In the eyes of the world, a career-oriented man is like the original Zhao Hong, who has been pursuing the development of his career, and the expectations are also rising, and now he goes to work on time every day in addition to simple work, and occasionally goes home early to accompany the children and the children's mother, this type of man, also known as a family man, does not seem to be a heavyweight. The former belongs to the good man in the traditional thinking, and the latter has changed drastically in recent years, and the status in the minds of female compatriots has risen rapidly, and there is a faint strength that can be PK with career-oriented men.

So, who is more suitable to be a husband between a family man or a career man?

Career-oriented men are born for their careers, and their most beautiful moments are the silhouettes at work. Family men regard the family as their own, their most beautiful music is the symphony of pots and pans played in the kitchen, most of the family men fry a good dish, the most important battlefield in his life is in the kitchen, and then he has to clean up the house and care about all the family members by the way. The battlefield of career-oriented men is the workplace, they are often full workaholics, overtime is the norm, and the biggest dream is a brilliant career.

Seventy percent of the family man spends 8 hours at home, and 70 percent of the spare time of the career man is spent working and socializing; the family man belongs to himself completely, work is only a small part of life, and the career man belongs to his work, his employees, partners and friends from all walks of life at the same time.

A woman who marries a family man often says, "When will the meal be ready?" A woman who marries a career-oriented man often says, "When will you go home?"

Family men often break their fingers for firewood, rice, oil, salt water, electricity, and calculate, and the wives of family men often hold their husband's hands and bargain in the small market. Career-oriented men read business and workplace classics, and the wives of career-oriented men often dress noble and elegant, walking dogs, shopping, and doing beauty alone.

A family man has time to take care of his children and has no good conditions to educate his children, and a career-oriented man has good conditions to educate his children but has no time to take care of them. When something happens at home, a career-oriented man will pat your hand and say, "It's okay, I'll figure it out." ”

A family man is a "little man", and when married to a family man, a woman can ride on the man's head and enjoy simple happiness, and is one hundred percent the head of the family. A career-oriented man is a "big husband", the "boss" and "backbone" in the unit, and it is rare to get used to being a deputy assistant when he returns home, and marrying a career-oriented man, and the woman is a nanny, a left-behind lady and a little daughter-in-law.

Career is the source of charm for career-oriented men, and caring for family is the value of family men. A career-oriented man is the most eye-catching doormark of the family, and marrying a career-oriented man can greatly obtain economic superiority and satisfy vanity. Family men often do not have great development in the workplace, marrying a family man, first of all, have a normal heart, to find the happiness of ordinary people.

The aura of a career-oriented man is bright and dazzling, it is a natural idol chased by young girls, the benefits of a family man should be slowly experienced, and those who are concerned about a family man, if not his wife, must be a woman with life experience; family men are generally more loyal, and an important reason for maintaining loyalty is that they do not have the conditions to become bad, and career-oriented men are not necessarily more attentive than family men, but they have the resources to become "bad".

The attractiveness index of a family man is three stars in the eyes of outsiders and four stars in the eyes of his wife, and the attractiveness index of a career man is four stars in the eyes of outsiders and three stars in the eyes of his wife. When a woman gets married for the first time, 80% of them will choose a career-oriented man to be their destiny Prince Charming. When a woman gets married for the second time, 80% of them will find a family man to be her husband to live with.

Both family men and career men have their own advantages, and many of them are not available to the other parent. Therefore, women say that the ideal marriage is to marry a career-oriented man to support the family, and then marry a family man to take care of the family. Some women have also tried to transform their career-oriented husbands into home-based men, and home-based men into pioneers in the workplace, but there are not many successful examples of transformation, whether a man is career-oriented or home-based, is his personality, hobbies, life experience and other factors, how can these be easily smeared and changed like blackboard paintings?

In fact, there is no shortage of true love for family men and career men, and many of them are model husbands. When a woman chooses a family man or a career man as her husband, she actually chooses two different married lives and different forms of love. Therefore, the correct attitude is first to think clearly about what you want, make a rational choice, and then, bravely face the feelings and life you have chosen.

Zhao Hong and Tian Feng read this article together, and asked themselves what kind of state the two of them are in so far?

"Tian Feng, what type are you?" Zhao Hong asked.

"It should be regarded as a career-oriented man! After all, Lao Zhao, your salary here is not low! Here in Haishi, I am also considered to have an upper middle income. What's more, compared to us! My income is at least seven or eight times that of my daughter-in-law! I should be a career-oriented man, right?"

Zhao Hong nodded, it is true! But what kind of person is he?

"Tian Feng, what type do you think I am?"

Tian Feng looked dazed, and said that he was career-oriented! Now he is still resting, and he rarely participates in the business management of the Zhao Song Group. It is safe to say that he is a home-based type, but most of the foundation and development of the entire group company were laid by him. It's a bit of a head-scratching question!

"During the young years, many men are career-oriented, they work hard outside the home, and they pursue the initial financial foundation for their families!

The needs of girls will also change, and the pursuit of economy at the beginning of their youth will gradually turn into the simple happiness of a warm little family as they grow older. ”

Teacher Li's voice came from behind him.

"Those who can achieve this kind of change are all wise moves! Whether a career is successful or not depends on personal factors, including personality, intelligence, knowledge, opportunities, etc., as well as many reasons for the environment. To be able to realize their ideals is to pay off! Not realized, may be set too high, or maybe it is a mistake, in short, people will return to the family after middle age, children need to care for them, the old people need to be sympathetic and considerate, that is, a heavy burden, but also a source of happiness!

Regarding marriage, no one can be a teacher, because home is not a reasonable place, and it cannot be judged by right and wrong. It's good to like it. Others can't point fingers. ”

Teacher Li said!