to get up on time for more than five days in a row, you can get up on time more than five days a week, and you can fulfill one of your wishes. ”

Jian Jian clenched her fists and shouted, "Oh, I'll be able to get up by myself tomorrow." ”

I hope so!

I'm not so optimistic about my mother.

Thinking of the possibility of stomach problems in case of hunger, Yan Rushun added another rule: "If Jian Jian can finish getting up and washing up 5 minutes in advance every day and arrive at the dining table, then we can also remember a +1, and then if you don't get up on time on any day after that, you can use this '+1' in exchange for a breakfast, but you still have to cross and cross when recording." ”

Jian Jian expressed her determination again: "I will definitely have breakfast 5 minutes early tomorrow!"

It's a good momentum, but you have to do what you say.

If you can't do it anymore, I'm going to be out of line for my mother!

Yan Rushun pinched the sweat for herself.