Here in Haishi, with the continuous rise in housing prices, there are few children who can buy their own wedding houses without gnawing at the old age and not dragging down their parents.

It is even said that this is a good relationship, in the 04 year of Haishi, if you want to fall in love, material is the biggest prerequisite.

Bought a house?

Is it urban or suburban?

Got a car?

Is it a domestic car or a luxury car imported from Europe and the United States?

Is the date a trip to one of the top cafes on the Bund in Haishi, or to a luxury brand store on Nanjing Road?

If none of these are available, it's absolutely no fun.

Even according to some feminists, boys are traditionally given many of the responsibilities associated with marriage.

Without the ability to take on this responsibility, those young tsundere girls would never consider it. (This is also the reason why many leftover girls are produced, regardless of whether the boys they match have such ability or not)

With the rising housing prices, the income of a few thousand yuan here in Haishi is no longer attractive, but how can people with an annual income of hundreds of thousands of dollars casually mention getting married and having children?

Because the tradition of building a strong sense of family among boys was destroyed by women's rights, boys' sense of belonging to the family became weaker.

Especially those boys whose conditions are quite good, after letting go of the obsession of getting married, they found that they were living much more comfortable than before, and naturally they had no idea of getting married.

"As long as the mind is willing to slippery, there are always more solutions than problems. It has become a state of life for some people to wander around unruly until they encounter ......

And if you want to get married, buying a house and a car has become a rigid demand.

Even after graduating from college and having a good job, it is not easy to come up with a down payment on a house on your own.

If you completely rely on the young couple to pay the mortgage by themselves, and you have to raise children and take care of your elderly, it is a bit difficult for most people!

Parents took out pension money, borrowed money from relatives and friends, helped their children buy houses and cars, got married and had children, retired with grandchildren, plus laundry and cooking as nannies, and took out all the monthly pensions for the family.

This is the most common and basic living condition of the elderly in a city!

Those from the countryside need to work until they are old and can't walk, so they have to go back to the countryside to care for the elderly.

It sounds good to go back to the hometown to care for the elderly, but in fact, it is just self-comfort, there are five or sixty elderly troops left in the village, who can take care of whom?

Haishi was the first area in China to implement the family planning policy, and because of the very poor living conditions here, many families did not have many children when it was not implemented.

With the advent of the new century, most of the children of these families have left their parents to live independently, and their parents are living separately.

There was once a Haishi father who was only accompanied by his nanny after his advanced age, so he made a will before he died:

My future inheritance includes a set of real estate and a deposit of 800,000 yuan, all of which were left to a certain lady.

Who is this lady?

Only a few months ago, his daughter had just hired a nanny to take care of him.

Knowing this, many parents around me were silent.

The child in front of him, who is growing up and taking care of him wholeheartedly, will eventually disappear in the future?

Since the child has not yet been born, all the people in the family are looking forward to his arrival.

And on the day the child was born, the father also cried with joy, his heart was full of hope and tenderness, that little small, ugly guy will be the most important person in his life, this is the most beautiful gift God gave him!

Later, even if he encountered a change in his marriage, he would rather give up all his possessions, and only hoped that his daughter would follow him, as long as he had his daughter's intimate little padded jacket, he would have a home, and he would have a tireless home every night, and he would not be so cold that he couldn't sleep.

The young daughter once had a high fever in the middle of the night, and the father rushed away with his daughter in his arms, not knowing whether it was sweat or distressed tears, like a small stream flowing down to his daughter's cheeks.

The daughter asked, "What's wrong with Daddy?"

My father said, "It's just a little rainy." ”

The daughter tried hard to help her father rub it with her little hands, and said seriously, "Dad, I love you!"

……

"Daddy doesn't smoke well!"

Just because of his daughter's words, he changed his hobby for many years, he successfully quit smoking, and it would be good to save money to buy more snacks for his children!

This ring is a lifetime, and the smoke is gone, but it is useless......

As her daughter grew up, she began to have her own ideals at some point, began to enter the world outside the home, and began to chase her dreams.

At first, the mind was far away, but the person was still there, and as the daughter grew up, not only the mind slowly moved away, but the distance between people was getting farther and farther.

Until one day, his daughter and boyfriend appeared in front of him affectionately, and he couldn't help but turn his back and bless them, at this time he already knew that he seemed to have lost everything.

A stranger who takes his daughter away with so-called "love", he can't object, and then they get married, have children, and are busy with their careers, of course he must support!

And then...... The daughter gradually disappeared......

From a greeting every few days, to a phone call every few weeks, to a phone call every few months, from once a week, to only once a few months, and even one day and one day, because there are so many things going on in her house.

Afterward...... At last......

Even though they live in the same city, it's as if they live in two worlds.

The father is getting old, and the voice of the daughter's greeting is getting colder and colder.

Finally, my father was old and sick, and he was alone in the hospital.

So I looked forward to my daughter's appearance every day, expecting and waiting for the cycle of disappointment, and in a few months, my daughter only came twice, and then left in a hurry.

The father is dying, and he hopes that his daughter will remember the past and how he took care of her.

However, she did not wait for her daughter's companionship and care, just a strange nanny.

Finally, my father's life came to an end, the oil ran out, and his heart was like ashes. When he was dying, he felt that decades of perseverance were not as warm as a few months, and thanked his daughter for helping him find a good nanny.

Some people are very rational to realize that the so-called father-daughter-mother-son game just means that the fate of the two people is that they are constantly watching his back drift away in this life and this life, and he uses his back to tell you that you don't have to chase.

It's just that the poor father couldn't see his daughter's back in the end.

The matter of this father and daughter is sad, and the joyful struggle of this life has only ushered in a sad ending.

……

"This daughter is a little too much! The old and the old, the young and the young, the conscienceless. Why can't you see your single old father more? Even in the end, even the care of your sick father is completely entrusted to a strange nanny?

Such a daughter really has to feed so much for nothing!"

There are many people with such views, and they account for the majority, especially among those aunts, uncles, and aunts who chat every day.

However, there are a small number of people who are not so.

"This old father has a strange personality and is a little too harsh on his daughter. The daughter is old and young, and the one in the middle still needs a job and career, and her husband takes care of each other, and if one doesn't pay attention, there may be some problems.

If he needs his daughter to do something for him, why not communicate with her well?

And even if there are any shortcomings in the daughter, what is the reason?

The daughters he educated are indifferent, so what is there to complain about?

In the end, he even acted rashly, alas......"

But what's the point of right and wrong? When people are gone, everything is gone with the wind.

……

In fact, this is the same as the hot topic on TV, happy families are the same, the whole family helps each other, understands each other, and works together to make everyone's life better!

The same is true for most unhappy families and conflicts, where the members of the family are indifferent to each other and lack care and understanding for each other.

When your life is not good, you complain that no one is willing to help them, and when your life is not good enough, you still complain that others don't help you enough.

This is life, a person can be stupid, but he must not be unhappy, there are already so many bad things in the world, why should we add more troubles to ourselves?

If you have time, you might as well go home to see your old and frail parents, you don't have to do anything for them, and enjoy your parents' nagging with peace of mind, which may be your greatest filial piety!

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