Shouldn't ordinary children just say, "Mom, I'm wetting the bed"?

Why is my daughter talking about cold?

When she went to touch it, the quilt was indeed cold, indicating that she had been urinating for a while, but she didn't say anything.

This forbearance...... She sweated: this little man is really sensitive.

Jian Jian had fallen asleep again, she calmed down, kissed her daughter on the forehead, and also turned over and fell asleep.

At breakfast the next day, Yan's mother asked what happened last night, and Xin Weiyang smiled and talked about Jian Jian's bedwetting.

Yan Rushun took advantage of the situation and asked: "Jian Jian, didn't you tell your mother immediately when you wetted the bed last night?"

Jian Jian lowered her eyes a little uneasily: "Hmm." ”

"Why?"

Jane Jian was hesitant and refused to say.

Yan Rushun asked, "Are you afraid that your mother will scold you and laugh at you?"

"Hmm!" this time there was no hesitation, and the voice was a little louder.

She guessed right.

Yan Rushun smiled softly, pinched her little face affectionately and said, "What's there to be afraid of." Every child has wetted the bed when they were young, and their mother will never beat you because of this kind of thing, after all, you didn't mean to. You see, yesterday, Mom and Dad didn't scold you or laugh at you, right?"

"Hmm!" Jian Jian nodded emphatically, a little bolder.

Yan Rushun hurriedly gave her mother a look.

Yan's mother understood, and immediately told her granddaughter about her mother's troubles when she was a child, saying that she drew a map in bed three times in one night, forcing Grandpa Boss to shrink up at the head of the bed and sleep for half a night.

Jian Jian laughed when she heard this, completely forgot the embarrassment of bedwetting, and turned her head to ask Xin Weiyang: "Did Dad wet the bed when he was a child?"

Xin Weiyang was drinking milk, and almost squirted out, but pretended to be profound: "No, how can a genius like your father and me wet the bed?"

Yan Rushun directly dismantled his platform: "Jian Jian, let's call grandma and ask, let's see if Dad is lying, okay?"

Before Xin Weiyang could stop it, Jian Jian had already shouted continuously, and then finished breakfast in two bites, shouting that she was going down to call her grandmother.

Yan Rushun really dialed the phone, turned on the speakerphone, and handed it to Jian Jian.

Xin Weiyang suddenly panicked: "Oh, what kind of hands-free is on? Turn it off, turn it off quickly." ”

Yan Rushun looked at him with a smile: "Haven't you ever wet the bed?

Xin Weiyang: "......"

The phone went through.

Hearing that it was her granddaughter's crisp voice, Xin's mother suddenly felt painful and happy.

Why?

Because Jian Jian is now very able to speak, a person can talk for an hour or two when he has nothing to do, and after developing a new skill of "calling grandma", he can no longer stop.

Just like this time, as soon as she opened her mouth, she asked, "Grandma, grandma, did Dad wet the bed when he was a child?"

Grandma said, "Yes!"

Jian Jian laughed: "Dad lied, he said he didn't pee." ”

Xin's mother didn't expect to smear her son with a handful of black, "uh" paused, and asked, "Why did you suddenly remember to ask this question?"

Jian Jian said loudly: "Because I also wet the bed last night." "I'm not embarrassed at all.

"Oh......"

Grandma only had time to say this one word, and the voice of her granddaughter was all behind her.

What mom says don't be afraid, because she won't scold her;

What morning I ate milk eggs and grandpa's own steamed buns, which are filled with cabbage and meat, but they are delicious, and the eggs are still peeled by themselves;

I just read "I Want to Have a Star" last night, and then retold this story to my grandmother from the beginning, word for word, which took at least fifteen minutes to tell - not to mention, it was quite emotional;

As he was talking, he suddenly remembered that his mother told him that the moon is also a star, so he began to make up endless stories, saying that he jumped onto the moon and met a moon man on the moon......

A posture of pulling grandma to talk for a morning.

Grandma started to listen patiently to listen, and when she heard the back, she only felt that her head was going to explode, and she tried to apply to end this call, and see you next time.

However, Jian Jian was extremely strong, and directly yelled domineeringly: "Don't hang up!" ”

OK, you force you to have the final say.

Xin's mother had to yawn and hone her temperament for days - after living for decades, this time she finally met a nemesis.

Thinking that back then, Jian Jian was still born at the urging of her (mother-in-law's self-thought), is this considered self-inflicted?

Yan Rushun looked at her daughter who was chattering as usual and kept talking, and couldn't help but smile, glad that she didn't ignore her daughter's little abnormal performance.

It's obviously a little guy who can't stand the slightest itch and can't stand crying and begging for hugs, but for the sake of a little pride, he can endure it for so long in his soaked pajamas, sleeping bags and quilts.

You really can't underestimate any child.

No matter how young she is, she needs to respect her and talk to her like an adult.

Otherwise, Jian Jian probably doesn't have the confidence to yell at her grandmother "Don't hang up"!

Imagining the expression of her mother-in-law at that time, Yan Rushun couldn't help but laugh three times.

This bedwetting incident, in Yan Rushun's private emphasis, no one talked about it again from the next day.

In the next two months, Jian Jian urinated on the bed twice, and Yan Rushun and Xin Weiyang dealt with it according to their first experience.

Jian Jian seemed to have finally made sure that she would not be scolded for this, and the second time she muttered softly, reporting that she was wetting the bed, and the third time she slapped Yan Rushun's face lightly and heavily, and said loudly: "Mom, I'm wetting the bed again." ”

Yan Rushun, who was beaten to the point that half of her face was numb, resigned herself to clean up the mess with black circles under her eyes, and couldn't help but slander in her heart: Although bedwetting is indeed a normal thing at this age, but it is so reasonable to say it, and slapped the old lady, is your baby too arrogant?

She gritted her teeth fiercely: You just wait, little girl, although I said not to scold or beat, but this is the black history of your life, when you grow up, don't blame the old lady for blackmailing you with this matter, hahaha.

This is the only three bedwetting experiences of Xin'an children, and it is very smooth to say.

After putting on the little underwear that the big sisters all wear, Jian Jian seems to be more confident.

Not long after, Yan Rushun asked her if she was willing to learn how to dress and undress herself, and she agreed, and she was eager to try.

Therefore, some things are done well at the beginning, and they will be logical later.

With enough patience, the child will naturally slowly go from clumsy to dexterous.

The cultivation of self-care ability is basically not a big problem, but the second thing to solve is a big problem - that is, to enhance Jian Jian's basic motor ability.

Jian Jian's athletic development has lagged behind his peers at every turn from the beginning.

Everyone else can raise her head steadily, her neck is still trembling, everyone else can sit up, she "snaps" and falls to the side, everyone else can climb, she is still like a lazy panda, rolling around, others can go around by themselves, she also let Yan Rushun pull and support, and walk so crookedly.

As for now, her peers can easily jump on both feet, and she naturally can't do it at all.

Once, she tried to get her to play bungee jumping, and with two bungee cords to help, she barely jumped.

It's really heartwarming to watch.

I have to say that the phrase "no one is perfect" does contain a simple philosophy.

Jian Jian is obviously very good in other aspects, and he is also a good boy who is reasonable, why is it not good in this aspect?

However, Yan Rushun is also reflecting on whether she has too much time to read with Jianjian, causing her to exercise too little and not exercise her muscles enough?

However, she also takes her around every day.

When she couldn't walk before, she was quite interested in walking. When she can walk, she shouts "I'm tired, I'm tired" after walking a few steps, and every time she has to find a way to coax her daughter to walk and exercise. Jian Jian's little head could list a lot of reasons against walking, and she had to go to great lengths to find a lot of words to refute.

Walking for half an hour is no less than having a debate in a university, and the pain is simply not ordinary torture.

However, just like that, her athleticism still didn't develop well.

Looking around, there are almost no sports programs suitable for 2-year-old children, and the early education exercise courses, which she herself did at home with Jane, did not seem to have much effect.

With the experience of the last crawling class, she is not ready to send Jian Jian to other early education institutions to waste time.

So, no matter how well prepared you are, the reality can still catch you off guard and nerve.

There are one more difficult problems to be solved with children, and there is no less than work.

Yan Rushun had to comfort herself: Life is never easy, every mother comes over like this.

Of course, comfort is comfort, and she has no intention of inaction.

But the problem is that it's winter, it's cold outside, and there is occasional sun, so staying outside for a while still makes people cold their hands and feet - it's not good for exercise.

One day, while walking nearby, Yan Rushun stumbled upon a swimming pool for babies and toddlers, and couldn't help but be overjoyed.

After asking Ming that the pool was changed every day, and there were no problems in all aspects such as cleaning, the next day, she also got up early in the morning to check whether the swimming pool really changed the water, so she decisively applied for a membership card and let Jian Jian go in to exercise.

She thought that children like water by nature, and they would definitely flutter happily in it, and unconsciously train their little arms and legs to be strong.

However, the facts have proved once again: the ideal is plump, and the reality is skinny.

After experiencing the first unaccustomed and the second excitement, the third time the child showed his original form.

She picked up the toy kettle in the pool, watered here and there, and quietly made a beautiful little public act.

The scene can't but be said to be beautiful, but Jane's mother Yan Rushun wants to cry without tears: Please, let's move!

How could a little kid like Tsundere Jane pay attention to her.

No matter how Yan Rushun lured and played games with her, people still watered the little yellow duck, watered the little crab, and watered the little shrimp unhurriedly, and made up stories with words.

Yan Rushun had no choice: Okay, since you ignore me, I, I, I have no choice but to sacrifice the ultimate magic weapon!

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