Chapter 62: Failure
"Why are you so confident when you communicate with me, and you don't have enough confidence to talk to other people?" asked Lin Rou'er puzzled. Han Sen's restraint when ordering made her bring up this matter again.
"I can't explain this, maybe it's natural, it's natural in front of girlfriends, family and friends, and I can't let go of other people. Han Sen didn't know how many times he had answered.
"I think you should exercise more and communicate with people more and you will get better. “
"Come on, I would like to reduce the communication with people, it's embarrassing, and it's more comfortable to place an order in Meituan. “
"You're running away, I don't like to communicate with people because I'm timid and stage fright, but I don't think you're timid. “
"This is a very complicated problem, I'm a person, sometimes introverted and sometimes extroverted, I hope I can become a completely extroverted personality, speak openly, do things openly, then I don't have to worry about working outside to make money." I can understand that people with social difficulties don't want to communicate, but they really can't take that step, like a spell. “
"I really don't know how I was deceived by you in the first place, I thought you were a social person, talking endlessly, talking eloquently. It's like I've seen a lot of the world. Now after getting along for a year, I find that it turns out to be so cowardly. Hahahaha. Lin Rouer said with a smile while eating the steak.
The two of them ate steak at the cross-strait coffee in the Central Sky City, and the environment was quite comfortable. The sun is lazily shining.
"My evaluation of myself is that of a little scholar who is lost. I'm not very interested in the disturbances of the outside world, and I just want to live a simple life. Read books, watch TV, brush up on Douyin, eat instant noodles, sigh about life, and live together. “
"Now the social pressure is so great, you can't be too relaxed, now you have your mother to help you support, and in the future, when your mother is older, no one will help you. You have to work hard to earn money on your own. Otherwise, if we have a baby in the future, the cost will be even greater. “
"So far, I haven't found a suitable way to make a fortune, and it feels like every road is blocked. The proper people at the bottom are hopeless to turn over, and when they were young, they dared to think because they didn't know the height of the sky, but now they don't dare to think that they know that the world is difficult. “
"Every time I talk about this, I feel that you are full of negative energy, and you can't see any hope, a large piece of black pressure, and the gloomy clouds. “
"You may be mistaken, my analysis of reality is not a kind of despair, but an open-mindedness to see reality. If this is the case, then it is even more important to live each day positively. Because I am not afraid of losing, I am resolute, life is already hard enough, why bother with what kind of hard work. The most ruthless attitude is actually the most fiery enthusiasm. “
"It's all a set, but unfortunately it doesn't have any practical effect. Let me give you a suggestion, you can try to make some simple changes, such as learning to do sales, although you don't like it, but the more you don't like it, the more you have to overcome your fear, only if you overcome your fear, you will find that the change is not so difficult. “
"I have a really useful way to change my genetic sequence, so that I can calmly deal with the world, crisscross the mall, and no longer hide in the corner and shiver. What I'm saying is true, not joking, except for this method, the personality feels really impossible to change. “
"Although you can't make money, pickling girls is quite neat, and you cheat one after another. “
"What do you mean by deception? I'm notoriously sincere and single-minded. “
"Wholeheartedly, then why do you still keep Ning Xian'er's contact information? “
"How can you get around this area every time you chat?"
"I'm upset that you didn't delete her. “
"I've already explained it to you, there's no need to do it. I've been separated from her for many years, and we've been doing our best, so why bother to prove it for the sake of proving it? I have a clear conscience, and you don't talk about it. “
"Then I'll keep in touch with my ex-boyfriend too, see what you think. “
"As long as your heart is with me, I won't worry about you leaving me, and it's useless for me to guard against your heart when you're not in me. You'll have to learn more from me. Don't do a lot of trivial things all day. Look at things from a higher perspective. Han Sen had already finished eating the steak and was drinking Bai Liangkai.
"I can't learn from you, I just know that if you love someone, you have to put all your thoughts on him, so it's called love. Lin Rouer was also almost full, lying on the sofa and hiccups.
"If you focus all your attention on others, you will be relatively weakened. It is necessary to maintain oneself at all times. That way you won't be so resentful. “
"I don't think you thought about it that much when you were with Ning Xian'er. I feel like you've only truly loved her. “
"At that time, I was still young, and I didn't understand anything at all, so I could only think that I looked crazy but was actually very stupid and cute. “
"You've talked so much about you, and they've all left you, I think you should reflect on your own problems, why did they all leave you? Although you think it may be that you have no money, no ability, and poor conditions, I don't think that's the case, in my opinion, your conditions are not good, and they are not bad. If they really don't like you, they won't talk to you for that long. I think maybe they don't see hope with you. “
"Then why are you with me? “
"I think you can bring me joy and make me laugh. After my mother died, I was in a trance, and then you appeared, and I was happier every day, so I took a gamble and chose you. “
"I didn't disappoint you, did I? Seeing that you have gained weight with me, relatives and friends say that you have grown better. This is proof of happiness. Hahahaha. Han Sen and Lin Rouer walked out of the cross-strait coffee holding hands, ready to take the movie tickets they sent to Caizhi Square to watch a movie.
No matter how failed people are, as long as they have someone to accompany them, life will not be so difficult. If you feel that you are surrounded by failures and can't escape, why not take the plan and embrace this failed world and embrace your failed self.
Live every day happily, cherish your lover if you have a lover, and find your lover with your heart when you are single. When you find the right person, maybe you won't fail in life again.
Failure does not exist at all, and if a person stays for a long time, it is easy to be cranky and feel defeated. Two people are different, with someone who listens to your nonsense, you won't think about failure, you will only think about being happy, to be happy, to be happy, to be long.