Yes, when a man reaches middle age, it is such an embarrassing status quo.

Trapped in various hurdles such as career and family, I can't help myself and can't do anything.

But as the pillar of the family, no matter how hard and tired he is, he can only grit his teeth and hold on, because the dependence and support of parents, wives, and children are all concentrated on men.

His parents gave him a nurturing grace, so in front of his parents, he would always say: "What is still lacking at home, I will bring it back next time." ”

His wife gave him a companionship, so he would always say in front of his wife: "It's okay, everything has me." ”

It is the responsibility of a father to give his children to him, so he will always say in front of his children: "Don't be afraid, Dad is here." ”

Just like what Zhang Ailing said in her book: When a middle-aged man arrives, he often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who have to rely on him.

But in the same way, a woman who is a wife and a mother does not live an easier life than a man.

After marriage, many women feel that life is becoming more and more boring, and the days are becoming more and more boring. Between me and my husband, it seems that the passion has faded, and only firewood, rice, oil and salt remain.

"I know that he goes out early and returns late every day for work, and he is very busy and tired. But I do housework every day and night, and I have to take care of the children and the elderly, and it is not easy for me either. ”

For a woman, she just hopes that her husband can take more time, come home early from work, accompany herself, and help take care of the children.

But the husband came home later and later, and when he had a party, he was still drunk, and he came home and vomited to clean up the mess by himself.

Every time I was ready to talk to my husband, I always quarreled after a few words. My husband always says, "I'm so tired, can you let me clean up when I go home!"

Women feel that they are wronged, and you also have a share in the children, why should you throw them to me alone? You are tired from work, how easy can I go when I take care of the housework, educate the children, and take care of the elderly?

Some women not only have to earn money to supplement the family, but also take care of the family.

Her in-laws gave her a parent, so she would always say in front of her in-laws: "Don't be reluctant to spend money, remember to tell us what the family lacks." ”

Her husband gave her a person who loved each other, so she would always say in front of her husband: "It's okay, you go and break in, I am at home." ”

It is the duty of a mother to give her children, so she will always say in front of her children: "Your father is busy, and everything is with your mother." ”

The woman felt very tired, as if she was holding everything alone, and once she slackened, it all collapsed.

In the face of such marital conflicts, people from the wife's perspective will accuse the husband of not being responsible, and in the capacity of the husband, they will blame the wife for not being considerate enough.

However, how can there be a flawless marriage in the world, and the secret of a husband and wife who never get tired of each other for a long time is tolerance and understanding.

It is really not difficult to solve this kind of marriage crisis at all.

Husbands are more considerate of his wife's contributions, understand her loneliness, take time to care for her, love her, and help her share the responsibility of taking care of the children.

Even if it's just a walk with her after dinner, helping to guide the child's learning, and taking the initiative to dry clothes, these little things for you are what she wants to get, from your love and care.

And the wife should not complain to her husband as soon as he steps through the door.

He is tired outside for a day, and what he wants when he comes home is a pure land, looking at you who are busy, children playing, all this will make him feel that it is worth it even if he is tired outside.

When he is tired, be a gentle and considerate wife who will listen to his troubles.

But you must also reveal your grievances to him at the right time, if you don't say it, he will never know your suffering, and only when you say it, can he understand.

Born as a human being, life has entered a new stage after marriage, especially after having children, everyone has a difficult life, regardless of men and women!

But in this life, since you have chosen your other half to accompany you through this life, life is so long, instead of spending time on quarrels and anger, you should take a little time to understand each other and understand each other.

Husband and wife tolerate each other, and this marriage will be happy. When the marriage is happy, people will feel that no matter how much suffering and tiredness they have, it is worth it.

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When he got home, Zhao Hong would talk to Xiao Wanting and Guo Yi about his work, and when everyone had time after dinner, they would go for a walk in the nearby park together and discuss and chat together. Though it is simple, it is happy!

The two women supported each other, discussed and solved the problems at work, and faced Zhao Hong, who was still recovering, had been discharged from the hospital for more than a year, on the surface, he was no different from ordinary people, and there were only two pills left every day, one in the morning and one in the evening, which could also let him go out alone, but it was only an experiment at present.

Sometimes he will also look at their busy figures and feel a little embarrassed, he is the man of this family, but now he needs the support of women, many times he can only watch from a distance and can not help, he has more than enough strength!

The balance between money and love seems to have always been a big problem in the relationship between men and women in the world. This question has appeared thousands of times among couples who have just stepped into society.

Zhao Hong never believed that he could get something for nothing. Unwilling to compromise, unwilling to sacrifice, unwilling to accompany him to poverty, unwilling to be far away......

Just like many of his classmates just graduated from college, they were required to earn tens of thousands of dollars a month on a blind date, and they had to have a house and a car when they got married, and they wanted to ensure her quality of life...

In this way, they only hope to harvest a mature him, and they will not regret not participating in his past, nor will they envy the people who have accompanied him to share hardships and know all his youthful memories, they already know that the ideal is plump and the reality is skinny!

What should have been pure love has become terrifying. No one can ever predict what people will decide when the conditions of reality are mixed with love.

Persist or give up?

A man always likes to say in love:

"If only I had a better me now, it would be nice to meet you before..."

And a certain woman will also sigh in her heart,

"If I used to be beautiful, meet you now......"

But is this really a problem?

Is it really because of the man's immaturity or lack of money that the other party cares?

When a man has begun to think of exchanging material things for love, the sincere emotions that can make him happy have actually disappeared......

There is no money to be made, but the true heart of the young man will always be far away!

And it's the same with women!

People always think that they have nothing when they hold a true heart.

But the most beautiful love, only when you are young can you have that kind of feelings!

Just as when I first met Guo Yi, maybe I was young and simple, and I liked it, so I had a simple love, and then the more I hoped to rely on my economic advantages to strive for a perfect love, it was impossible, I always got it in impulse, and lost it in reason and calculation, and only Xiao Wanting could bear him, that was also because she was not her first love, and what she pursued was not perfect love!

Thanks to them, they all gave him the most precious love that may not be perfect, but they are the most precious love, and they have been sticking to it to this day!

It's a nice feeling to be lucky and happy!

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