Pleasant times always go by too quickly, and the time spent entertaining with Jack is so blissful. At the beginning of September, the day of the opening of Haishi Normal University arrived. After agreeing to many conditions for Jack, Zhao Hong returned to live in the dormitory. I hope to make some friends with my dormitory classmates and classmates in my final year. The best friend in life is easy to find when you are young.

The road is easy to walk with more friends, and the road is more than one road with many friends. Chinese people call this the circle of interpersonal relations, and foreign countries call it social class. In fact, it is to tell people that there is no success for no reason in this world, and there is no failure for no reason, sometimes success or failure is not only your personal factor, but also related to the class you are in, and the development of this class is becoming more and more solidified.

A circle in the south, historically they were the "Jiangsu and Zhejiang families" with a close relationship with a certain royal family. For example, the well-known Kang Yongqian Three Dynasties, the rise and fall of the Cao family in Jiangning and the Chen family in Haining. After the fall of the emperor, the southern chaebols put a certain chairman to power as their political spokesperson. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, these family chaebols either fled to Hong Kong or were driven to Taiwan.

Of course, there are also wise people like the Zhuge family who will not put their eggs in one basket. Yu Dashao of the Yu family in Shaoxing is known as the "father of China's military industry", he was not born in Whampoa, he was not a member of the Kuomintang, and he became the "Minister of National Defense" only by virtue of his identity as a native of Shaoxing, responsible for defense in Wanwan and cultivating the prince of the vice minister. Yu Dashao's son even married Prince Jiang's beloved daughter. The two younger sisters were married to the masters Chen Yinke and Fu Sinian respectively.

On the mainland side, the "third young master" of the Yu family in Shaoxing joined the revolution in his early years and became the first mayor of TJ after the founding of the People's Republic of China and a senior city official.

Among the famous families in Haining, there is a major representative figure, which can be said to be known to everyone in the Chinese circle. He is a student of Wang Guowei's younger brother Wang Zhe'an, a distant nephew of Jiang Baili's original wife, a cousin-in-law of Jiang Baili's son-in-law Qian Xuesen, and an uncle of Chen Congzhou, a professor at Haining Chen Jiada. If you are a gouache, you have probably guessed that he is Jin Yong's hero.

Jin Yong's ancestor is ZJ Haining Cha's family, Haining Cha's family was once called "a giant family since the Tang and Song dynasties, and there are several families in the south of the Yangtze River".

"One Ten Jinshi, Uncle and Nephew Five Hanlin", which refers to the state of the Haining Cha family in the Kangxi Dynasty. Well, to put it in layman's terms, that is, in the era of the second-generation leadership collective with Kangxi as the core in the Qing Dynasty, not counting the in-laws, the Guanghai Ningcha family had ten alternate members, five of whom served in the Central Office......

And if you count the in-laws..... It can scare you to death!

Of course, the glory of the Cha family is mainly concentrated in the Kangxi Dynasty, and after Yongzheng succeeds to the throne, he wants to get rid of Long Keduo, and at that time, the Cha family was the hardcore of Long Keduo, so he snared the Cha family for a crime, and then used the Cha family to trip Long Keduo. Therefore, in Jin Yong's novels, among the emperors of the Qing Dynasty, Yongzheng, who is the most capable, is the most powerful.

At that time, the rise and fall of the Jiangsu and Zhejiang families were all covered by the three generations of Aixinjueluo's ancestors and grandchildren. Time has passed, but now the influence of the children of the Eight Banners still exists.

Jin Yong's ZJ fellow, the father of the e-commerce giant "A Cloud Dad", is the chairman of the fourth and fifth Zhejiang Quyi Artists Association.

Some friends think, what is this?

In fact, this is really nothing in the circle! A certain mountain, which has dominated the Spring Festival Gala for more than ten years, has only been a vice chairman of the Liaoqu Association. And who was the chairman of the BJ Music Association at that time? Mr. Lao She's best friend, an old man. This name is unfamiliar to everyone, but everyone knows his granddaughter: that is a certain Tong who is frequently exposed and tries his best to become popular.

More than 20 years ago, if it weren't for this relationship, how could a student who was admitted to a middle school after taking the high school entrance examination twice and going to junior college after taking the college entrance examination three times before going to junior college, be the president of the student union for four years and three years in college, and the chairman of the HZ City Student Federation for two years?

Later, how could they get an offer from the Ministry of Foreign Trade and Economic Cooperation? How could they borrow the platform of the Ministry of Foreign Trade and Economic Cooperation to develop the official website of the Ministry of Foreign Trade and Economic Cooperation, the online China Commodity Exchange Market, the online China Technology Export Fair, the China Investment Promotion, the Online Canton Fair, and the China Foreign Trade and Economic Cooperation .......? How did they get the first pot of gold? How did they become the richest man in China now?

The same is true of the so-called free country M, if there is no strong support from the family, the great one can really become the richest man in the world with a student who dropped out of college, and can become the richest man in the world?

So sometimes, as a middle-aged Zhao Hong, he knows very well that many things are by no means something you can do if you think about it, and the opportunity cost may be far higher than you think.

was able to have Guo Yi because her family was in a stage of decline, especially the decline of talents, and they needed to absorb fresh blood to join. And Xiao Wanting's family is also excluded from the mainstream circle, so there are some gaps that allow Zhao Hong to participate in it, which has both a certain emotional factor and the factor that they already have to absorb outstanding talents from outside.

Zhao Hong still insists that when he does not have enough strength, he must only develop quietly, unswervingly and slowly accumulate his strength, and he also needs to appropriately diversify his investment. Just like the Zhuge family, multi-party investment, diversification risk control, and overall safety are guaranteed.

It's not that Zhao Hong is ruthless, but that this society is not ruthless most of the time. Amorous people are the protagonists of tragedy.

"Through the ages, heroes are nowhere to be found, and Sun Zhong is looking for a solution.

The dance pavilion is always blown away, and the rain blows the wind.

The grass and trees in the slanting sun, the ordinary alleys, and the humane slaves once lived.

Thinking about the past, Jin Ge Iron Horse, swallowing thousands of miles like a tiger.

Yuan Jia was hastily, sealed the wolf Juxu, and won the Canghuang Beigu.

Forty-three years, I still remember the beacon Yangzhou Road.

can look back, under the Buddha Shrine, a crow shrine drum!

Who asks, Lian Po is old, can he still eat?"

This is the monologue of Xin Qiji, a tragic hero in a tragic era in history, and the helplessness and sadness in it are still chilling to read today.

Zhao Hong doesn't want to be a hero, let alone a tragic hero. How to find the right opportunity in this world, the right place for yourself, this is the right way for you to succeed and get a certain status. As for the arrogance and high-profile in the story, I don't know what to say. Maybe they don't care what other people think at all, but paint a beautiful prospect, deceive you that you are always on the road of pursuit, constantly failing, that is not a book with a conscience can say that, that is a kind of misdirection.

If you fail or don't succeed completely, he will also tell you that it's just that you're not trying hard enough. But is this true? And one of the reasons that a lot of people don't pay attention to is whether you're in that circle? And that's one of the keys to your success.

Maybe after a lot of experience, you will know that without entering certain circles, the desired success is just a beautiful bubble.