Chapter 403: Which one to choose between the leftover girl and the second marriage

According to the doctor's advice, Zhao Hong should properly participate in social activities after his condition has improved significantly, and after gradually starting to adapt to social activities, he should continue to work hard, but the content of the work should not be too complicated, and not too tired!

And this has become a thing that Xiao Wanting and Guo Yi are more worried about before the Chinese New Year, work can't be too tiring, all manual labor is basically excluded, can't use too much brain, and the work that basically needs to think and ponder is also excluded. Just when the two of them felt embarrassed, in the end, Zhao Hong proposed that he wanted to work in the mutual aid department of the group, and he went to an ordinary staff member to solve the problem!

After some arrangements, Zhao Hong began his own work and life as a small staff, and at the same time, he was also arranged to enter his personal companion Tian Feng. The two were arranged to be assistants to Mr. Li, the famous "matchmaker" in the company's mutual aid department.

The first task is to investigate older unmarried or divorced men, in the face of marriage, 30-year-old leftover women or second-married women, which do they think is more cost-effective?

On the first day, I received a man who was just over thirty years old and had no children, yes, he could only be regarded as a boy if he was not married, half a man when he was married, and only when he had children could he be regarded as a man in the true sense.

The reason is a sense of responsibility. Every step of life means an increase in responsibility, and with the increasing sense of responsibility, the boy can gradually become a real man!

"I'm having emotional distress right now, and I'm meeting two women at the same time, a 31-year-old leftover girl and a 29-year-old second-married woman, and I don't know what to choose...... I had a brief marriage before and divorced a year ago. I was introduced to my ex-wife by the family, but after getting married, I found that her temper was really stinky and violent, especially because of her moral problems, and she was not filial to the elderly, which I couldn't stand and simply divorced.

In the years after the divorce, I didn't touch my feelings again. It wasn't until my parents urged me again and again that I began to accept introductions from some blind dates or marriage agencies. Considering that my age and economic situation are not particularly advantageous, I didn't think about marrying a young and beautiful woman who was about the same age as me, about 30 years old.

Through the introduction, I got to know the 31-year-old leftover girl. The first impression of her is very good, although it is over 30, but it is well maintained, just like a young and beautiful little girl, elegant and polite and cultivated, the work and income are also good, and it is unmarried, the two of us can talk very well, I feel that I have really picked up a treasure! But after getting along for a while, I found a problem. It may be that she has been single for a long time and is used to being alone, and Wen's life is very self-conscious, not considering the feelings of others.

For example, once, I suddenly didn't contact her for a week, and when I got in touch, she told me that I was under a lot of pressure at work, and suddenly I wanted to go out for a walk, so I went on a trip, and the phone was turned off, and I went to a place where no one knew her, and I could relax the pressure. This way of doing things makes me very unhappy.

The more serious problem is that I went to her house as a guest that day, and sat on her bed casually, but she didn't expect her to pull me up with a scream, directly pull off the sheets, and throw them in the washing machine, which embarrassed me. It turns out that Wen has a habit of cleanliness, and every time she comes into contact with me, she has to wash her carefully several times when she goes home, which makes me feel that I am very dirty......

During this period, the marriage agency introduced a 29-year-old second-married woman to me. Contrary to Wen, her first impression of Rei was ordinary. On the day they met, she seemed very hasty, she didn't clean up and dress up much, and her appearance was much more ordinary than Wen, she didn't talk too much, and she was quiet. But when I came into contact with her, I found out the good things about her, Liz is a very careful and caring woman, the food is especially delicious, and when she comes to my house, she keeps my home spotless. She was a good woman who was thrifty and frugal, and although she was married, she had no children. I was a little shaken in my heart, maybe Rei is the right person to live with me......

But that day, I made an appointment to go to Li's house for dinner, and as soon as I entered the door, I saw a man forcing Li's to ask for money. I rushed up and asked what was going on? The man took one look, snatched the money from Leigh, turned and left. Leigh later told me in tears that it was her ex-husband, who had domestic violence before, and that he was not doing his job properly, and that she couldn't bear to divorce him. But this man ate the weak Li, and often came to the door to ask for money to spend, and if he didn't give it, he would scold and scold...... I feel sorry for Li, and at the same time I feel a headache for her previous relationship......

In private moments, these two women have their own strengths, but they also have troublesome problems, and after a failed marriage, I have now become very cautious, and I want to find a lover who can be calm and quiet and stay with me until I am old. These two 30-year-old women, one is an older leftover girl, and the other is a second-married girl, I really don't know how to choose?

It wasn't until that day that I heard a friend say something that made me realize, he said, "There is no perfect person in this world, and there is no perfect love, but it does not prevent us from having a good marriage." Marriage is just that you will be with her, and she will also be with you...... "I think I was scared by the first marriage, so I always suffer from gains and losses, right?"

Zhao Hong and Tian Feng listened to this man's complaint together, and they didn't know how to choose, after all, radish and cabbage have their own loves, and whether the shoes are suitable or not can only be known by wearing them.

After a little thought, the experienced Mr. Li answered his question: "Obviously, you have understood the truth in the end. There is no such thing as a perfect lover, and both of these women can be said to be suitable for you, and both are not suitable for you. All you need to do is to discern which of them you can tolerate and tolerate, and which ones you really can't accept. They are all women, leftover women and second-married women are just alternative labels given to them by society, what you care about should not be the choice of leftover women or second-married women, but choose the best woman for you......!

A teacher is a teacher, look at how slick this statement is, and it is completely correct, but it still does not give real results.

But who cares? I didn't see that the man had left with some satisfaction, as if he already had an answer.

Zhao Hong looked at Tian Fengle, who was still a little confused on the other side, what is the answer and what does it matter? As long as he is willing, which one is right! I can't find the latest chapter of the book I want to read? cough cough cough, this is not a problem, I recommend a public account, there is a young lady here to help you find the latest chapter, and accompany you to chat!