When her husband came back, Yan Rushun gave him a big warm hug.

has not been in close contact with his wife for a long time, Xin Weiyang is simply flattered.

Yan Rushun's hug didn't mean anything else, she just thanked Xin Weiyang from the bottom of her heart. Without him, she would not have been able to make it to this point. Looking back now, she couldn't imagine how she would have lived without marrying him.

Jian Jian was in the excitement of getting skills all day long, so she clucked at her father's "cat" for a long time.

The rest of the time, the whole family rejoiced in Jian Jian's performance as if they were celebrating a holiday, and everyone was filled with inexplicable happiness and happiness.

However, unlike Yan Rushun, who thinks that she has won the first milestone on her educational journey, Yan's mother thinks that her granddaughter is smart and clever at most, and Xin's mother blindly thinks that everything is completely because of the genetic effect of her son's genius.

Yan Rushun was happy, and she didn't care about her mother-in-law anymore, she couldn't care about it anyway.

She insisted on her own opinion, because she believed that she had arrived at the result after a careful logical analysis, and not wishful thinking from an emotional point of view.

Just as she should have believed in herself before, this time she decided that no matter what others said, she would not waver for half a point.

Xin Weiyang also stood on her side, hiding in the study and hugging her and shouting, "My wife has worked hard."

Yan Rushun sat on her husband's lap, snuggled up to him and felt very warm.

They whispered to each other with taste.

Xin Weiyang asked, "Didn't you say that Jian Jian should be given as many sensory stimulation as possible, should you consider taking her to early education classes?"

Yan Rushun is also not sure, the earliest early education class she used to take in the "Child King" was seven or eight months old, and the teacher taught them to climb or play with some combination toys, but what can a four-month-old child teach?

"I'll take Jian Jian to investigate. As she spoke, she nestled in Xin Weiyang's neck again, and asked lazily, "You really haven't thought about the possibility that Jian Jian is a genius?"

Xin Weiyang pretended to touch his chin deeply, and said in a deep voice: "Is it so easy for a genius like me to be born?"

"you!"

Looking at his wife's bright eyes and soft smile, Xin Weiyang couldn't help but bury his head and imprinted a deep kiss on her forehead, and then said: "I don't think I can preconceived about Jian Jian as a genius, especially when she is so young, if she grows up and finds out that she is actually just an ordinary child, will everyone be disappointed? If this disappointment is captured by Jian Jian, will it cast a shadow in her heart?"

Yan Rushun picked up her husband's face and kissed it, and then stretched out her thumb: "The hero sees the same thing, I found that you are also about to become an expert in early education." ”

"It's my wife who teaches her well. ”

Well, it seems that the brainwashing of these two years has not been in vain. Yan Rushun is very satisfied with the results of his work.

However, you should be prepared for both.

She lowered her voice and added: "However, if Jian Jian is really a genius, I estimate that she will teach her until she is four or five years old at most, and then it will be your time to take over, you still have to be a little mentally prepared." ”

Xin raised her eyebrows slightly to express surprise: "Do you need to be in such a hurry?"

Yan Rushun spread his hands: "Our mother told me, you were already teaching yourself the primary school Olympiad questions at the age of five, how can I teach this kind of awesome thing?"

Hearing his wife's words of worship in disguise, Xin Weiyang couldn't help but show a deep and meaningful smile, and said in a low voice: "When the time comes, you beg me, I will teach." ”

"Oops, nasty!"

The two played tricks for a while, but Yan Rushun became uneasy.

She suddenly felt that she was happy a little too early? Because Jian Jian was her own daughter, whenever she showed the slightest hint of wisdom, mothers would take it for granted that her daughter was a genius.

Maybe other four-month-old babies are similar?

It happened that the next day was Saturday, and the weather was good, she pushed Jian Jian out to bask in the sun, but she didn't talk to her as usual, this is the blue sky, this is the white clouds, this is the flower, this is the grass, this is the house, etc., but stared at the other babies in the community with bright eyes.

Once she found the target, she took the initiative to talk to the child's parents: "Your baby is so cute, how many months old?"

"Oh, it's about the same age as my daughter, does he know what you call him?"

"How did he react when you played games with him?"

……

Fortunately, families with babies are always easy to get close to, and she successfully got the information she needed.

After chatting with four or five children in a row, she settled down.

As she thought, most of the four-month-old children understood the meaning of the name, but no one could take the initiative to play games with adults like Jian Jian, let alone have the same agile performance as her daughter.

She compared the eyes of other children and Jian Jian, maybe it was a psychological effect, she always felt that the eyes of other children of the same age were still blank, and sometimes even in a daze, but Jian Jian looked at everything around her with great interest, and babbled at her from time to time, probably because she wanted her mother to talk to her as usual.

This look at the daughter is really much more than children of the same age.

She took her daughter home satisfied, and her high-headed head was full of exhalation and raising her eyebrows.

But, as the old saying goes, good and bad go hand in hand.

Jian Jian's performance certainly made the whole family full of confidence and expectation for her, but it also attracted extra distress and attention.

In the past, when I was doing child care, Yan Rushun and Xin Weiyang made an appointment and took Jian Jian to go. When she was working as a child care for five months, it happened to be Sister Zhou's holiday, and Yan's mother used her son-in-law's busy work as an excuse to accompany her daughter, saying that she was not at ease with the baby alone.

It's okay to have one more person, just go.

When I arrived at the community children's care hospital, my mother was disgusted: "Oh, there are so many people, and there are so many sick babies, we can't go in and squeeze in, I'll take her outside and wait." ”

Okay, you're a doctor, you have the final say.

Yan Rushun ran before and after running to register and queue up, and did child care first, except for the lag in motor development, Jianjian's other indicators were among the upper middle.

However, the doctor also told them not to worry, saying that it is normal for children to have differences in their individual development, as long as they conform to their own developmental laws.

Mother and daughter came out happily, and then lined up for vaccination.

When she heard the system call Xin An's name, Yan Rushun hurriedly went out to find her mother back.

When the three of them entered the consultation room, the previous child was crying loudly, and the parents couldn't coax him, so he was sweating profusely, promising to give him candy to eat and toys to play with, and then he was sent to pick stars.

Yan's mother pursed her lips when she saw it, gestured to Yan Rushun, and said to her granddaughter: "Jian Jian, we don't learn from that brother, we have to be brave." ”

After Yan's mother took Jian Jian in place, the nurse took out the syringe, needles and injections and began to prepare.

Yan Rushun hurriedly followed the established procedure before, and slowly said to Jian Jian with a gentle attitude: "Now the nurse aunt sucks the injection into the syringe with a needle, and after a while, the injection will be injected into your little arm, so that you can be healthy and not harmed by diseases." It hurts a little when you get an injection, but it's very, very fast, and it's all right of a sudden, understand? Jian Jian is brave, everyone, including my mother, has been injected, and you see my mother is fine. While talking, he made a gesture, as if it was a live science conference.

The nurse saw Yan Rushun's mother and daughter for the first time, and couldn't help laughing: "Can she understand what you say?"

Yan Rushun is full of confidence: "Don't underestimate children, their understanding ability is very strong." If you treat them as children and don't tell them anything, they won't understand anything in the end, but if you treat them as adults and explain things to them as clearly as possible, even if they don't understand it for a while, they will understand it slowly. ”

The nurse smiled, but seemed to be skeptical.

Waiting for her to prick it down, Jian Jian did not grit her teeth bravely, but howled with a wow.

Yan's mother suddenly became nervous, not only clamped Jian Jian to death, but also hurriedly shouted: "Oh, it doesn't hurt, we are not nervous, Jian Jian, grandma and mother are here." ”

Yan Rushun was speechless in his heart: Eh, my mother, classmate, you said that you have been in the hospital all your life, you have never seen anything, and you don't know how many dead people have seen it, as for the panic for an injection?

She hurriedly persuaded: "Mom, don't be nervous first. Originally, it was nothing, but when you were nervous, it made people afraid. ”

"Nonsense! Look at how painful Jian Jian is, I'm comforting her. ”

Yan Rushun was helpless: "Then can you slow down and speak softly, the child may not understand what you are talking about, but she will definitely be able to understand your tone and emotions, OK?"

The nurse also persuaded on the side: "Yes, Auntie, if you talk more easily, the child will feel less terrible." ”

Perhaps because she felt that she was criticized in public and lost face, Yan's mother glared at her daughter: "Then you can say it." ”

Yan Rushun said to her daughter in a normal tone, gently and firmly: "Does Jian Jian feel pain, my mother knows that the injection hurts a little, but my mother has already told you, it will only hurt a little, and it will be fine soon." ”

Just as the nurse finished pushing the needle, she pulled out the needle.

Yan Rushun immediately said "surprised": "Look, Aunt Nurse is done! It's okay, isn't it fast? Okay, Xiao Jane is a brave child, it's okay if it's over, right?"

Jian Jian was so howling that she tore over the roof, but when her mother said this, it was like being pressed to stop crying, and she immediately put away her howl and sobbed twice.

By the time she got dressed and carried out of the consultation room, she was already looking around with a smile on her face.

In the waiting hall outside the door, the previous boy was still howling in a hoarse voice.

Yan's mother was originally pulling her face, but she was happy again when she saw this scene.

Yan Rushun secretly shook her head in her heart: My mother is calmer than my mother-in-law, but now when I hear Jian Jian crying, I am afraid that my mother-in-law will be even more unbearable when she hears Jian Jian crying.

But how can a person with a baby be afraid of the child crying?

One of the most important things she learned in kindergarten was what to do when the child cried and his face did not change or his heart moved.

A child is bound to cry, especially when she discovers that crying can also be used as a weapon to control adults, and then she should cry too little.

She has seen many children in kindergarten, and when parents don't fulfill their wishes, they will cry out because they know that by doing so, they will get what they want. On the contrary, in front of uncompromising teachers, they are very knowledgeable to restrain their arrogance and obediently. Even if you are presumptuous once in a while, you can quickly return to normal.

Jian Jian is still young, but sooner or later she will definitely be able to learn this trick, and it is likely to be earlier than other children, and when the time comes, the two mothers will be by her side, and I am afraid that she will only be able to make cattle and horses and be a shield.

This is a question that really needs to be considered.

When she returned home, Yan Rushun changed her clothes and came back, and saw her mother-in-law playing with Jian Jian.

The way to play is to keep stuffing all kinds of toys for my granddaughter.

Jian Jian took the dumbbell and just shook it twice, and she quickly and diligently put the cylinder foam building block in her hand.

The villain glanced at the dumbbell in his left hand in ignorance, and then at the foam blocks, and probably thought that the brightly colored foam blocks were more interesting, so he threw away the dumbbells and took the blocks to play.

Xin's mother was very happy, and while praising Jane, she handed her a triangular foam building block, and at the same time taught her granddaughter like her daughter-in-law: "This is a triangle, remember, triangle." ”

And then it says, "This is a rectangle, this is a semicircle......"

Soon, Jian Jian played with all the shapes, like a little monkey picking up sesame seeds and throwing watermelons, picking peanuts and throwing corn.

Yan Rushun was dazzled, and her face twitched: Damn, can early education do this?

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