You're crazy!" her neck stretched out and her eyes widened.

Yan Rushun suddenly sneered: "I just think Xiaobai is too pitiful, since you are her godmother and godfather, of course you can help." ”

Yan's mother jumped to her feet, eager to stab her: "What do you mean? Do you think my godmother is not good enough for her?"

Yan Rushun dragged her voice and said hesitantly: "That's not what it meant......"

"It's not that I don't love her, if I didn't hurt her, I wouldn't have taken care of her all these years. However, godmothers are not real mothers after all. Don't think that it's okay to watch a little closer, if you go to the hospital for a few days, you will find that accidents happen every day, and some of them are disasters that fall from the sky, and you can't prevent them if you want to. ”

Yan Rushun was silent.

In fact, she also knows these truths, but after all, Mei Bai and her have been in a relationship since childhood, and now it is about the child - after becoming a mother, she really can't listen to the things that spoil the child, so she can't bear it.

Mother Yan saw that she was not dead, so she simply accentuated her tone and said: "I understand that you want to help Xiaobai's heart, but you are not alone now that the whole family is not hungry, you now have Xiaojian, a husband, a mother-in-law, Xiaobai inserted in, how to get along?"

Yan Rushun was speechless.

"Let's talk about the worst-case scenario: a few years ago, there was a news that my grandparents helped take care of the children, and they took a nap because they were too tired, during which the children were playful and climbed out of the window and fell to their deaths. Do you know what the result will be? The son-in-law immediately divorced his wife, and then took his father-in-law and mother-in-law to court! If such a consequence occurs, can you afford it?"

Yan Rushun rubbed her face and shook her head helplessly: "I know, Mom, you don't have to say it again." ”

She understands what her mother means: she is now a mother, and she can't take unnecessary risks for the sake of simplicity.

But what about Meibai?

She is pessimistic about Fa Xiao's future.

After a few days, Meibai finally made a decision.

She smiled and said to Yan Rushun on the phone: "It's still the seventh master who is right, no matter what, I should give birth to the child." After all, this child is too difficult for me, and if I lose him, I may be haunted for the rest of my life. ”

Yan Rushun was worried: "Have you really thought about it? It's really not easy to take care of a child alone." ”

Mei Bai laughed, full of desolation and self-deprecation: "Look, maybe I may not be a single mother." ”

"What do you mean?"

Mei Bai was silent for a moment before saying: "Qi Qing told me that I can think about it during pregnancy, and if I am willing to take care of the child by myself, then grit my teeth and do my best." If she really can't bring it, she can introduce a friend to adopt my child. ”

Both men were silent for a long time.

This is also a road, but if it weren't as rational as Qi Qing, he would never have thought of the option of separating flesh and blood.

And no matter how you choose, what remains in your heart must be pain.

When you become an adult, you are carrying a load. No one can fully carry the burden of life for themselves.

Yan Rushun was sad for several days before she cheered up. She decided to educate Jian Jian well, so that she could have a pair of eyes to recognize the essence of human nature before she became an adult, and a strong heart that could afford life.

Of course, this is a long way to go.

Right now, what she needs to do most is to adjust her mentality, and she can't let herself easily fall into a state of yin and yang, and she is stuck in raising the bar with her mother-in-law and mother-in-law.

First, Xin Weiyang took her to the banquet.

The people at the table, in addition to Song Qingqing, the visiting professor and his wife, and a female professor recommended by the visiting professor, there are also two teachers from Xin Weiyang's team and assistant Xiao Chen.

Nine people were crammed into a private room with a modest layout, and the atmosphere was lively.

After listening for a while, Yan Rushun understood that the visiting professor had the intention of joining Xin Weiyang's team, and the main matters had been almost discussed, only some details needed to be determined, and Song Qingqing had already prepared the contract and was waiting to be signed at any time, so all parties at the table were very enthusiastic and harmonious.

It's just that other people say a lot, Xin Weiyang is smiling, but the language is concise, only a few words at the critical time, expressing attention, but not friendly enough.

Fortunately, everyone here knows his style very well and doesn't mind much.

However, Yan Rushun was too familiar with his appearance at home, and when he changed to the outside at first glance, he relived the concise and cold wind when he first met, and he was really a little uncomfortable for a while.

Even Song Qingqing bit her ear: "I saw your husband chatting with you so happily outside just now, it completely refreshed my stereotype of Dean Xin." ”

When they first got out of the car, they met Song Qingqing, when Xin Weiyang was talking to her about whether to go out for a trip, she was in a happy mood, and she didn't delve into the strangeness of Song Qingqing's expression.

Now I know that this is the reason.

It turns out that Xin Weiyang has always maintained such a style in his work?

Yan Rushun shook his head in his heart: If he had been treating her with this attitude at the beginning, she would not have considered him, and the people around him would have been able to bear it.

chatting and chatting during the banquet, the topic became more and more casual, and it inadvertently came to them.

Xiao Chen cocked his thumb and said, "Teacher Yan, I really think Dean Xin is very reliable. Not only did he never pay attention to the beauties outside, but he also drove us to regard our wife as our only aesthetic benchmark. ”

The crowd laughed good-naturedly.

Yan Rushun's face was slightly red, but he smiled generously: "Xiao Chen, do you want to praise yourself for being teachable?"

Everyone laughed again, and also complimented Yan Rushun for being worthy of being the dean's wife.

She subconsciously glanced at Xin Weiyang, meeting his smiling gaze.

The two looked at each other and smiled, and the feeling was so sweet.

On the way back, Xin Weiyang asked, "Are you relieved this time?"

Yan Rushun is second monk was puzzled: "What are you relieved?"

Xin Weiyang cleared his throat: "Aren't you always worried that I'm staring at a young beautiful girl at school?"

It turned out that it was for this reason that she was brought to the banquet to prove her innocence.

Yan Rushun couldn't cry or laugh: she didn't doubt his meaning at all. Whether her husband is attentive to herself or not, she can still feel it. It's just that no woman likes to be disgusted by her husband and said to be a fat woman.

She said bluntly: "I'm not worried about this, do you think that with Song Qingqing here, even a little wind and grass momentum can hide it from me?"

That's right.

Xin Weiyang smiled bitterly: "Then why did you get angry for so long before?"

Yan Rushun pouted and glared at him with disgust: "Who made you suspicious of other people's fat?" This is a woman's death hole.

Xin Weiyang poked somewhere: "You are indeed fatter than before." ”

Yan Rushun was like a cat that had been stepped on by its tail, and her voice was raised an octave: "Hey, it's too much!"

"It's a fact. Xin Weiyang smiled, "You still have to pay attention to your figure, not to mention anything else, it is always good for your health." ”

Is this disgusting for her figure, or is it concerned about her health?

Yan Rushun was a little unsure, so she could only murmur and complain: "I have to take care of the children now, and I have to write in code, how can I have that American time?"

"Isn't there a famous saying that time is like a woman's cleavage, and there is always a squeeze. Xin Weiyang's expression was serious, but the tone was quite meaningful.

Yan Rushun's face turned red and scolded: "Indecent!"

After the skin-to-skin kiss was restricted, Xin Weiyang became more and more adept at playing hooligans. If Song Qingqing knew that he was so sullen, he would definitely fall through his glasses.

scolded and scolded, but Yan Rushun was really full of joy.

After all, Xin Weiyang is just chatting in front of her - is this considered the love of husband and wife forced by having a baby?

When she went to bed at night, Yan Rushun began to seriously consider whether it was really necessary for her to get a fitness card to lose weight.

It's not much, it's just ten pounds long, but when you put on the belt, the fat on your waist can't cover it and turns out. In this way, the tights that are beautiful and fashionable to show off the figure are basically wasted.

used to be young and beautiful, but he was a little unwilling in the end.

Just put a list of things to do, and she immediately realized that she really didn't have that American time to work out.

At least, it will be after she takes Jian Jian to try early education.

In the past six months, not only has her appearance, height and weight changed dramatically, but her schedule has also changed so quickly that people are caught off guard.

Often the mother has just adapted to her work and rest habits, and the next moment she further shortens the sleep time and prolongs the time of the noisy mother.

She has more and more time to be awake, and the games at home alone are far from enough.

Therefore, it became urgent to find some games and activities that were more suitable for her.

She worked tirelessly to take Jian Jian to run around for two weeks, and tried classes in no less than six early education institutions, but found that there was no early education class suitable for Jian Jian at all.

Drawing and exercise classes are too early for her, language and music, Yan Rushun feels that the efficiency of early education institutions is not as high as herself.

However, it was not without her gains in the early education institution, and she seized the opportunity to join several mothers who had established their own contact groups, all of whom were mothers of children of similar age in the neighborhood.

Everyone has a common topic, faces a common confusion, and shouts here in a depressed mood, and someone always comes out to chat with them.

When one party encounters a problem, all parties enthusiastically support, gossiping and making all kinds of suggestions, even if it is useless, it is very comforting in my heart - to say a big unfilial word, at least I see that there are people here who hurt Granny Chen's mother-in-law together, and the mothers will no longer feel that they are fighting alone and exhausted.

However, Yan Rushun soaked in the group for a few more days, and found that many mothers have a very one-sided understanding of raising children, at least their efforts in this area are definitely not as good as themselves and their mothers, so it is basically impossible for her to learn any practical skills and knowledge from this mother group.

It's okay to talk once in a while, but more is a waste of time.

At this time, she received an invitation to the elementary school reunion.

It's been fifteen years since I graduated in a blink of an eye, and I don't know what everyone has become.

Yan Rushun happily agreed to participate, and then happily went to ask her mother for leave.

Mom pulled down her face suddenly: "What kind of class reunion to attend, don't go!"

"Why?" she was puzzled.

"You can't do this job at all now, isn't it a shame to go to the class reunion!"

Her heart was suddenly clogged.

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