Yan Rushun whispered to comfort Mei Bai, and the others had already started the mode of "Husband Complaint Conference" along Mei Bai's topic.

Lin Yu complained the most: "I can't count on my husband at all with children." I went dark day after day, and I was so tired that I was dizzy. As for my husband, when he came back to tease the children, he sat in front of the computer to play games, and slept in a separate room with us at night, never caring about the children. I've been sleep-deprived every day for the past two years, and I've had a nervous breakdown. You ask him to help, and he rightly throws a sentence of 'you don't have a job, and you don't care about children?' - so angry that I almost spurted out a mouthful of old blood. ”

Everyone else lamented: "Which family is not like this, now they all say: mother is born, mother-in-law raises, grandparents come to appreciate, grandpa goes to the market every day, dad goes home and goes online - it is completely a portrayal of the life of every Chinese family." ”

Then he comforted him weakly: "It's better to wait for the child to go to kindergarten." ”

He Mei sighed: "I advise you not to believe this sentence, now that the mother of the child is in elementary school, she has not seen it easy to get out." Haven't you read a recent popular post that says that parents of elementary school students accompany their children to do homework, and as a result, they have a heart attack. ”

Everyone suddenly sighed: "Yes, yes, but what can we do? If we don't deceive ourselves, wouldn't life be even more desperate?"

It turns out that every woman is so difficult.

Yan Rushun felt that her mentality had become more peaceful.

Lin Yu took advantage of the situation to educate Mei Bai: "It's not that I said you, Xiaobai, you guys who are outside the siege are thinking too well about things." Not to mention taking care of children, those who are fathers can watch their children not have accidents in the time between playing with their mobile phones, which is already good. That kind of 'other people's husband' lives in legends. ”

This is also too hard for Meibai, she must especially want to believe that there will be a good husband and father in the world at this moment, at least, believing that this will give her a glimmer of hope.

Yan Rushun had to come forward to refute: "It's not." The kind of child Mei Bai said also exists for his father......" paused, and suddenly couldn't think of any familiar examples, so he had to cheekily take Xin Weiyang as an example, "Like my husband, although he is not a model representative, but before I got married, I told him that I need to find a qualified child and his father, and he made a corresponding commitment after careful consideration." ”

He Mei frowned, and keenly grasped the suspicion: "Are you looking for a husband, or are you just looking for a father for your children? If the two of them have no relationship, their married life can't be maintained, what else do you say about winning with your husband?"

Yan Rushun explained: "I didn't say that if you look for a child's father, you don't need to be emotional, the two identities of husband and child's father are not contradictory." I just think that the two of them can't just talk about feelings, but also have a common goal after marriage, such as children or something, otherwise they will fall apart sooner or later. ”

Zhao Binbin asked: "Then which do you think is more important, the child or the husband?"

"Of course it's all important!"

"The child and the husband fell into the water at the same time, which one do you save first - don't play tricks, just answer that the child is still the husband. ”

This eternal problem stumped Yan Rushun.

She didn't speak, but Mei Bai replied categorically: "Save the child first!"

There was a burst of laughter of unknown meaning, and some people blurted out a joke: "Didn't you 'win with your husband' just now? Why did you save the child first now?"

Mei Bai was also asked, and she couldn't answer for a while.

Yan Rushun understands her very well.

She actually really wants to find a reliable husband, and the family will be harmonious and beautiful in the future, when she mops the floor and cooks, her husband teases the children to play games or guide the children to do homework, and the home is always full of warmth and harmony and laughter.

However, in her more than 20 years of experience, men have never been reliable. Therefore, she can't be naïve to believe that her husband has become a person who depends on her, so she will say such two seemingly contradictory ideas.

Yan Rushun was not angry at everyone's ridicule of Mei Bai, and raised his voice and asked: "What about you? Since you think Mei Bai's answer is ridiculous, which one do you save first?"

The crowd was silent.

looked at each other for a while, and only then did one or two people speak, chose "husband", and said: "After all, my husband wants to live with me for the rest of his life, and without a husband, it will be difficult for me to raise my children alone." ”

Yan Rushun moved her gaze to the others, but they avoided their gaze one after another, pretending to discuss something and whispering to the person next to them.

Seeing that the atmosphere was a little embarrassing, He Mei opened her mouth to refute: "Xiaobai, it is not okay to put children above the relationship between husband and wife, so that the marriage will have problems sooner or later." The core of the family is husband and wife, or should the relationship between husband and wife be the focus. ”

"yes, yes, not really. As if they had suddenly come to life, the crowd opened their mouths to echo.

"In fact, now children's efforts are only one aspect, and on the other hand, they still have to fight for their fathers and mothers. If the relationship between parents is not good, there is no way to form a team to fight monsters. ”

"Yes, yes, yes, you look at those rich second-generation officials, some of them may not be good at learning, but people are not in a hurry at all. Why? Because their parents will not only leave them a large sum of money, but also leave them valuable network resources. But if the relationship between the husband and wife is not good, whether the money and resources should be left to your child, it is not necessarily. ”

Someone else shook his head and sighed earnestly: "You young people, you just think too simply. I've never been married, so I don't know if the pot is iron......"

Hey, we're all classmates, and the age gap is within one year, so do you need to pretend to be old like this?

Yan Rushun couldn't help but sneer: "It's as if you are ten years older when you give birth to a child." ”

Lin Yu retorted unhappily: "What we mean is that we are already from here." I'm a little qualified to speak in the matter of marriage, okay?"

Yan Rushun is also sharp-toothed, and today he will not back down for Mei Bai: "Marriage and living are two different things, right? Otherwise, there would not be such a high divorce rate in this society." ”

Lin Yu slapped the case, and his voice was so high that it could almost puncture his eardrums: "Yan Rushun, keep your mouth clean, don't you can't get along with your husband, and it's not easy to curse other families." ”

Why can't she get along with her husband?

Yan Rushun was angry, and he also stood up.

Everyone was taken aback by this tense state, and hurriedly stepped forward to stop and persuade them.

Zhao Binbin and He Mei stopped Lin Yu, and Mei Bai directly pulled Yan Rushun out of the door, and lowered her voice to persuade her as she walked: "It's okay, it's okay, we don't need to fight with Lin Yu for that breath." I just heard that she was living a miserable life at home, she was picked on by her mother-in-law every day, and her husband was also very indifferent to her, and even beat her. Many times, she cried to her classmates that if it weren't for the sake of the children, she might have divorced a long time ago......"

Yan Rushun was speechless: No wonder when she mentioned the word "divorce" just now, Lin Yu's reaction would be so big, it turned out that she stepped on the cat's tail.

But what is the need for such a marriage to last? The child is only two years old, and there are sixteen years left before he reaches the age of eighteen. A person's life is only a few decades, and when the torment reaches that time, what hope do people have left?

is also a stay-at-home mother, and the story of Lin Yu is too sad.

Yan Rushun couldn't help sighing: "What the hell is she thinking, I will definitely divorce immediately." ”

It was a-for-tat confrontation just now, and now it's hurting again.

Mei Bai asked: "Are you really going to leave?" I heard that Lin Yu's husband is a rich second generation. ”

"Even if I go to wash the dishes after the divorce, I will leave!" Yan Rushun replied without hesitation.

But then the child will have no father or mother. ”

"Isn't it good for a child to watch a pair of resentful parents grow up?"

Mei Bai sighed a little sadly: "But how difficult it is to take care of a child alone, these days I have lived with the seventh master, and I have also helped her serve the captain, I can't even hold on for ten minutes." ”

The captain is when he can walk, as long as he opens his eyes, there is no quiet, eight horses can be exhausted to death in the dark of a day, and the sister-in-law can't bear it, or Qi Qing has increased her salary, and the sister-in-law will definitely continue to work.

Yan Rushun comforted: "Your income is not low, and it will not be difficult to hire a sister-in-law when the time comes." ”

Mei Bai sighed again and shook her head, but no longer mentioned this matter, and asked her instead: "How are you, are you still the same as with Professor Xin? ”

This one...... She doesn't seem to be doing much to manage it.

Does cheating in the middle of the night count?

Yan Rushun coughed twice, and stubbornly said: "We didn't do anything, so didn't we just tell him before we got married, we know our common goal, and he also loves Jian Jian, so everything is okay." ”

Mei Bai asked: "Did he help his daughter change diapers?"

"Helping ......" interned once.

"Can I help you take care of the kids at night?"

"Nope. ”

This matter cannot be mentioned at all. Just recently, once a sister-in-law came home, she asked Xin Weiyang to accompany her to guard the child at night, but her mother-in-law reprimanded her for a long time with her face, asking her not to interfere with Xin Weiyang's rest, he had a lot of work. also asked her if she didn't go to class, and asked people to help take care of the children, what they were doing all day long.

She was scolded so much that she couldn't open her mouth.

It was Xin Weiyang who helped her say a few words before she told her mother-in-law to shut up.

But he also said that he had something to do early the next morning, and he had to rest well at night, and said that he would accompany him next time. But no one knows when the next time will be.

Mei Bai paused for a moment, and then asked, "Does he play with Jian Jian?"

“…… Not. ”

After going home, I also guard the computer to work and do things, in addition to eating and sleeping, I occasionally catch up with American dramas.

Mei Bai's cheeks twitched, and she changed to a conscious safety question: "You have a lot of family, probably he can't intervene." However, after having a daughter, does he come home much earlier every day?"

“…… Probably. This answer was vague enough, but Yan Rushun also felt that he was almost about to break his face.

In fact, Xin Weiyang's return home time was not earlier, but later than before. Many times they don't even go home for dinner, saying that they have some kind of entertainment or something.

Although in front of his mother-in-law, he still spoke for himself as always, and although he took her to the banquet to show his innocence, his actual behavior on weekdays unconsciously developed in the opposite direction.

Listening to his words and watching his deeds, this kind of performance can already ring the alarm bell.

She had pity on Lin Yu just now, but now she may see that after a while, it will be the turn of others to pity her.

Mei Bai faintly sensed Fa Xiao's embarrassment, closed her mouth and did not continue to ask.

Yan Rushun was in a cold sweat, and he was terrified: he was too big to melt. If Mei Bai hadn't asked these words, she would have been completely unaware of her situation.

The review is an afterthought, and now the question is: what should she do?

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