No matter how much you love, don't lower your dignity
Comrade Jia Yuhao:
On November 16, your father sent me a text message, telling me that the package I sent back a few days ago had been received, saying that he wanted you to return to your roots, and that I had taken your family property and the hundreds of thousands of dollars you had exchanged for your life, and asked me to give him another money. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info He said that the one-time pension of the Civil Affairs Bureau "that little money" (is your basic salary for forty months, almost 100,000. He's got it. Don't go too far...... He doesn't follow the agreement we signed. Not to mention that he hasn't asked Doudou a word since you left, not to mention how he fought with me when you had an accident, 303's attitude has changed 180 degrees, and all the aftermath matters have to be solved by the leaders of my unit, I really have nothing to say in the face of parents like you!
Now it's like this again! It reminds me of the reason why all this happened, at the beginning, listen to your words: the old people on both sides are far away, and we are not around to ask them to work less, anyway, we will be filial to them in the future, so that the parents of both sides will not even have the opportunity to meet. My parents raised me when I was 25 years old, graduated from college, and married me off without even seeing my parents-in-law. I'm financially constrained, I don't even have a wedding! The family has a meal, even if I have already passed the door. This marriage without a wedding ended like this! Your parents didn't even give me a small red envelope to save face! My "sensible" and obedient to your words and plans, now I think about how much damage I have done to my parents? What is even more serious is how much trouble I have caused myself, and my dignity as a human being has been lost! However, you did not defend me in front of your parents, but allowed them to look down on me! Let them feel that their son is capable and their daughter-in-law is obedient. Alas, I have always been competitive and competitive, but since then I have fallen into hell from which I will never recover, but I love you so deeply, I would rather suffer and be tired and follow you, and now I am left with a lifetime of grievances and injuries.
My deep love for you has been used as a bargaining chip to hurt me again and again! I can endure it while you are here, I don't want you to be sad in the middle; and then your departure I am worried that you will be bound by the troubles of the world, and I will make concessions again when you travel far away; now I want to bury you by my side, when I miss you, Doudou and I go to see you, but they use this to blackmail me because I can't let you go! My feelings for you are once again used to satisfy the greed that your parents can never satisfy! Now I have been forced to the point of no return!
What kind of property did you leave me? We have been married for 10 years, and you have been studying for 6 years! The subsidy for graduate students is 216 per month, and the doctor's salary is more than 2,000 yuan, and your relationship has been transferred to Beijing and brought it with you! Finally, after reading the books that should have been read in 09, I also got out of the way, but you let go! The hundreds of thousands of dollars you exchanged for your life? Your father has taken 200,000 yuan, and I have to pay hundreds of thousands of yuan for the purchase of the house! Is there anything else? My last payment of 84,000 yuan has not been paid, and after paying this amount, I will be penniless, what should I do with the decoration? What is the use of me taking all this money from you? My monthly salary is enough to spend on myself! What you get in exchange for Doudou's child support! Your father is still staring at you! They use my love for you again and again to force me to compromise.
I wanted to buy a cemetery for you to be buried in, but your father said that he wanted you to enter the main grave, and I would not fight with him, so he saw that I couldn't let you go so much, so he knew that I couldn't let go of your mother, so he talked about you and your mother, and said that he would ask for another 100,000 yuan for your mother's medical treatment! I promised him, "When will you let him go back?... If you think it's reasonable and appropriate, do what you say. "A day has passed, and he has not heard from him again! What do you think I should do if I don't buy a cemetery? What if he knows that I have bought a cemetery and threatens me on the condition that you go back?
In the face of Doudou's rebellion, I was already anxious! Teacher Liu and Teacher Ba both said that it was my state that caused Doudou's misbebehavior. I also reflected on myself: I paid less attention and care to my children some time ago, and I was in a state of sadness and despair. Teacher Liu said: "As a mother, I am still somewhat derelict in my duties...... "I was deeply stung! Yes! As a mother, I failed to educate and guide such a healthy and intelligent child, and I was derelict in my duty! Now all the burdens of life are on me alone! I can only grit my teeth and persevere!
The day before yesterday, I received a text message from your father, saying that he would put you in the cemetery in his hometown and put you in the ground later. They thought that I would compromise again in order to keep you, and at first I wanted to enter the main grave, and they thought that I would definitely ask you to stay, but when they saw that I agreed, they said that the cemetery would be released, thinking that I might say: It is better to let you be buried in the cemetery and buried here. Now I have no hope, no money, no money to keep you, and I no longer compromise for you! I feel sad and disgusted!
Yesterday I discussed with Senior Brother, Huang Mi, Xiao Zhang, etc. about your father's request, they are all our good friends and have been helping and witnessing this matter, and I have also listened to their advice -- grit your teeth and never let go of your mouth and never compromise! In the face of such scoundrel parents, I can only give up my emotions! See what kind of play he will play in the next play to make everyone disgusting?!
XW
2011.11.20