However, if things are explained clearly, it is easier to unify the opinions of the whole family.

Yan Rushun immediately defended himself: "I didn't say that word cards can't be used, I just said that word cards can't be used to teach literacy." ”

"Then what are you going to do with the flashcards now? It's not teaching literacy, so I don't believe you can still give the flashcards to An An to play poker. Xin's mother stretched her neck long, her eyes widened, and her fighting spirit was high.

Yan Rushun shrugged and smiled: "Mom, I don't buy word cards for literacy, but for testing the reading results of picture books." Do you think, after we have been reading to her for so long, has she recognized the words? Can we use flashcards to test it? In this way, we can read to her more specifically. ”

Xin Mu was stunned for a long time, cleared her throat extremely unpleasantly, and snorted: "Anyway, it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, you always have something to say." I don't bother to pay attention to you. With that, he shook his head and left.

Yan Rushun shrugged helplessly.

Xin Weiyang said with a smile: "I found that although my mother's mouth is still hard, her opposition has actually weakened. "It can be regarded as a disguised agreement.

Yan Rushun glanced at him: "You don't want to see if Jian Jian's progress in the past year or so can be done by any person, and only if you have the ability can you afford to speak hard." ”

"You're not modest at all. ”

"Thank you, I'm complimenting you when you're complimenting. ”

The little couple played a few words, and Yan Rushun took the word cards and showed them to Jian Jian one by one.

First, a simple word: "Jian Jian, what kind of word is this?"

Jian Jian only glanced at it and replied without hesitation: "Big!"

"Great! What about this one?"

"Small!"

"Yes, yes, shall we continue to play this game?"

Jian Jian's face was full of a sense of accomplishment, and she replied loudly: "Okay!"

"What about this?"

"Four. ”

"This?"

"Many. ”

……

Xin Weiyang knew that his wife and two mothers had been working hard to read picture books to their daughters, and he also heard Yan Rushun say that as long as he insisted on finger reading for a year and a half, the child would be able to read and write.

However, he didn't take it to heart, thinking that it would be no harm to the child anyway, and Yan Rushun would let her do it if she wanted to.

Therefore, when his daughter suddenly showed off her literacy skills in front of him, he was quite pleasantly surprised - after all, Jian Jian is only one year old and eight months old now!

He was literate, too, after he was two years old!

"Ouch, our An An is really smart, just like your father back then!" Xin's mother said that she was too lazy to pay attention, but she couldn't help but run out to watch.

Xin Weiyang sweated one.

Xin's mother said again: "I think our An An is a prodigy like your father, and he will be even more powerful than his father in the future!"

Yan Rushun was so frightened that she hurriedly pulled her mother-in-law aside to speak: "Mom, you have to be objective." I observed during this time, Jian Jian should not be a prodigy. ”

"Why not?" Xin's mother struck up with her daughter-in-law again, "Do you think whose child is so old and can read?"

"That's because we told her about picture books for half a year! When Wei Yang was a child, no one taught him at first, but he learned to read and write by himself. And as long as you've taught it once, you won't forget it. But you see, although Jian Jian knows some of the words now, she still doesn't know some of the words she has read repeatedly. This is enough to see that she is just an ordinary child. ”

Xin's mother was unwilling: "Who said that we don't know each other, which word do you say?"

Yan Rushun took out the word "sea", Xin's mother grabbed it, walked back to Jian Jian's side, and asked with a smile: "An An, look at what kind of words grandma is holding in her hand?"

The child tilted his head and thought about it, and finally shook his head with an embarrassed smile: "I don't know." ”

"Oh, why did you forget, it's the word 'sea'!" Xin's mother sighed and reminded, "Grandma read Carmela's book "I want to see the sea" for you, do you remember?

Yan Rushun suddenly broke out in a cold sweat on her back: Mother-in-law, isn't this a blow to her daughter's self-confidence and sense of achievement, in case Jian Jian really has a sense of frustration because of this, I'm afraid that I won't even want to read picture books in the future.

The older generation is really all fault-finding, and there are ninety-nine shining points in the children, and they just want to pick out that one shortcoming, and they have to talk about it.

I knew I should have taken precautions.

She hurriedly intervened between the two: "It's normal that I can't remember, I used to forget it a lot, and I'll remember it after learning it a few more times." Moreover, Jian Jian is already very powerful today, and she knows a lot of words, right? ”

The mother and daughter giggled and were sticky for a while, and Yan Rushun cautiously mentioned again: "Jian Jian, why don't we watch "I Want to See the Sea" again now?"

Jian Jian didn't answer immediately, but hung her head and thought about it.

Yan Rushun's heart tightened, and she hurriedly interrupted her thoughts: "When we are familiar with this book, let Dad take us to see the real sea during the Chinese New Year, okay?"

Jian Jian immediately jumped up happily: "Okay, okay, I'm going to see the real sea! Mom, let's read "I want to see the sea"!"

Yan Rushun breathed a sigh of relief, hugged her daughter on her lap with a smile, and began the Nth roaming of the book.

When things were done, she took the time to talk to Xin Weiyang about this problem, and emphasized: "Jian Jian is actually a more sensitive child, usually if I ignore her a little, she will pity me and let me hug her."

Therefore, for a child like her, we must take care of it carefully, especially since her abilities in all aspects are only in their infancy. Mom's personality is too anxious, and that way of speaking may make her think like this: as long as you don't learn, there is no problem of not being able to, and you won't be criticized by grandma, so I simply don't learn well. If that happens, it's really over!"

Her efforts for more than a year have all been buried!

Look, it's so easy to destroy a child!

Listening to what his wife said was so serious, Xin Weiyang also paid considerable attention to it.

He went to his mother privately to talk about it.

However, Xin's mother did not admit it, but became angry: "What do you mean? I am tired and tired every day, making cattle and horses for you, but you come to dislike me for not being able to speak? Aren't you so listening to me and hearing the big one? Tell you, I am such a temper, no matter what you say, I can't change it." ”

Xin Weiyang retreated and came back to discuss his ideas with his wife.

Yan Rushun suddenly felt distressed: "Is this the only way to go? I have to code words for three or four hours a day, and I can't look at Jian Jian during that time period." If our mother talks to Jian Jian like this for three or four hours a day, I'm afraid something will go wrong. Oops, what to do, what to do?"

Seeing that his wife was worried like something, Xin Weiyang gritted his teeth: "That's it, I'll let my mother go back to rest for a while, and you can ask our mother to come over and help." ”

Old Man Yan has already been well, and Yan's father and mother are now idle.

Yan Rushun's eyes lit up: "Is it okay?"

"Yes. ”

"Then what if our mother doesn't want to go back?"

"Don't worry, I'll take care of this matter. ”

Xin Weiyang did what he said, and said to his mother at breakfast the next day: "Mom, I think you have been working hard for a long time, maybe because the burden is too heavy, so you are a little irritable. Why don't I sign you up for a tour and go out and relax?"

Xin Mu retorted first: "Where am I irritable?" and then simply refused, "I won't go." It's not interesting to travel anywhere alone. ”

Yan Rushun looked at her husband a little anxiously.

Xin Weiyang was not in a hurry: "Even if you don't go to travel, then go home and rest for a while." ”

Xin's mother immediately exploded: "What do you mean, drive me back?"

Xin Weiyang sighed: "Mom, I said at the beginning, you and Shun Shun and her parents take turns to take care of Jian Jian, you have been taking care of it for so long now, let Shun Shun and her parents also come to enjoy the joy of family, what's the problem?"

Xin's mother questioned: "Did you say that?"

"Yes!" Yan Rushun and Xin Weiyang said in unison.

It doesn't matter if it has it or not, it must be there at this time anyway.

Xin's mother was helpless, so she had to knock on the edge of the bowl angrily: "Old immortal, are you dumb now? ”

Father Xin, who was innocently affected, raised his head from his mobile phone and looked at everyone in a daze: "What's wrong, what's the matter?"

Xin Weiyang hurriedly said: "It's nothing, I just think you are working hard, you can go home to recuperate for a while." ”

"That's fine. Father Xin said slowly, "I was greedy yesterday and ate two more shrimps, and I felt that gout was about to occur when I woke up today, so I just went back to rest and recuperate." ”

Xin Weiyang and Yan Rushun asked at the same time: "Dad, do you want to go to the hospital?"

"No need. Father Xin waved his hand, "If you are sick, there is medicine at home." ”

Yan Rushun hurriedly said: "Then I'll let my parents come over in the afternoon." ”

The matter was then settled.

After Xin's mother left, Yan Rushun stuck out her tongue: "Our mother seems to be very unhappy." ”

Xin Weiyang turned the pages of the book in her hand and said, "It's okay, she has more times when she is unhappy, where can she take care of it." In the past, when she was angry, my dad immediately applied for a business trip and came back. ”

Ah, you can still do that.

Yan Rushun relaxed a lot, and looked at the book Xin Weiyang was reading, but she couldn't read a word of German writing, so she didn't bother him anymore. I poured a glass of water and went out to see my daughter.

Jian Jian was holding "I Want to See the Sea", and read it to Grandma and Grandpa in a frustrated tone, and listened to the second elder happily.

Yan's mother was overjoyed and asked, "Jian Jian knows all the words in this book?"

"I guess I know more than half of it. ”

"Ouch, it's not even two years old, we Jian Jian will recognize so many words!" she said, and she couldn't help but lean in and pat one.

Jian Jian was even more proud, shook her two calves, and said loudly, "Dad is going to take me to see the sea." ”

Yan's mother raised her eyes to look at Yan Rushun: "When?"

"Let's wait for the winter vacation!" Speaking of this, she suddenly had a flash of inspiration, "Mom, you haven't been out to play for a long time, right?

During the winter vacation, Jian Jian was almost two years old.

Mother Yan thought this was a good idea, nodded again and again, and just asked, "What about your father-in-law and mother-in-law?"

"Invite them to join us too. ”

It was unprecedented.

However, having said that, her mother-in-law has always been frugal, and if she goes out to travel together, she will definitely be reluctant to live in a room alone, so will she let her father-in-law live with her when the time comes?

Yan Rushun suddenly felt that the happy enemies of her mother-in-law and father-in-law were really a problem.

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