At an embarrassing moment, Father Xin came to solve the siege. He opened the door and carried a bottle of soy sauce, and as soon as he stepped in, he heard his son's voice of surprise, and couldn't help asking, "What are you so happy about?"

Xin Weiyang said: "Dad, Jian Jian will eat by herself!"

"Oh, really?" Father Xin looked at him with a raised voice.

Xin Weiyang shouted proudly: "Jian Jian, show your grandfather for dinner." ”

Jian Jian proudly scooped a large spoonful and put it into her mouth, although a little bit was leaked on the table and some paste was on her face, but most of it was still eaten steadily in her mouth. She obviously eats pureed meat, and she has no teeth, but she wants to chew it like her parents, and she doesn't know what it tastes like.

But no matter what, her little face full of accomplishment is really happy to look at.

"Oh, it's true!" Father Xin was excited, as if he had seen something strange, and his white hair swaggered very energetically, "Jian Jian, take another bite." ”

Jian Jian took another bite.

Father Xin was suddenly like a child, so happy that his eyes couldn't find it: "Yangyang, I think your daughter is much more capable than you were back then." ”

With Xin's father's more than 60 years of experience, I have never seen a child who can eat by himself at eight months. When the little one grows up a little more and can walk on his own, it will be even more parents chasing after him and flying all over the yard.

His granddaughter performed a miracle in front of him, and the experience was absolutely amazing.

So, Jian Jian took a bite of food, and everyone laughed heartily for a while, and no one paid attention to Xin's mother.

Xin's mother slowed down for a while, and seeing that her daughter-in-law didn't mean to embarrass her, she adjusted up, took out her mobile phone and said that she wanted to shoot a video for Jian Jian.

Xin Weiyang also came back to his senses and shouted repeatedly: "Yes, yes, shoot a video, such a memorable moment must not be left behind." ”

The four of them all took out their mobile phones and slapped Jian Jian violently.

Xin's mother vaguely erased the matter like this.

Although the incident has passed, the significance of this incident cannot be concealed.

Although Jian Jian was very smart before, and even said the first word in his life in six months, it is very debatable whether that kind of performance is Yan Rushun's educational work.

Xin's mother directly thought that her son's genes were good, although Xin's father didn't say it, but he also felt that early education was a bit mysterious, and her daughter-in-law did it was better than nothing. Otherwise, why does a child's motor development always lag behind his peers?

However, the fact that an eight-month-old child eats on his own is absolutely not linked to his genes. The very direct evidence is that Xin Weiyang did not use his hands to cook back then, and he did not perform the same until he was more than two years old.

At dinner, Father Xin solemnly affirmed his daughter-in-law's labor for the first time: "Oh, Shunshun, it seems that the new concept of education does have some truth, and the old concepts of our old guys should be eliminated." In the future, we should learn more from you, otherwise we can only play the piano indiscriminately when facing Jian Jian. ”

Yan Rushun was happy in her heart, but she naturally had to remain modest in front of the elders: "Dad, you can't say that." Without your help, I probably wouldn't have been able to do this. Every bit of progress is the result of the joint efforts of all people. ”

"Good, good, work together, work together. Father Xin drank a glass of wine.

Xin's mother closed her tail and didn't say a word, burying her head in eating the whole time, and occasionally looking up to tease Jian Jian - she was still sitting on the children's dining chair, holding a small mallet in her hand, happily beating on the newly acquired toy music plate.

Everyone looked at the little guy with loving eyes, happily enjoying the first noise concert in her life, and the atmosphere was very warm.

Although Yan Rushun did not break this beautiful moment and made her mother-in-law unable to get off the stage, she would not let go of this matter gently.

After the meal, she took the opportunity of Xin's mother and Xin's father to take Jian Jian downstairs for a walk, pulled Xin Weiyang into the study, and discussed with him with a serious expression: "I'd better come back!"

"What do you mean?"

She slammed her head and face, and said, "I don't think my daughter can be handed over to our mother to take care of alone." The more Jian Jian grows up, the more needs will increase, and she will go through many important sensitive periods, which need to be carefully discovered, and actively encouraged and supported.

"But our mother doesn't understand child psychology and developmental laws at all, she can't catch the growth signals sent by Jian Jian, plus she has a strong personality, she loses her temper easily, and she is very unsuitable for getting along with Jian Jian alone - you know, children's behavior and habits are learned from adults, you don't want Jian Jian to become our mother in the future, right?

"So, thinking about it, I felt like I had to come back. ”

Xin Weiyang didn't answer immediately, he frowned, his face a little hesitant.

Yan Rushun was suddenly angry, and shouted with a sense of anger: "You saw today's events with your own eyes. The so-called easy to change, nature is difficult to change, how did our mother deal with Jian Jian's meal at that time, and in the future, she will deal with her talking problems, walking problems, emotional problems, etc. in the same rough way, these will imperceptibly affect Jian Jian's cognition, she will think that our mother's way of dealing with problems is correct, and it won't take long for you to wait until she treats you in this way. Is this what you want?"

My wife was furious, not to mention millions of corpses, at least 108,000 brain cells were killed.

Xin raised the horns of his forehead and quickly showed his innocence: "I didn't mean that." I just think that watching my mother's performance today should have taught me a lot of lessons. You know, she's a face-loving person, and if she told her about it right away, she might feel like she's losing face......"

Yan Rushun interrupted him: "No, this matter must be struck while the iron is hot! Otherwise, when the heat has passed, she will be unimpressed by her ignorance, and will make some objections to me going home. ”

Xin Weiyang asked weakly: "But, even if my mother doesn't object, what about our mother?"

Yan Rushun choked for a moment, and then said decisively: "There is no perfect thing in the world, I can't take care of it so much." I can only take care of Jian Jian's side first, as for my mother - she has to stay with her grandfather for a while anyway, and I will talk about it later. ”

Now that his wife has made up her mind, Xin Weiyang will fully support it.

That night, he talked to his mother in private, and although he spoke tactfully, he still couldn't hide his distrust of her.

Xin's mother's face suddenly looked ugly, but just as Yan Rushun expected, she really didn't have the face to say anything at the moment, "It's so simple to take care of children, how can you need so many people to watch" and something like that, she just struggled and asked: "Even if she resigns, won't she have to wait for a month?"

Xin Weiyang said his lines according to the plan: "We thought about it, it's really too hard for you to take care of Jian Jian alone. Shun Shun's salary is not high anyway, she said that she doesn't want that little money, and she will come back tomorrow after resigning. ”

So, the next day, Yan Rushun symbolically went out and wandered around, claiming to throw down the resignation letter and go home.

Anyway, this time the big lie has finally come true, and there is no need to hide in the café secretly, for fear of being seen by an acquaintance.

Yan Rushun was full of lightness.

The previously arranged plan does not need to be entrusted to my mother, and the quality of the completion is naturally very high.

Because Xin Weiyang specially instructed his mother, the news really did not leak into Yan's mother's ears. When Yan's father and mother came back on the weekend, they only thought that Yan Rushun was at home on vacation, and they didn't know that she had lost her "job" again.

Over the next month, Xin's mother suddenly became enthusiastic about taking her granddaughter to various parties.

Weddings, class reunions, reunions with old colleagues, etc.

Of course, there was nothing that attracted her to the party itself, and she only liked to move the chopsticks at the moment, when the table full of people was surprised and envious when they found out that her eight or nine-month-old granddaughter was actually able to eat by herself.

Everyone was amazed at the little guy who was diligent in cooking, and asked her how to teach the child.

Xin's mother proudly passed on her experience.

Of course, because her daughter-in-law was next to her, she didn't clearly take the credit for herself.

However, since she said that she has a nose and eyes, and Jian Jian's performance is real, everyone should be the result of her education.

Yan Rushun didn't say anything.

Sometimes, she feels that her mother-in-law is still quite pitiful, and after working hard for most of her life, there is only a little vanity left, and there is not much happiness in life, so why bother to pierce it?

She's busy anyway.

The reason why she agreed to take Jian Jian out to the party was completely out of her knowledge.

She believes that as long as it is something that has not been seen, it is new to Jian Jian and can stimulate her senses and brain thinking, so as long as there is a chance, she can see and understand.

Although it is possible that she has exhausted her lips and Jane does not understand the meaning of the wedding at all, it doesn't matter, as long as she is moved by the music, the stage, the flowers, the lighting, the atmosphere, anything else, and leaves a little impression that "the world is still full of fun", it is also worth it.

For a while, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were in harmony for a while.

However, after a little longer, Xin's mother couldn't stand it anymore. Because Yan Rushun told her how to act with a guiding attitude every time.

As an elementary school teacher who has cultivated a genius son and countless peach plums, and at the same time as someone's mother-in-law, it is difficult for her subconscious to accept that her daughter-in-law is pointing fingers in front of her to arrange this arrangement and that.

After careful analysis, she felt that at this time, her son and ex-husband were unprecedentedly convinced of Yan Rushun, and it was difficult for her to be alone and difficult to forcibly ascend to the position, so she had to do something to reverse the unfavorable situation - it was best to catch Yan Rushun's mistakes and omissions.

Of course, Yan Rushun did a good job.

However, no one is perfect, so how can there be no mistakes at all?

Not to mention, if you pay attention, she really found a chance to fight back.

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