Yan Rushun looked at her with encouragement in her eyes.

Mei Bai smiled, showing a hint of envy: "Ah Shun, I think you are really good, your way of taking care of children is also very good, and your suggestions are also very exciting to me, but I don't know if I can do it to your level......"

Yan Rushun hurriedly said: "There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts." Xiaobai, of course your child wants to recognize me as a godmother, if there is any problem, my godmother will help at any time. ”

Mei Bai smiled again, but her face gradually converged, and she said with a rare determination: "I know, Ah Shun, you are very good to me, and my godfather and godmother are even more kind to me." But I don't have the confidence to keep the child......"

Yan Rushun was a little anxious: "Why, Qi Qing is also a child alone......"

"It's not the same. Mei Bai tugged at the corners of her mouth desolately, "She is not alone, she has her cousin Chen behind her, as well as her parents, if necessary, they can come up at any time." But as for me, I'm really the only one, raising children, and I can't even afford to get sick. Even so, I am not reluctant to take this risk for the sake of my children, but I can't let my children take risks with me......"

She couldn't speak any longer, and hid her face and began to cry.

"Don't cry, Xiaobai, this is not good for the child," Yan Rushun was sad and heartbroken at this time, pulled her cuffs, and persuaded, "Xiaobai, you want to open a little, you are not alone, don't you still have us?"

Mei Bai shook her head, choked up and said, "I know you are good to me, but raising a child is not a problem that can be solved in a moment and a half and with a few small dollars." In the past, my parents always had to pay for my tuition and living expenses, but now, in case I have an accident, it doesn't even have any money for self-defense, and I don't have any relatives to rely on, so I don't dare to gamble on the future of my children......"

Yan Rushun's eyes were also red, she held her hand tightly, and said in a loud voice: "Don't say such unlucky words, Xiaobai, and I said, I am the child's godmother, if you really need it, I will raise it!"

Mei Bai smiled.

She wiped her tears, but the tears kept pouring out, and she couldn't wipe them away: "Ah Shun, thank you! I know you are good to me, so I can't embarrass you." You are not alone, you also have to consider the opinions of your husband and your mother-in-law, even if your husband is willing, your mother-in-law will definitely not be willing. ”

This is human nature and cannot be avoided.

Yan Rushun straightened up and thought about it: "It's okay, I will use my money to support it in the future, and my mother-in-law will not have any opinions." ”

"Your money is also the joint property of the husband and wife. Mei Bai patted her little hand and tried to make a happy appearance, "And you know, Qi Qing has always been very reliable in doing things." She helped me find a couple, they are very loving, they have been infertile for many years and have not divorced, and their cultural level and literacy are very high. They like children very much, and they have been thinking about adoption for the past two years, and if I give them the child, I think I can rest assured, and the child will be very happy, right?"

She laughed as she spoke, laughed and cried.

Yan Rushun didn't know what to say anymore, so she could only hold her hand to show support.

She wanted to smile at Fa Xiaoxiao, but she couldn't laugh, only tears poured out of her eyes and filled her cheeks.

After returning home, Yan Rushun was still depressed and had no energy for several days. Only when facing Jian Jian will she fight her spirit and play with her.

She thought of herself: compared to Meibai, she was really much more arbitrary and lucky. And she just has more reliance than Mei Bai, so she dares to try out of the ordinary.

And once she has a case, how much better will Jian Jian be than Mei Bai's child?

Although there is Xin Weiyang as a father, he is not good at taking care of children, nor is he good at educating children, and her mother-in-law's parenting concept is difficult for her to accept, and her parents may not be able to take care of their children from time to time, and they don't know how miserable they are.

Thinking of this, her heart was full of urgency, and at the same time she warned herself: because she doesn't know what will happen in the future, she must not be able to spoil her children in the future, and only if the child has self-care and independence as soon as possible, will she have enough courage to face any possibility in the future.

"Jian Jian, your mother won't spoil you in the future, but as long as you are yourself, your mother will help you grow up hard!" she said to her daughter very solemnly.

Jian Jian raised her ignorant eyes and looked at her mother and smiled.

Mother Yan knew Mei Bai's decision, and she could only sigh: "Xiaobai has no choice, don't be sad." ”

She struggled to squeeze out a smile: "Mom, I'm fine, I'll be fine in a few days." ”

Yan's mother felt that her daughter's state was worrying, and couldn't help but persuade: "Otherwise, you will go out for a walk today to change your mood?" I will take care of Jian Jian - you take Jian Jian like this, and it is not good for Jian Jian. ”

Yan Rushun knew that her mother was reasonable, and she thought that she hadn't visited Sister Yan for a long time, so when she called, Sister Yan happened to be free, so she went straight to her house.

The former hot mom, Sister Yan, has now become a little plain.

The hair is still neatly combed, but the hairstyle has obviously not been taken care of for a while, and it is not as delicate as before. The costumes are also decent, but they don't have the amazing effect that they used to be carefully matched.

Yan Rushun handed her the chocolates and fruits she brought, and asked, "Sister Yan, have you been busy lately?"

Sister Yan sighed: "Busy." Every day, at one o'clock in the afternoon, I can catch my breath, and other times it is like a spinning top that can't stop. ”

"What are you busy with?" Yan Rushun was curious.

"Go to the training class. Sister Yan sighed again.

Speaking of which, Yan Rushun suggested to her in the past that she was not in a hurry to let Xiao Wang learn mathematics, but to cultivate the habit of reading first. At that time, she felt that it made sense and tried her best to accompany Xiao Wang to read picture books.

Xiao Wang was not very happy to read books at first, and even if he did, he couldn't read for long. Once Sister Yan was a little reluctant, she made a fuss and roared, disturbing the whole family uneasy.

Sister Yan ignored Brother-in-law Yan's complaints, put down other things, patiently continued to study, and kept trying to overcome difficulties little by little.

It took almost a year for Xiao Wang to finally calm down and listen to her finish telling a story in one go, and the relationship between mother and son became more and more intimate in this interaction.

Everything is developing in a good direction, and Sister Yan is full of a sense of accomplishment in her heart.

However, at this time, Xiao Wang began to face a new problem, that is, young to small!

Sister Yan actually trusted the relationship early and was ready to send Xiao Wang to a well-known private elementary school, so she was very stable in her heart.

However, when she inadvertently chatted with the parents of other children of the same age, she suddenly had a sense of crisis.

It turned out that the parents of these children had sent their children to the kindergarten bridging class to prepare their children for primary school.

"Is it for an interview?" asked Sister Yan.

"No, I'm afraid that he won't be able to keep up with the teaching progress when he goes to primary school. The parent replied.

"Isn't this a bit exaggerated? It's only the first grade of primary school, what's there that can't keep up?" Sister Yan smiled, a little disapproving.

Before, she was also anxious to send Xiao Wang everywhere to early education and training classes, but Xiao Wang's reaction was all kinds of rebellion. When she calmed down, told Xiao Wang stories at home, and played this and that with him, Xiao Wang's mood became better and better, and his temper became less and less.

These parents are afraid that they are too eager for their children to become Chan.

But the parent said seriously: "It's not an exaggeration at all. Just look at the situation in elementary schools now. Many children have learned in advance, so the teacher's teaching progress is very fast, and if your child is not prepared at all, he will definitely not be able to keep up. ”

Sister Yan continued to laugh at the time: "If you can't keep up, you can't keep up, and after you get used to it, you will slowly catch up." ”

"Hey, you're not going to be able to laugh at that point. The parent said earnestly, "Think about it, as soon as you enter school, the child is the bottom of the junior students, self-confidence can not be erected, it is easy to get bored with school, and maybe you will be excluded by your classmates." Here, the teacher also invites parents to call your son's name in the parent group twice, how long do you think you and your son can support it?"

Sister Yan felt that she was thick-skinned, and the teacher really wanted to scold, but she couldn't pretend to be a grandson and listen patiently.

However, if Xiao Wang really loses his self-confidence and becomes bored with school because of his bottom grades, then the consequences will be serious.

She was busy checking with the elementary school parents she knew, only to find out that what the parents had said before was true.

Modern society is full of competition, and she doesn't have the ability and confidence to let the child retreat bravely, so she can only grit her teeth and face the difficulties.

She didn't dare to slack off any longer, so she hurriedly enrolled in the kindergarten bridging class.

In this arrangement, in addition to the two interest classes of taekwondo and painting, Xiao Wang has added four courses of Chinese, mathematics, English, and brain potential training in the kindergarten and primary school bridging classes.

Sister Yan tasted the sweetness of parent-child reading and refused to give up.

As a result, the time schedule is full every day.

I got up at six o'clock in the morning, got busy with my work, sent the father and son out of the house, cleaned up the housework, and then cooked for myself.

Take a break in the afternoon, and then you have to pick up Xiao Wang and participate in various training classes.

At the end of the training, go home for dinner, and then it's time to wash up and go to bed.

At the end of the day, I was exhausted by busyness.

After attending the training class on the weekend, I had to take Xiao Wang out on outings or participate in various activities in my spare time, so as to cultivate my former introverted son into a generous and cheerful personality.

No wonder she doesn't have the heart to do the elaborate makeup she used to look like she used to be.

Yan Rushun sighed very much: "I haven't gone to elementary school yet, I'm busy like this, and the children are really tired now!"

"Who's to say it isn't. Sister Yan also sighed, "It's been a long time since I've sat down with my friends and chatted like I did today." ”

Speaking of this, she subconsciously picked up her mobile phone and glanced at it, and immediately jumped up: "Ouch, it's four o'clock! That, Rushun, I have to pick up Xiao Wang from school, that's it today, let's talk again another day." ”

Yan Rushun naturally did not delay her business, and hurriedly got up to say goodbye.

On the way back, thinking of what Sister Yan said, she began to feel that Mei Bai's decision was not unreasonable. If you really want to leave the child behind, will Mei Bai be able to handle the child's mess alone in the future?

Even if you can do it, it's going to be tough!

She felt a lot more relieved because of this, and thought that Jian Jian would have to face these things that Xiao Wang was facing now in the future, and she couldn't help frowning slightly.

In fact, she does not approve of going to this kind of training class that already has the prototype of the examination in order to keep up with the teaching progress of primary school.

Should children take exams from the beginning of school?

I'm afraid this is not conducive to the cultivation of personality and creativity.

She has an introduction to the training class in her hand, which says that the Chinese class is mainly to teach pinyin and reading and writing, the mathematics class is mainly to teach addition and subtraction within 20, English is the alphabet and some simple daily language learning, and the brain potential training is more vague, probably to take children to do various intellectual games.

These contents don't seem to be difficult, but Sister Yan also said that many children in the bridging class, including Xiao Wang, are struggling to learn.

Yan Rushun listened silently.

There is one sentence that she can't say: Sister Yan resigned when Xiao Wang was three years old, and Xiao Wang didn't even have the ability to take care of himself seriously in the three years before that, let alone study in other aspects, which was a complete waste.

Thinking back to the books he had read, and then thinking about the children in HS, Yan Rushun felt vaguely in his heart: If you plan reasonably according to the child's situation from the beginning and learn slowly, these contents of the kindergarten transition class can actually be mastered very easily, or even far surpassed.

Her steps gradually changed from a little dazed and sad to firm and powerful.

Facing the golden sunset, Yan Rushun moved her legs quickly, and at the same time encouraged herself fiercely in her heart:

Jian Jian, I will definitely work hard for my mother! You wait, my mother will come back with full blood!

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