For growth, love, marriage, life -
People always have to live in hope, but not every hope can be realized, just as every seed sown may not necessarily sprout and grow, so whether hope grows vigorously or not, we must still hope positively. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
For the growth of children, we only love more, guide children to grow up healthily, there is no need to go to great lengths to waste children's childhood and youth on passive learning, although it is said that being admitted to a prestigious university may have a brighter future, but happiness, happiness and fame and fortune do not seem to have much to do with fame. As long as they feel love and joy at every stage of growth, that is the growth of happiness.
For love, it is best to be happy with each other, and one must not chase desperately, and only be together in the end, so that the result is often that one is so humble that he even loses himself, and the other does not know how to cherish it. Unequal feelings always have no good future.
In the case of marriage, it is necessary to "match the door" and have a similar growth environment and experience, so that they can have many of the same feelings, and it is especially easy to understand and understand each other. In addition to the foundation of love, marriage must also be managed, know how to cherish, be considerate and tolerant of each other, and the success or failure of marriage is actually not on some major issues of right and wrong, but often on some trivial and trivial matters.
Happiness is not a show for others to see, but one's own happiness for one's own soul.
As for life: I've been growing up, I've been thinking, what kind of life is a successful life, what is a success, what is a foundation, what is bright? Or: accumulating countless wealth, as long as it's something I want that I can't buy? Slowly growing, slowly going through the calendar, slowly thinking about it, I have figured out a little bit: success in life is not at any one point, not tomorrow and in the future! It is the same for people of all ages.
It's all in the living moment, and the living minute is doing something that is happy and meaningful to yourself, even if it is worthless to others, to society, to mankind, to the universe, as long as it is meaningful to you, it is the success of that moment. Every day of life is spent in such success, feeling good and loving in every moment, and the heart is full of beauty and happiness, this is a successful life.
To be a woman who can love and be loved, to be a woman who is tender but not to be abusive, to be a woman who relies on herself and does not lose herself, to be a woman who is calm and tranquil but rich in her heart, and to be a woman who has bright eyes but is not pretentious.