Chapter 610: Because of Loneliness, Loneliness, Emptiness (1)
Life is one thing, and dreams are a poem.
It is indeed relatively easy to be born to live, but to realize your dreams requires a poetic encounter.
And there are many good opportunities in a person's life, and if you are fortunate enough to grasp some of them, your life will be less sorrowful.
It's just that most people don't grasp any of these times, and just numbly bow their heads and walk forward, rarely in the mood to look up at the road, or even look at the picturesque scenery in the distance, and the future in the distance.
There is no early planning, nor constant revision, and it is always at the end of the day that it dawns on me, and it turns out that happiness was once so close.
For the operation of Zhao Song Group Company, Zhao Hong once wanted to continue to work hard to pay more attention, but Guo Yi and Xiao Wanting both believed that Zhao Hong's physical health was the most important thing in the family, and the rest was just more or less harvested, and the company's development was not so perfect.
Zhao Hong has no way, and he can't live up to the care of his family, and the whole world is currently in a good period, everyone can make money, it's just a matter of how much or fast, and the future of the company can't be predicted in advance by himself alone, and the scale is large, in fact, his own management ability is definitely not as good as those elites, why bother with his own pleasing and unflattering?
He had to instruct: "Guo Yi, Wanting, don't be too tired, the company has more talent teams, and those who should be delegated must be released, don't always feel that you can rest assured that you can do everything yourself."
Besides, now we should not ask how good the company's development is, at least we can't exhaust ourselves, and let go of the position of general manager as soon as possible!"
Guo Yi and Xiao Wanting immediately agreed, after all, with examples like Zhao Hong in front of them, the children are still young, and they still need their support at home!
However, there are still some people who want to fight for some more, Zhao Hong said a little toughly: "I am in charge of this matter! The company has reached such a position today, your body and bones are no longer your own, at the big it is the country, and at the small point it is also the majority of employees of the company, at least it is also the pillar of the family.
This king is weak and can't handle political affairs, and he has no energy to interfere in the operation of the company, but he can still solve some small things for the concubines. ”
"Huh...... There's something wrong with it, right?"
"Haha...... , where did the dreaming go?"
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As soon as this statement came out, the proper confession of true love was laughed at by the two people and became a "problem"!
Why can't you understand his efforts to be a model husband!......
However, it turned out to have some effect, even a woman like Xiao Wanting, who has always been tough, is a little gentle, not to mention Guo Yi, who has always overcome rigidity with softness. They were moved and did not say it, but they expressed it with their actions.
Not only Zhao Hong understands, but in fact, they are more aware of the importance of physical health, and they know more clearly how rare this self-knowledge is.
How many large companies are bad at not knowing how to pretend to understand, not knowing how to prefer to be strong, the first generation of entrepreneurs often have a self-confidence far beyond ordinary people, this self-confidence has achieved the beginning of entrepreneurship, but there are also many over-confidence that ruined that career.
Zhao Hong can do this step, although he has his own special circumstances, but it is still very rare......
Success can not only bring confidence, but more often than not, it can be a complete loss of confidence swelling!
Although Zhao Hong didn't take the initiative to put shackles on himself and not let himself swell excessively, he still cared about them when he wasn't good, how could he not make them happy?
It's easier said than done, though.
Of course, it was very good at first, but after a long time, it is not possible to do nothing! Just like an old man who has just retired.
According to the survey, more than 60% of the people in the whole society usually feel lonely, of which half are occasionally lonely, and more than 40% are often lonely and lonely.
The loneliest of them all are those who live alone.
And these old people who live alone are called "empty nesters", and young people naturally become "empty nesters".
Out of curiosity, Zhao Hong has nothing to do, so he likes to wander around all corners of Haishi and look at the world carefully.
You can go wherever there are many people, but just those few places, it's not interesting to go too much.
On the contrary, many so-called urban villages are very good, and the crowding has its own rhythm.
Just as a friend I met at dinner said: "I work in a big city, live in a one-bedroom apartment with a monthly rent of hundreds or thousands, my only roommate is a pet, I eat at a fast food restaurant downstairs, and the most common contact person is the so-called "friend" on QQ who doesn't know where it is, except for working hours, ......I switch between computer games and action movies at other times."
And home, boring life, loneliness, and their daily life are also the most common self-deprecation when they introduce themselves.
At home, it is customary to turn on the TV or radio, because then you can feel that the home is not lonely, and sometimes you even want to have a living animal at home, many people have pets, but some people also use some companionship objects to improve the happiness of a person's life......
Another friend I met by chance told Zhao Hong that her biggest hobby is food, looking around when she has money, and trying to make it herself when she doesn't have money.
It's not that she loves to cook, it's just that only cooking in a single life can make her feel that this is also a home, not just a house!
A pot that has been with her for several years, and every time she moves, she is reluctant to throw it away, which not only has traces of her past life, but also carries her full of memories.
Slowly choosing vegetables, washing vegetables, listening to the bubbling sound of porridge in the mini rice cooker next to me, listening to your favorite music, listening to the sound of kitchen knives chopping on the board, and listening to the sound of "Zla" when the vegetables are just out of the pot......
She has always insisted that a person's life should be more refined and colorful.
Life needs a sense of ritual, it needs to add a little flavor to the ordinary days, and add a little fun to the ordinary daily life.
A person's life must slowly learn to be budget-conscious, and no matter how terrible and dark the cooking person is, he can become a lonely gourmet.
It's not as delicious as the restaurant, but it's getting better every time I make it, and I'm very happy.
When I am unhappy, I no longer nest in bed, but go to the firewood, rice, oil and salt, and go to the kitchen.
Living alone taught her how to live and how to forget the loneliness of missing her family!
Everyone knows that it is not easy for a person to live alone outside, but if you can arrange your life alone, it is also an improvement in a person's ability to live.
This is an inevitable experience of life!
As more students graduate from college, it becomes increasingly difficult to find employment.
A person goes to the ideal city to work and struggle, living a solitary life, every day in the company, in the rental house.
"Eating is basically based on takeout, making do! Friends are basically colleagues, just getting by! The object basically depends on fate, basically no play. ”
In the days when a person lives, in the face of this phenomenon, many people shout: "It's shameful to be alone!"
In fact, most of them live alone on the road to struggle, even if they are not so lonely in the first place.
To communicate with the world alone is to find one's own place and grasp oneself.
Away from home, report good news but not bad news, learn to solve everything by yourself, and spend the night alone......
Zhao Hong saw another sea market in these urban villages, a world that was different from most places in the sea market.
It's full of loneliness, loneliness, emptiness, but there's also something more that no other place has.
Its name is Hope!