In the evening, after Xin Weiyang got off work, his mother and wife each talked to him.

Xin's mother directly accused her daughter-in-law, and Yan Rushun sharply criticized her mother-in-law, anyway, no matter what you say, it's one word - complaint!

Xin Weiyang had one head and two big, and said to his mother: "What do you care about Shunshun?" Didn't we say earlier that Shun Shun is responsible for everything in Jian Jian?"

Xin's mother said angrily: "What your wife says is right? Am I a teacher or is she a teacher? Do you know that she is pulling out seedlings and helping them grow!"

Xin Weiyang stroked his forehead helplessly and sighed: "Mom, isn't Shun Shun just chatting with Jian Jian and talking, even if it is not beneficial, at least there is no harm." ”

"She's just fooling around, self-righteously engaging in some godly babbling things, and it gives me a headache every day. Let me ask you, if other people don't recite mantras like her, won't the child be able to speak?"

Xin Weiyang is not an education major after all, and in the face of his mother's specious theory, he was choked for a while and couldn't answer.

Xin's mother saw that she had fallen for her son, and she was in good spirits and made persistent efforts: "If it's really good for An An, even if it's a headache, I'll endure it." However, your wife is anxious for quick success and quick profit, and her son is Jackie Chan, and the child is only more than a month old and is eager to engage in early education, I am really afraid that An An will be forced by her to be tired of school and the world at a young age, and it will be too late for you to regret it. ”

My mother has been teaching for many years and has a lot of knowledge and experience in education.

Xin Weiyang couldn't help but hesitate for a moment before saying: "Mom, I will tell Shun Shun what you said, but since you said that Jian Jian would be in charge of her, you should give Shun Shun more trust - no matter what, Shun Shun will never harm his daughter, right?"

Xin's mother muttered: "I'm afraid that she will do bad things with good intentions." After a pause, he couldn't help but add, "You tell her not to be too self-righteous." As the old saying goes: If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, which is not unreasonable. ”

"Yes, yes, I will persuade her. ”

It's really not a family spirit at all.

Xin's mother rolled her eyes and knocked on her son's head angrily: "You just have a daughter-in-law and forget your mother, so you are used to her not knowing the height of the sky." I have never seen a daughter-in-law as willful as her, she will resign when she says she will resign, and she can do whatever she wants. You can't just persuade, you have to teach her hard when it's time to teach her, you have to make her understand who's in charge, you know?"

This one...... In fact, he doesn't mind his wife being the master of the house at all. He was actually quite happy to save this trouble. But if she said this, her mother was determined to vomit blood.

Xin Weiyang had no choice but to sloppy with a "mmmmmmmm

As soon as he turned around, Yan Rushun pulled him into the study again, closed the door and whispered: "Did Mom say bad things about me?"

Xin Weiyang let out a vague "uh-huh".

Yan Rushun couldn't help but be angry: "Your mother is hopeless!"

Of course, Xin Weiyang didn't want her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be on the bar, so she tried her best to ease up and said: "She also cares about Jian Jian." ”

Yan Rushun snorted: "I know she cares about Jian Jian, but ignorant kindness can also do bad things, do you understand?"

She was indignant and recounted what happened during the day, of course, this version was very different from Xin's mother's.

Listening to his wife's chatter, Xin Weiyang couldn't help but smile bitterly: Mother and wife had a tacit understanding, and they all used the same comment.

As for who is the one who does bad things with good intentions...... In fact, he couldn't judge.

Fortunately, Xin Weiyang has a set of ideas to solve the problem: he doesn't feel that he needs to pay attention to who is right and who is wrong, the key is to think in the long run, Jian Jian must be mainly raised by Yan Rushun, and it is impossible to hand it over to his mother, in this case, even if Yan Rushun does not do well, he should not let others interfere.

Moreover, whether it is the experience of doing research or being a leader, he has taught him that no one can do it perfectly from the beginning. You have to let go and let Yan Rushun try and make mistakes, so that she can slowly find a suitable method.

He told his wife directly: "You don't have to say it. You are Jane's mother, and you can do whatever you want to raise Jane. ”

Yan Rushun loved to listen to this, and she immediately picked up her husband's face happily and kissed her.

It's a little loud, and I don't know if it's going to be heard outside.

Xin Weiyang glanced at the door very unnaturally, and then glared at his wife helplessly.

Yan Rushun didn't care, hugged his neck and grinned and said, "Thank you, husband, you are really wise and martial!" Then she worried about her husband, "Is our mother very angry with you?"

Xin Weiyang coughed lightly: "It's really a little." In fact, you know that she doesn't have a bad heart, but people are that kind of character, and there is no point in arguing with her. Why do you have to be angry with her?"

Yan Rushun heard his euphemistic persuasion, buried her head in her husband's arms, pouted and muttered: "I also know that it's best not to force these things with our mother, and it is best to perfunctory with the mud, but now I can't sleep well all night long, and the pressure of rushing the manuscript is also very high, and I am also very tired of teaching An An early, in this case, she still has to come to train me this and that, I really can't control the irritability in my heart......"

I see.

He said that in the past, his wife was obviously good at dancing with long sleeves and had a very good way to deal with her mother, but now she always carries her mother out of control.

She must be very uncomfortable during this period of time.

But even so, she worked hard to do early education for Jian Jian, and at the same time wrote diligently. Compared to herself who only needs to devote herself to her work, she is actually much more difficult.

Xin Weiyang couldn't help but feel distressed, and kissed his wife gently on the face: "I know, you have worked hard." If you are unhappy in the future, just let me know. ”

The previous resentment was immediately dispelled by his thoughtfulness, Yan Rushun's heart was warm, and she couldn't help but begin to regret that her way of handling things was too blunt, which made Xin Weiyang embarrassed.

Next time, you must be sensible, and you can't quarrel with your mother-in-law again on impulse.

She secretly made up her mind.

However, this determination only lasted for one day, and on the third day, when she and Xin's mother took Jian Jian downstairs for a walk, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law couldn't help but have a Star Wars.

At that time, the weather was good, and everyone in the community garden was refreshed.

During work hours, in addition to the old people basking in the sun, the grandparents, grandparents and full-time mothers with children are basically wandering around the garden.

Yan Rushun pushed the stroller and walked slowly, and an old lady in a jacket next to her also pushed her grandson for a lazy walk.

People with children like to hook up the most.

The old lady and Xin's mother first asked each other, "How old is your grandson", and when they learned that Jian Jian had been nearly two months old, the old lady laughed and said that her grandson had been two and a half months old.

Since the two children are about the same age, the old lady and Xin's mother are more intimate.

The old lady boasted: "Your granddaughter is really good-looking, look at this chubby little hand, like a lotus root, it is so attractive." ”

This is not an exaggeration.

After Sister Wu and Sister Zhou's conditioning, Jian Jian's appetite is particularly good, and every time she chats in the community, her appetite will cause a burst of amazement. Of course, what followed was that her whole body was fat and swollen, there was meat everywhere, and her fleshy little face also fell into two small balls hanging on her cheeks, just like a New Year's doll.

was born an ugly doll, and now it's finally ugly and ugly because of these meats.

The older generation likes others to praise the baby for its good looks, so it also seems that they can raise a baby. Mother Xin smiled and showed her big teeth, and also boasted: "Your grandson is white and beautiful, if only I could change it with my granddaughter." As he spoke, he glanced at his daughter-in-law reproachfully, "Hey, your daughter-in-law must be very white." ”

Yan Rushun suddenly felt bad.

Jian Jian's skin is not white, and her skin is not white, but isn't Xin Weiyang the same?

Every time he attributes Jian Jian's advantages to his own son and pushes the shortcomings on her, this is too shameless, okay!

Thinking of her determination, she held back and didn't speak.

The old lady continued to chat with Xin's mother.

The two grandmothers compared the height and weight of the child and the milk production of the daughter-in-law according to the usual practice, and the result was that Jian Jian won all the big data in several big games, but Yan Rushun fell to Sun Shan in the "Best Cow Ratio".

According to the old lady, the grandson has been fed full of milk since the third day of birth, and has hardly ever drunk milk powder, and the feeding is absolutely ecological and natural, and the nutrition is sufficient.

Xin's mother couldn't help but complain about her daughter-in-law: "No way, she didn't catch up with the child's food until a month, and my granddaughter had to eat milk powder for a month." ”

"Hey, let your child suck more, so that there will be more milk, and you must drink more soup. ”

"yes, I didn't make her soup at the time. ”

Yan Rushun didn't turn her head and rolled her eyes vigorously: Mom, what is there to compete in? It's not that she doesn't breastfeed, it's just a few days earlier and a few days later in the time of exclusive breastfeeding, how big can the difference be? Can you discuss something more meaningful?

The two elderly men complied with her wishes and soon began to discuss some "meaningful things".

The old lady proudly praised her grandson: "He can raise his head by himself in half a month, and he turned over by himself for the first time in a month." ”

"Didn't you say three flips, six sits, seven rolls, eight climbs?" Xin Mu was surprised.

Not to mention Xin's mother, Yan Rushun also pricked up her ears - according to the laws of infant development introduced in the book, the old lady's grandson is indeed a little ahead in big movements.

The old lady smiled: "Usually this is the case, but my grandson's movements are more flexible than those of his peers." ”

Xin's mother sighed: "My granddaughter is still swaying when she even looks up, let alone turning over." Speaking of this, she immediately glared at Yan Rushun, "Haven't you been doing touching, passive, or something, why is An An still so far behind......?"

How can anything be said to be her fault?

She couldn't see the places where Jian Jian looked good, and she grabbed these slightly backward places.

Yan Rushun became angry all of a sudden, completely forgetting her previous determination, and loudly confronted her mother-in-law......

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