Mom, Jian Jian is fat, and her movements are definitely not as flexible as those of thin children. Moreover, each child's development has individual differences, and her current situation is also within the normal range, and when we went to do child care, the doctor also said that her development indicators were medium to upper. ”

Yan Rushun said sonorously, but Xin's mother didn't take her words to heart at all, pouted and said: "You shouldn't have fed the child so fat, who is like you, you have to continue to breastfeed after burping, you have to force people to drink enough, so now An An is so fat that she can't move if she wants to." ”

"The child has to eat enough to sleep well, sleep well to grow well, you see now Jian Jian can sleep for six hours in a row at night, if she is not fed, she will definitely not be able to sleep for so long. ”

Xin's mother snorted: "I think you want to sleep well to force you to sleep peacefully, don't make so many excuses for yourself." ”

Yan Rushun laughed angrily: "Mom, you don't know, even if Jian Jian sleeps the whole night, I will get up and milk once in three hours." Besides, is the criterion for judging whether a mother is doing well is whether she is tired of being a dog?"

Xin's mother didn't eat her, and her voice was higher than hers: "Don't yell at me." Anyway, no matter what I say, you can find a reason, just don't admit your mistake. Not to mention anything else, come and see how much other people's children wear, how much did you wear for An An? I'll let you keep warm, you have to listen. Do you have to wait until An An has a fever to admit your mistake?"

The old lady glanced at Jian Jian with her eyes, and also helped from the side: "It's a little less dressed." March is still a cold spring!"

The old lady's grandson was tightly tied, and his two faces were red, as if they had grown plateau red.

In comparison, Xin'an's children are dressed a little thinner. Not only did he wear one less layer than the old lady's grandson, but he also wore not thick woolen socks on his feet, but only thin socks with a layer of cloth.

Regarding the thickness of clothes, it is not the first time that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have quarreled.

Yan Rushun has confidence because Sister Wu and Sister Zhou both have the same opinion, thinking that children are afraid of heat and cannot wear too thick, and one or two pieces should be appropriately reduced on the basis of adult clothing.

Yan's mother is also on her daughter's side, she started from the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, saying that children are basically congenital fire constitution, not as afraid of cold as adults, and most of the sick children in the hospital are sick because of heat, so they would rather dress colder.

But even if it is 3V1, Xin's mother does not obey the majority, and the worried chatter Yan Rushun will sooner or later toss An An out of a cold and fever.

Yan Rushun listened to it for two months, and the more she listened, the more she felt that her mother-in-law seemed to be cursing Jian Jian, and she was so disgusted that she couldn't do it - she admitted that she was a little cautious, but after becoming a mother, she realized that being a mother really couldn't listen to the slightest derogation of others for her children.

Now when it comes to this matter, she unceremoniously scolds back: "Mom, can you please seek truth from facts? Whether it is the sister-in-law or the doctor, it is not based on feeling to judge whether the child is dressed enough, but by touching the back of the child's neck and palms, as long as these two parts are warm, then there is no problem." Touch Jane Yourself to see if she's dressed enough. ”

Because she was angry in her heart, she didn't even let go of the old lady, reached out and pinched the palm of the little grandson, and then said bluntly: "Mother-in-law, I am serious, your grandson is wearing too much, and his palms are sweating." Today the sun is shining and the spring flowers are blooming, it is recommended that you take off two pieces for him, otherwise the eczema on his face will not be better. ”

The old lady felt uncomfortable when she heard this, and said, "What do you know when you are young, open your mouth!"

Yan Rushun was not ready to carry it with a stranger, so she pointed to Sister Zhou who was following behind: "This is not what I said, it was said by the gold medal parenting sister-in-law invited by my family." If you don't believe it, you can ask her, she has been in the industry for 15 years, and there are dozens of children with her, she is experienced and trustworthy. ”

The old lady choked.

Xin's mother came to dismantle the stage: "Don't teach others, people are sixty years old, and they take care of their children properly, what about you, you are in the prime of life, you have the help of both parents, and you have to hire a sister-in-law, and you think you are so capable, you are embarrassed?"

The old lady's face suddenly turned good, and she asked Xin's mother how much her sister-in-law was with a smile, and then said a word to Xin's mother.

Yan Rushun was inconvenient to be serious with the two old men, and was so angry that he couldn't breathe for a long time.

Xin's mother's voice was getting higher and higher: "You said that we went to work and took care of the children back then, no matter how difficult it was, the young people now refuse to suffer at all......

Yan Rushun couldn't help but slander in her heart: How capable you are, you couldn't be anywhere back then, you were a superwoman, in this case, why don't you go to heaven?

She endured and endured, so she didn't say this on the spot, but pushed Jian Jian away and ended up with a clean ear.

Mother Xin and the old lady had similar interests, chatted hotly, and didn't care about their daughter-in-law.

On the contrary, it was Sister Zhou who comforted her: "The idea of the older generation is like this, others say a word casually, they are very trustworthy, but what their own family says is suspicious and suspicious." ”

Yan Rushun was still a little annoyed: "She suspects me of doing what she wants, but can she not keep pointing fingers at me?"

Sister Zhou didn't speak.

The client's housework, she has no position to intervene in this mouth.

She leaned down and touched the back of Jian Jian's neck and palms, looked at the sun, took off her socks and touched the soles of her feet, and said, "Now the sun is a little big, and Jian Jian's soles are sweating, if you want to continue to bask in the sun, it's best to take off your socks." What do you think?"

Yan Rushun was so decisive when she faced Xin Mu just now, and how hesitant she is now.

Intellectually, she is inclined to approve of Sister Zhou's suggestion, but emotionally, she has been trembling and worried - she knows with her toes that if Jian Jian is really sick after taking off her socks, the mother-in-law doesn't know what to arrange her.

Moreover, when the time comes, she must be shouting all over the world: "I told her a long time ago, and she still doesn't believe ......"

On the other hand, if she didn't take off her socks, even if she was sick, her mother-in-law would have no reason to blame her, and on the contrary, she might be able to tell her mother-in-law how stupid her previous thoughts were.

In such a situation, the rational decision is stressful, but the emotional decision is to attack and retreat.

Yan Rushun began to compromise in his heart: Don't take risks easily......

At this time, in the private garden on the first floor where she was passing, a pair of women who looked like mother-in-law and daughter-in-law blushed and quarreled thickly.

The daughter-in-law shouted in a sharp voice: "I told you a long time ago that open crotch pants are not good for children, you have to listen to it, and now you are satisfied with Mengmeng's urinary tract infection?"

Although the mother-in-law was ashamed, she was still not to be outdone: "Since you understand it so well, why didn't you throw away the open crotch pants I bought before?"

The daughter-in-law was so angry that she said, "Is it my fault to say this?"

"Originally, you are the guardian of the child, and if there is any problem with the child, the police will not look for me, but only you. ”

The daughter-in-law almost held her breath, gasped for several breaths, and then said fiercely: "Okay, you remember what you said today, and I will never compromise on the child's affairs in the future." ”

As soon as the spring breeze blows, Yan Rushun feels messy.

The words of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law knocked her awake like a hammer on her head.

She almost forgot that she was taking her own daughter, and she wasn't fighting with her colleagues in the office. What if she fights her mother-in-law? In the end, it is her own daughter who suffers. Besides, if Mother Xin came to play a scoundrel in the end like this mother-in-law, wouldn't she lose her wife and soldiers?

No, children's affairs must not be used to fight with mother-in-law!

I'd rather be wronged than wronged my child.

Just like Qi Qing said, she must know clearly what she wants from beginning to end.

As a mother, you must be strong in your heart in this regard!

Thinking about this clearly, she finally stood up and said to Sister Zhou, "Then take off your socks." ”

Her hesitation just now was too obvious, Sister Zhou glanced at her strangely, and finally did what she said.

When Xin's mother saw it, her face changed sharply, and she hurriedly left the old lady, and ran to ask angrily: "Why do you still have to take off your socks? This layer of socks is thin enough, and it's only three months now! Do you want to freeze An An to death......

No matter how strong his heart is, in the face of such an indiscriminate intensive bombardment as Xin's mother, I am afraid that he will still have no love.

Yan Rushun sighed deeply.

Mother-in-law, isn't there no other solution to this problem?

When Xin Weiyang came back, she pestered him and stopped.

He asked several times before she asked if she could ask her mother-in-law to go back to her house to rest for a while, and let her parents come and stay with her for a while.

Xin Weiyang had another headache: No wonder Yan Rushun put on this posture, this matter is indeed a bit difficult to do.

No matter how many goods Xin's mother has in her belly, her passion for her granddaughter is unquestionable. It is also the birthright of the elderly in China to enjoy family fun. Besides, his mother also helped with housework diligently during this time, and there was no merit and hard work, even if he had a big reason, there was no reason to drive his mother home.

Unless he wants to be an unfilial son.

He said to Yan Rushun with an embarrassed face: "How can you say this, Jian Jian is always surnamed Xin, my mother accompanies her to be right, Shun Shun, can you understand it......"

Yan Rushun nestled in the chair in a dejected manner, rubbed her messy hair and sighed: "I know I know, in fact, our mother is also kind enough to help, but when it gets dark, I have to explain and explain to her every trivial matter, I'm really tired......"

Where is the explanation and explanation, I'm afraid it's a quarrel and a quarrel!

Xin Weiyang also sighed: "My mother is sometimes a little idle......"

"It's not just a little idle...... it's obviously too idle!

Yan Rushun was muttering, and suddenly her eyes lit up: Yes, isn't she too idle!

She suddenly had an idea.

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