When I woke up early this morning, the heavy rain had passed, the road surface was semi-dry, and the air was fresh, neither hot nor cold.

Xin's mother enthusiastically proposed: "Why don't you take Jian Jian to D for a walk?"

Xin Weiyang and Yan Rushun thought about it, and thought it was good, often changing the environment for Jian Jian, which was naturally more conducive to stimulating her sensory development. Anyway, it was just Xin Weiyang who took them by the way when he went to work.

With the joy of autumn outing, the family arrived at the campus of D University, where the trees are forest and the river is bubbling.

In the park-like school, full of students reading books or exercising on the playground, Yan Rushun pointed out to her daughter one by one, told her all kinds of interesting things about the college campus, and did not forget to remind her: "It's not the first time you've come to your father's school, you came to listen to a symphony concert when you were still in your mother's womb." ”

Jian Jian looked at the scenery and people from her own probe, and was not touched by her mother's nostalgia for the past in the slightest—of course, if she was really touched, it would be really a spirit, and she would have to scare everyone crazy.

Either way, everyone's mood is quite good.

When she got off the car, Xin's mother stepped out of the carriage with an arrow step, rushed to carry Jian Jian out of the car, and immediately pointed to the plants with red fruits on the side of the road and said: "Jian Jian, come, let your mother teach you what this is, and you can become a botanist after learning a lot." ”

When he was six months old before, Yan Rushun taught all the plants in the community garden.

But there were only about 20 kinds of plants in the garden in the past, and Yan Rushun himself didn't have that background, so the lesson of plant awareness had long been put aside.

Mother Xin suddenly mentioned this stubble today, Yan Rushun was slightly surprised, but she didn't think much about it, she came closer to take a look, and shook her head: "Although I can often see it, I don't know either." Maybe it's a wild plant. ”

The university campus is so large that it can't all be artificially arranged gardening.

This kind of wild plant that pops up out of nowhere is not like those commonly used horticultural plants, and there is no way to find it at all.

Of course, if you have to check, it's not impossible. Post photos in the forum for help, find professionals to identify, etc., in short, spend some time and energy to definitely find out. But there are thousands of plants in the world, if each of them is tossed like this for a while, who can stand it?

Yan Rushun thought that if Jian Jian was really talented, he would be able to find a way to teach himself sooner or later, so he gave up after a few attempts.

Xin Weiyang volunteered: "Otherwise, I'll go to the people in the school's logistics department and ask if they have a list of plants in the school?"

The method that Yan Rushun has used, it doesn't hurt to use it again.

Xin's mother couldn't help but the corners of her mouth turned up slightly: "Hey, why bother so much." Since you are concerned about your children's education, you should pay attention to it everywhere. There is a more convenient way, but I don't know how to use it. If An An has talent in these areas, won't he be delayed?"

Yan Rushun and Xin Weiyang, the two monks who were puzzled by her, watched her curiously take out her mobile phone, open an APP that could take pictures, and shoot at the red fruit plant.

Soon, a line of words will appear below:

[Rosaceae firethorn

Firethorn

&nbsbsbsthafortuneana(Maxim.) Li

Confidence 93%More Results]

Hey, it's really out!

Yan Rushun leaned forward in surprise: "Mom, what is this?"

Xin's mother was quite proud: "The Chinese Academy of Sciences' app flower companion can identify plants anytime and anywhere, which is much better than what property management you are looking for, right?"

This is a fact.

Yan Rushun didn't deny it, but just asked: "Mom, how do you know that there is such an app?" There are not many old people who take the initiative to use the app so actively, and I have never seen my mother-in-law do this before.

Speaking of which, it's really a bit of a gentleman's three days to be impressed.

Xin's mother tongue earnestly advised: "As long as you pay a little attention to this kind of thing, you can know everything." Aren't you specialized in this? Why are you not as good as me?"

Of course, she won't say that this is because she specially found a lot of educational public accounts, and it took a week to turn over this resource.

Yan Rushun felt that her mother-in-law was talking in this style, and the main purpose was to be simple and good, so she didn't care about her, but thanked her, and happily downloaded the same app, and then took her daughter to take pictures of flowers and plants all over the garden.

It was just a small episode, and everyone didn't pay attention to it.

However, Xin's mother successfully reversed the situation through this incident.

Yan Rushun not only respected her a little, but also smiled and asked: "Mom, you really have a hand, if you find some useful resources for Jian Jian in the future, remember to tell me." ”

"That's for sure. Xin Mu was not polite, and climbed up the pole, "I just want to tell you that Jian Jian is now more than nine months old, and she still doesn't know how to climb." I see that you have also tried your best to breastfeed, but it has no effect at all, so you just send it to the early education class outside to cultivate and cultivate, don't die alone. ”

This topic suddenly made Yan Rushun silent.

She has done it herself in an early education institution, so how can she not know what is going on in the exercise classes of early education.

The problem is that what those students in the past could easily do with a little guidance, they just couldn't do it simply.

Modern educational concepts do not advocate the growth of seedlings, and generally follow the laws of children's ontogeny.

The teacher mainly guides and encourages, and tries to create conditions for the child as much as possible, and ultimately depends on the child himself. In other words, the child can do it herself, waiting for her to explore at which step. When one day the child is ready on his own, he will naturally move on to the next step.

However, being a teacher is not the same as being a mother after all.

The teacher can calmly say: Give the child a period of time, there are differences between individuals, however, the mother really can't do it, especially when listening to other parents of children in the community showing off, saying that their children can climb in seven or eight months or even six months, or climb very smoothly, Yan Rushun still can't help but be secretly anxious.

Seeing that Jian Jian was about to be ten months old, and had already begun to use chopsticks for eating, she could even understand her instructions and throw the toys she had played with into the toy storage basket she had placed in front of her—why was she so backward in terms of sports, even though she was making rapid progress in these aspects?

How to think about it, how to be a little unwilling.

She thought of all kinds of ways, and even found a wide baby towel to hang Jian Jian's belly, and she carried her to teach her to crawl on her knees - for this reason, she had to bend over and hunch over in the activity room to carry more than 20 pounds step by step, and after a while, her back hurt.

However, it still didn't work.

Sure enough, it is useless to promote the seedlings.

was already ready to let it go, but my mother-in-law brought up this stubble again.

In fact, I felt that it was useless, but I couldn't help but have a little self-doubt: she was not the first person in early education, so why did she think that what she couldn't do, others couldn't do?

Xin's mother saw her intentions, and hurriedly added: "Anyway, there is no harm in trying." ”

That's right.

Anyway, Xin Weiyang's annual education budget is not spent in vain.

The early education class is not cheap as always, and the crawling class for one cycle alone is 5,000 yuan.

However, Yan Rushun's focus is not on the price at all.

It was also when she became a mother that she knew why her child's money was so easy to make. Because as long as the economy allows, the mother's mentality will be: no matter how much money it is, the important thing is to have an effect.

Compared with the children's king early education institution, the teaching aids of this crawling class that Jian Jian participated in have been updated to a certain extent, but Yan Rushun glanced at it a few times and understood that the principle of these teaching aids is not different, just change the soup but not the medicine.

It kind of affected her confidence in the crawling class.

Ten lessons have passed, and Jian Jian still has not made any progress.

Well, she knew it was the result.

With this psychological preparation, it is not disappointing.

Teachers in early childhood education institutions have a cliché: "Every child has individual differences, some develop faster and some slower, this is normal......"

Yan Rushun can also recite this set by himself, so he basically didn't listen to it much.

However, she felt that it was not without gain to come out to class - Jian Jian usually played less with her peers, and when she got to class, she could be regarded as experiencing human socialization.

So, the course continued, but the goals and expectations had been adjusted.

For this result, the mother-in-law found a new reason: "You shouldn't have listened to the confinement lady in the first place, every time you feed, you have to fill Jian Jian, but you grow so fat that you can't move." ”

Yan Rushun defended: "But every time the child care is checked, Jian Jian is not overweight." Her height and weight are in the upper middle range, and the ratio should be very well-proportioned. ”

"Okay, okay, anyway, you don't want to admit that you won't have children. I'll just talk about it here, and when Jian Jian grows up to adolescence and is ridiculed by her classmates for being too fat, you will have to regret it. ”

Xin's mother has now quietly adjusted her strategy for getting along with her daughter-in-law: basically don't fight with her, persuade her if she can, stab her if she can't, and then withdraw, and then wait for the opportunity.

The timing came quickly.

During this time, the weather changes greatly, suddenly the autumn is cool and you need to add clothes, and suddenly the autumn tiger is like the middle of summer.

Yan Rushun has already paid attention to adding clothes to Jian Jian and reducing clothes, and feels that it should be fine.

On this day, she seemed a little irritable.

Yan Rushun touched her palm, felt a little hot, and estimated that it was due to Qiu Laohu, so she unbuttoned her coat and prepared to let her dress cooler.

When Xin's mother saw it, she habitually complained: "Why do you keep undressing? It's autumn, you still undress, aren't you afraid of letting the child get cold?"

This is something that my mother-in-law has to nag every once in a while, Yan Rushun's ears are all cocooned, of course she doesn't take it to heart, she just explains: "She's still hot." Mom, just touch her palms and the back of her neck. ”

Xin Mu stretched out her hand, and her face suddenly sank: "It's not right!"

"How?"

"An An, this is a fever, right?"

Ah, fever?

The self-confidence she has cultivated over the past few days makes Yan Rushun intuitively think that it is impossible!

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