Anyway, this home finally ushered in the peace that had not been seen for a long time.

During work hours, Yan's father and mother took care of Jian Jian with Sister Zhou, and grandparents came to take a walk around when they were free.

After work, Yan Rushun went home to feed and play. Xin Weiyang can study his own academics with confidence.

It must be admitted that Yan's mother's intentions for Jian Jian are still enough.

For her daughter's confession, she did not perfunctory, but meticulously recited the "scriptures" that gave her grandmother a headache when Jian Jian was awake, and also tried to let her granddaughter play games on her stomach as much as possible.

The fly in the ointment is that Yan's mother is extremely unconcerned about the "eating, drinking, and Lazar schedule". Every time Yan Rushun came back, he always saw that there was a match on the form.

Yan Rushun couldn't help but sigh: "Mom, you forgot to record the form again." ”

"Oh, what's that. Taking children is not an experiment, the important thing is to grasp the key!" Yan's mother was full of words.

"What's the key?"

"Pay attention to the smell of the child's pulling, how the child's physical condition is, all of which will be manifested in the smell. ”

Yan Rushun's eyebrows and eyes were squeezed together, with a bitter expression: "No!"

Yan's mother is very confident: "Of course, doctors have to ask about the stool when they see a doctor." You, don't worry about what you don't have, but lose the key. ”

"Why am I doing all that I don't have?"

Mother Yan shook her head and sighed: "You said that you have done so many tricks, and we have been with you for four months, is it effective? ”

Yan Rushun was greatly dissatisfied: "Mom, haven't you heard a sentence - ten years of trees and a hundred years of people, that child is not lard, as soon as it is put on the fire, it will be turned into you, then we have to insist on persisting and persistent, let her accumulate and accumulate, until one day it accumulates to a critical point, she will suddenly change her face to show you." ”

Mother Yan was amused by her exaggerated performance: "Ouch, how long do you have to hold on?"

"Then it depends on the qualifications! Different children's qualifications, there is no way to generalize. ”

Mother Yan couldn't help but roll her eyes: "According to what you say, if the child is enlightened early, I can also say that his qualifications are good; ”

Poof!

Sister Zhou next to her couldn't help laughing.

Yan Rushun couldn't help but feel stupid.

Sister Zhou helped her speak: "Grandma Jianjian, I think Shun Shun has done a good job." I've brought so many children with me, and our little Jane's eyes are the most aura among my peers. ”

As soon as he was praised, Yan Rushun immediately puffed up his chest vividly: "Did you hear it, did you hear it, this is an expert comment." As he spoke, he approached Jian Jian and looked left and right, "Sister Zhou, don't you say that I don't think I think, our Jian Jian's eyes are indeed very bright." ”

"You are proud, Sister Zhou is polite, you really kicked your nose in the face. Yan's mother despised her daughter's vanity.

Sister Zhou hurriedly said: "I mean really. ”

Yan Rushun immediately showed her face to her mother: "Ha, did you hear it!"

Yan's mother snorted: "Don't say so much, just give a sentence, when will you see the effect of early education?"

This one...... Yan Rushun couldn't answer.

She got the truth of early education, and she did it, but it's really hard to say what the effect will be. If it is really that simple, if you do it one step at a time, there will be a one-step effect, how can education be a problem for the ages?

Thinking of this, she couldn't help but have some doubts: Is what she has done to Jian Jian really useful? Will everything be in vain?

But she quickly comforted herself: no matter what, it doesn't hurt to do it to Jane.

Then I thought about it again: she started with the idea of cultivating elites, but after more than four months of consumption, she has actually fallen to the point that as long as there is no harm, can she?

What a sad life is!

Yan's mother couldn't help but shake her head: "Forget it, instead of counting on your early education, I think I'm still worried about Jian Jian's athletic ability, other people's children can raise their heads in two and a half months or even two months, and Jian Jian only lifted it up in three and a half months, and she was still trembling." If she was half a month late, I would have suspected that she would have cerebral palsy. ”

Yan Rushun was unhappy: "How can there be so many cerebral palsy." Besides, can't you have more positive energy? We objectively admit the bad things that we are simple and simple, but can't you boast about the good things? Chinese culture is too lacking in affirmation of children, and always likes to hit people, which is why so many people lack confidence in themselves when they grow up. I'll tell you, in the future, don't say that people are not good or bad in front of Jian Jian. ”

"Hmph!" Yan Mu looked away, "You know how to treat me." There's a kind of you go and tell your mother-in-law. ”

Yan Rushun immediately wilted.

This kind of thing...... Even if she had a way to say it, would it be useful if she said it?

Every time she walked in the garden of the community, Xin's mother had to complain about Jian Jian's late heading when she saw anyone, and she had to be comforted by others to comfort her, "The fat child's motor development is one step late" and so on. She said a few words at first, but then she couldn't get rid of her mother-in-law, so she had no choice but to give up.

However, Mom is right. Jian Jian is small, her mother-in-law doesn't have much impact when she says this, she grows up and has her own self-esteem, in case her mother-in-law still goes around to publicize her bedwetting, doesn't that add a shadow to Jian Jian's childhood?

But how can this problem be solved?

After struggling for several days, she didn't think of a good way.

Yan Rushun found that as Jian Jian grew up step by step, the problems she encountered became more and more complex, and it was really not easy to be comprehensive everywhere.

Forget it, only when the time comes.

When Jian Jian was four and a half months old, Yan Rushun finally received the largest manuscript fee in his life.

No more, no less, just two thousand.

Looking at the numbers in the bank card, she suddenly felt a little tearful: she finally broke through the limit of 2,000!

You know, she was able to push the manuscript fee so much because of the time she had free up to code words in the café. 300,000 words were updated in a whole month, the full attendance was 1,800 yuan, the subscription was only nearly 400 yuan, and the tax deduction was more than 190 yuan - almost 9% deducted.

What a heartache!

With such a low income and so many taxes, how easy is it for a stay-at-home mother to earn money?

Writing the second book, she can figure out some basic common sense in the online literature industry.

Whether the book makes money or not, in addition to whether it is written well or not, is more important for the editor to give recommendations, the better the recommendation position given by the editor, the greater the probability that the book will be seen by thousands of readers, so that it is easy to make a lot of money.

I don't know why, she thinks she writes very well, but the editor just doesn't give her a recommendation position. It's hard to give one, it's still a position, which makes people want to cry without tears.

Of course, judging by the authors' posts on the forum, she is not the first to encounter this kind of thing, and probably not the last.

This editor just doesn't have an eye for her, he just doesn't like her, and she can't help it.

Let's change the website or edit the next book, she sighed and considered.

Contrary to her online articles, her love and baby diary on her blog has more and more fans.

Many people think that her style is relaxed and humorous, full of life wisdom, and very interesting.

Some people also left messages to exchange with her about raising a baby - of course, only for mothers within three months.

Through the strange questions of the mothers, she learned that in the same three-month growth process, different babies had completely different experiences.

Some of them have severe pneumonia in their lifetime, and they are hospitalized in the ICU for half a day, and the treatment costs are more than 100,000 yuan. Even so, after getting well, I still had a cold and fever from time to time, which scared my parents to rush to the hospital overnight.

Some screamed and hoarsed every night, cried for several hours, their voices were hoarse, their faces were red, their hands and feet were cold, they couldn't be coaxed, and they were so tired that their parents were exhausted. Later, I finally knew that it was intestinal colic, and I finally found the right way to solve it.

There are also children who suddenly burst out with an astonishing amount of food, so frightened that their hands are soft, and they dare not feed anymore, but the child just cried and cried, yelling to eat, to eat, to eat, to eat. Parents had to check on the Internet, only to know that there was a special period of soaring growth in the growth of children.

……

Yan Rushun deeply felt that every father and mother is constantly overcoming difficulties and overcoming obstacles on the road of raising children.

She also deeply sighed that although many parents have the heart to take care of their children, they have not made due efforts, and they don't even understand some basic common sense issues.

She recommended a few books with babies to fans, and also added her own comments and experiences, which were praised countless times.

The number of clicks is higher than her number of views, but unfortunately she can't make a penny.

Therefore, things in the world are so helpless. If you put all your energy into planting flowers, the flowers will be half dead. You unintentionally insert a willow in the middle, but you are angry.

As she walked back, she thought: What should be the next book?

As soon as I entered the house, I heard my mother, father, and mother-in-law laughing completely open-minded - as soon as I heard it, I knew that they were now in a big 36,000 pores all over their bodies.

Hey, did anything good happen?

Yan Rushun quickly changed her shoes, threw her bag on the sofa, and hurried back to the master bedroom: "Dad, Mom, what are you laughing at?"

Mother Yan's mouth was half the size of her face, and the smile still couldn't stop pouring out: "Come and see, come and see, Jian Jian is so smart, she can actually take the initiative to play games with us." ”

Yan Rushun was overjoyed and ran to the edge of the bed.

Mother Yan shouted happily at Jian Jian: "Jian Jian, hurry up and have a 'cat' with your mother." ”

Yan Rushun looked at her daughter, and the villain also smiled at her mother, this face she was very familiar with quickly showed a look of encouragement, which obviously pleased the villain.

She stretched out two fleshy little paws, grabbed the scarf on her chest and put it on the door in front of her, waited for a few seconds, and lifted the scarf again in anticipation.

Yan Rushun called "cat" very cooperatively, and Jian Jian giggled very happily, her cute appearance was no different from that of a one- or two-year-old child who was hiding from his mother.

Then she repeated the same motion, happily each time.

She really understands, completely understands what game her mother and grandma are playing with her, she even quickly learned to tease everyone in turn, and even proud of her behavior!

Yan Rushun couldn't believe his eyes.

Everyone laughed with joy.

Yan's mother excitedly explained to her daughter: "I was changing Jian Jian's diaper, and I put the scarf on her chest, and she suddenly picked up the scarf and played with me." It's only a four-and-a-half-month-old child, and that's so smart!"

Xin's mother proudly announced: "An An's demeanor is exactly the same as his father's when he was a child! ”

Yan Rushun's lips trembled with excitement: "No, this is the result of our insistence on early education." We have always insisted on communicating and interacting with her, and she can now consciously take the initiative to communicate and interact with us!"

Really, she bet it's definitely not a show of genius!

This is an eruption that has accumulated to a tipping point.

At this moment, all the hard work, grievances and pain that I had endured before became worthless. Yan Rushun was even deeply ashamed of his previous doubts about early education.

She sacrificed so much, used so much heart, and paid so much, she should firmly believe in her own judgment!

Thankfully, she persevered and didn't give up on what she had to do.

Today, she has finally waited for such a result!

She sent a text message to Xin Weiyang with excitement: Honey, I am proud of our persistence!

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