After reading this on the Internet, it seems that there are a lot of things blocked in the chest. Zhao Hong can't imagine what his children will do to him in the future. Although there are more children in the family, there is still this problem.

"The world is so big, I want to see it!"

When the children grow up and have certain abilities, if they are well cultivated and are busy with their career pursuits, how much time can they spend with their parents to grow old slowly?

But most parents will never let their children go without accompanying them because of this reason.

Jackie Chan and Jackie Chan have always been the dream of parents, but how many people have considered the cost of making their dreams come true?

In the past, we would hear some parents reprimanding their children.

"If I knew you didn't work so hard, it would be better not to give birth to you!"

How can there be parents in the world who don't expect their children to be smart and successful in their careers?

But when children have the ability, how can they not go out for a walk?

As for where to slip to?

Will it be able to come back?

Then only God knows!

Therefore, the cultivation of parents for their children is a one-way journey with no turning back.

Knowing that the more children are cultivated, the more they pursue career achievements, the busier they will become, and the less time and energy they have to communicate with their families, the more lonely and lonely their parents will be, but as parents, they will still choose this way, and they can still go on with a smile.

To say that the old father of Haishi is still lucky, he met a kind nanny and took care of him, and felt the opportunity of "three months is happier than his life", although there are regrets in the last journey, he still does not finish his life alone.

In the nearby community where Zhao Hong lived, there was a man in his early fifties who died of a sudden brain attack because he was alone at home.

And the reason why he was alone at home was not because he was divorced, but simply because the girl had a child, and his retired daughter-in-law went to take care of his daughter, and because he was old but not retired, he still needed to continue to work, and after exertion, he caused an attack of illness, and there was no one around, although the medicine was on the table not far from him, but he never had to take it again.

He died alone at home, unknown for many days, until the neighbors reported that the smell in his house was very strong, and it was discovered that the person was no longer there.

Apathy!

Why did it take so long to find out?

Even if you are diligent on the phone, it will not be like this, but this is the case, not only the child does not care much about the father who is alone at home, but even his wife!

Expecting filial piety, carefulness and care from children may be just an extravagant hope, but it is hard to find.

When you meet such a good child, you must know how to cherish it, and don't just blindly ask more of him.

If you don't encounter it, you don't have to complain, your child is not doing well, and the root cause is still on yourself!

Because he was born by you and has your inheritance, whether it is good or not also comes from your parents, and the child is also cultivated by you, so you have to ask yourself if it is good or not, because he is also the result of the careful education of his parents.

Don't complain and understand more, and only by having a good mentality can you live happily from the root.

What's more, is it useful to complain?

Live happier and healthier, if you can rely on yourself completely, that is the greatest luck, no matter how you rely on yourself is the most reliable!

I'd rather take care of others in a healthy and happy way than be taken care of by people full of injuries and illnesses!

will be able to provide for the elderly, not mentally dragged down by the children, and financially will not be dragged down by the children. If you have any spare energy to help the children, you don't need to have such a psychological imbalance, no matter what, whoever raises the child will kiss whom, and then you don't have to worry about loneliness, loneliness and emptiness?

Of course, there are fewer husbands and wives and old companions, cherish their own fate, cherish their partners, and don't ask him (she) to stay with you in difficult times, but at least you can expect to be able to accompany you when you are not so sad, even if it is a quarrel, don't you have to have an opponent?

What kind of lonely emptiness would it be otherwise?

A parent's home is always a child's home;

Giving birth to a child is a task, raising a child is an obligation, and relying on a child is a mistake.

A child can be owned by the parents, but the parents can only be one of the most important to the child.

……

"The child is the flesh that falls from your body, you hurt, he doesn't. So it's not realistic to expect your child to be like meat to you. ”

Accompanied by his parents on the balcony after the lunch break, he chatted while basking in the sun, listening to the short news of their parents.

"So what do you think? Today's society has become unsure of what to say. It's okay, many people live a precarious life every day, they worry every day, no matter what they do, they need to spend money, and the money they save is getting more and more hairy. But it's not good to say that most people's living standards have indeed improved. ”

"I heard that Lao Zhang is reluctant to let his children go out to work! I would rather let my children stay at home, but now with the help of their husband and wife, what will I do in the future?"

"People are not in a hurry, what are we anxious about? Lao Zhang said that his daughter raised Jin Gui, anyway, she is not young, just get married and have children as soon as possible!"

"Who would dare to marry such a girl? I don't do laundry, cooking, and cleaning up the house, I'm so squeamish that I'm scary, and I'm tired after a few days of work, and I'm really rare, and I'll be angry if I say a few words. ”

"Isn't this all what her parents and grandparents are used to since she was a child? Only child, isn't that how many of them are? Especially the children who grew up with their grandparents, who almost can't do anything, and their temper is quite big. ”

……

"Have you paid attention, the number of men and women in our community has increased a lot this year! Yesterday, the old lady of the old Wu family also told me, let me help pay attention to the unmarried older men around!"

"You don't really have to say yes! You don't know her daughter, so how can you introduce her to someone casually. ”

Seeing that his mother was a little unconvinced, Zhao Hong hurriedly added.

"Speak as if you understand. I don't think so. The appearance and height of the person are okay, except that he is a little older, what else is wrong?"

Of course, the father has to face his wife, and his son can only see him once in a few days.

"Most of these older leftover women actually don't look like a big problem, but they will be shocked when they understand it. Did you ask for it?"

Zhao Hong hurriedly explained with a smile.

Most of today's girls are "feminist" thinkers, and they have given up a lot of what they did in the original social tradition, so don't think about cooking, washing and cleaning up the house.

The slightest opposition from boys has been branded as "old feudal" by women's rights, and many boys have been deprived of their traditional marriage rights, but they still have to bear the past and additional responsibilities, and boys are naturally unwilling.

If the conditions are not very good, they can't look down on them, because they are worried that they will have a difficult life in the future, and people with good conditions will not look for such leftover women, because what they want more is affection, especially relatively simple feelings.

In fact, everyone's starting point is the same, they are all for the happiness of their future family life, there is no right or wrong, just a choice!

"I don't think I really said much, but it usually seems to be just about the same, right?"

Mom said with some confusion.

"Is that an ordinary person?"

"Huh...... , really. ”

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