In fact, Yan Rushun was just talking lively.

Theoretically, it is no problem for a child to learn three or four foreign languages at the same time.

For example, in a small country like Switzerland, which has three official languages and four languages used by the media, but has a population of only eight or nine million, many children are born in more than two languages, and when they grow up, they naturally speak French with their mothers, German with their fathers, and even more awesomely, Italian with their grandfathers, and Riomans with their grandmothers.

But this is only theoretical.

In fact, children can learn as much as parents can hold.

Yan Rushun objectively evaluated, feeling that with her own ability, it is still possible for children to lay a good foundation in Chinese and English before going to primary school, and no matter how much she has no confidence.

Rome was not built in a day, and although the idea is good, it still has to be done step by step.

From this day on, the time spent walking with her daughter began to turn into Yan Rushun's weight loss class.

Each time, after she fastened the waist stool, she let Jian Jian sit upright, put her hand around her waist, and began to sing English nursery rhymes while dancing to the rhythm.

For example, when she began to sing "walking, walking, walking, walking" in an English nursery rhyme to the tune of "Two Tigers", she began to walk to the beat. Jian Jian was used to interacting with her mother and playing games, so she listened attentively;

&nbsbsbmpjump, jumpjumpjump", she hugged her daughter and started jumping - Jian Jian was happy, and Yan Rushun had only one thought: Ouch Mom, why is this dead child so heavy?

&nbsbsbnningrunning, runningrunning", she ran all the way with the baby. At this time, Jian Jian's screams and laughter were excited, and Yan Rushun himself felt so hilarious and very happy, but he only had to pant when he ran down;

&nbsbsbsowlet'sstoowlet'sstop", so you can finally stop and take a breath.

But Jane, who had just found fun, was very dissatisfied, babbling and urging her mother to do it again.

Then the third, the fourth, the fifth......

The child did not dislike the monotonous repetition of the game at all, and according to her exuberant and enjoyable appearance, it was not too much to repeat it 800 times.

Repetition is of course good for the child, and it can continue to deepen her impression, but this is bitter for Yan Rushun, who is a mother.

She ran and ran, panting and panting, her voice was hoarse, and her old waist couldn't hold it anymore.

She had to sing "Finger Song" to save herself, but fortunately, Jian Jian was interested in everything, and immediately shifted her attention to her mother's five fingers, so that she had the opportunity to sit down and rest her waist.

As for the throat break?

Don't think about it, if this kind of thing doesn't exist, it's not your own voice - her daughter is so up-to-the-road, so willing to let people give her English enlightenment, what's not to be satisfied with being a mother?

Is she writhing and not listening, and being a mother happy?

Of course, if you give up your life, you have to satisfy her.

Once you embark on this road, it is destined to be a painful and happy journey!

Fortunately, although his voice was hoarse, his previously unusually stubborn weight also decreased.

After a month, Yan Rushun unexpectedly found that she had lost two pounds, and she was really excited.

You must know that after Song Qingqing gave birth to a child, she specially set up an annual card for the gym to dance exercises, and she didn't lose any weight in a month.

She didn't have to spend any money, and she also picked up a personal trainer who specializes in supervising weight loss training, which couldn't be more perfect.

The benefits are so generous, so what's there to think about? Of course, it is to continue to renew and renew......

On weekends, she also took her husband for a walk with the baby.

Then, Xin Weiyang watched his wife and children running around in the garden as if no one was around, screaming and laughing like crazy, like two monkeys jumping up and down, causing all passers-by to look sideways.

Xin Weiyang has not experienced the occasion of great attention, but this kind of attention ...... It feels so naïve.

However, Yan Rushun also beckoned to him: "Wei Yang, come on, come on, I can't do it, you take Jian Jian and continue to dance." ”

Thanks, don't use it!

Professor Xin smiled reservedly and waved his hand to decline: he wanted to save face.

Yan Rushun didn't allow him to refuse, and directly sent Jian Jian into his arms, and then quickly tied the waist stool.

Daddy Xin Weiyang hugged his daughter who stretched out his hand to his wife with an embarrassed expression: "I'd better forget it, wife, it's you briefly." ”

Yan Rushun just didn't hear it, and pretended to be out of breath to coax her daughter: "Jian Jian, mom is too tired, let mom rest for a while and come back, now dad is playing with you, and dad also likes to play with Jian Jian." ”

No, no, no, he can't do it.

"Wife, I still prefer to play with you. Since the last time he shamelessly betrayed a man's lust and coquettishness, Xin Weiyang began to apply new skills extensively.

After three or two times, Yan Rushun also began to be immune to her husband's male color.

She in turn threw a wink and a flying kiss at Xin Weiyang, and her tone was ambiguous: "Husband, let's go home later and play slowly in bed, now accompany your little lover first." ”

Xin Weiyang, who was thick-skinned but not his wife, had to resist the urge to have a nosebleed, lowered his head to look at his daughter, and explained helplessly: "Take a walk, just take a walk." Daddy will take you for an authentic walk. ”

Yan Rushun smiled: "Hey, Xin Weiyang, you're too much!"

Xin Weiyang just didn't hear it, and walked straight forward. The pace is big and fast, and Yan Rushun can't catch up for a while.

She had no choice but to chase and train: "Eh, will you die if you sing two sentences?"

It won't die, but it will lose face.

The community is not far from the school, and there is no shortage of colleagues and acquaintances living in the surrounding real estate and communities.

Starvation is a small matter, but face is a big matter.

Xin Weiyang resolutely refused to give in.

He's only responsible for slipping the baby!

Yan Rushun muttered angrily.

Xin Weiyang listened to the dissatisfied humming behind him, knowing that his wife couldn't do anything about him, he couldn't help but snicker in his heart.

However, after only a little relief in his heart, the little ancestor in his arms began to make trouble.

He wants to go forward, the little ancestor leaned his arms and body vigorously, and he had to go to the right to live or die. If she didn't do what she wanted, she would fall to the right with her face on her face, and she would shout straight at her.

Well, it's a walk anyway, and it's a walk everywhere you go.

"You have your own idea at such a young age?" Xin Weiyang was a little surprised, and then obeyed the little guy's will.

With the first, of course there is a second.

So, the next itinerary became: Jian Jian stretched out his arm to guide the way, Xin Weiyang followed the instructions, all the way over, as long as he encountered a fork in the road, the little guy had to make his own ideas and point where to go.

After a while, Yan Rushun couldn't help but laugh out loud: "Eh, Weiyang, is this your baby, or is the baby you?"

Xin Weiyang looked depressed, and screamed in his heart: This is not his little lover, but a little monster!

Anyway, although this kind of English enlightenment is very tiring, Yan Rushun's heart is still very full and satisfied, because now she can be sure that what she is doing will not be useless.

She knew that everything she did today would seep into Jian Jian's memory bit by bit and become her precious treasure in the future.

If Spelling Dad is fighting for economy, resources and connections, isn't Spelling Niang fighting for love and enlightenment?

She also told Mei Bai what she had learned.

After this period of recuperation, Mei Bai's mood has basically calmed down.

helps Qi Qing take care of the captain every day, and she no longer has fear of giving birth.

It's just that her belly is bigger than a day, and she can't hesitate for too long.

She specially asked Yan Rushun out because she felt that Yan Rushun had a certain amount of research on children's education. She wanted to hear about the plan and key points of raising a child, and see if she could be up to the role in the next few decades so that she could make a final decision.

Yan Rushun told her about her thoughts about spelling for more than half a year, and also introduced the situation of the children in the HS group to her.

"If you're worried about the difficulties that will happen to you in the future, you can definitely consider homeschooling. She gave Xiaobai advice:

"First, you can teach it to write, so that even if you don't have a diploma in the future, you won't have to worry about not being able to support yourself;

"Second, although homeschooling requires a lot of effort for your children, it also effectively reduces the cost of education, so that your children do not have to attend so many training classes, so you don't have to worry about financial difficulties that may result from unstable income.

"Third, learn to keep you and your child very close at home, as long as you plan and nurture well in the early stage, your child will naturally know that he is motivated, so that he doesn't have to worry about what truancy, early love, and addiction ...... this and that addiction will be involved."

Mei Bai interrupted her: "So, you are inclined to let me keep the child?"

Yan Rushun paused, patted Mei Bai's hand understandingly, sighed and said, "You know me, I used to think that I could live without my husband, but I couldn't live without children." So, if you ask my opinion, I definitely think it's best for the child to stay with the mother. However, if you make the opposite decision, I must remind you not to regret it, and don't worry about your children anymore, otherwise it will be difficult for you to start a new life in the future. ”

Mei Bai was silent.

Her hesitation lies in the fact that she feels that she is not able to keep the child, and that she is afraid that she will regret it for the rest of her life when she leaves the child. After thinking about it, she couldn't make up her mind, so she came to seek the advice of a friend, but now she finds that she still can't make up her mind.

Yan Rushun asked, "What did Qi Qing say?"

Mei Bai sighed: "She said: "The child means more than ten or twenty years of responsibility, if I don't want to take this responsibility, it's better to send the child away." After a pause, he added, "Actually, it's not that I don't want to be responsible, I just know too much what kind of responsibility it is to be a mother, so I don't dare to take it easily." I'm afraid that if I don't do a good job, my children will blame me in the future, just like I will never forgive my parents for the rest of my life. ”

Yes, there are many people on the Internet who complain that "both parents are evil".

Mei Bai's consideration is not unreasonable.

It was a difficult choice.

After all, this is the life of a friend, or does she have to make her own decision, Yan Rushun sighed and stopped talking.

Mei Bai lowered her head and meditated for a long time, and finally raised her head: "I thought about it clearly......"

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