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It also made me deeply feel the sadness of being an only child, a child doesn't even have a companion to grow up and play with, and there is no brotherhood that our generation has.

Nanjing's cousin is very caring for Dou Child, and the love of a big brother gives Dou Child's peers warmth, understanding, and communication - and these are things that no matter how enlightened parents and elders can't give.

My cousin is also a hard-working child, who has not been cared for by his parents since he was a child, and when he first went to Grandma Douzi's house, he saw a thin and timid child, and he could see the free nature of a child who was not pampered by his parents - it was very distressing.

During this period, the changes and twists and turns of our life and work did not have time to take care of this child, but we only gave him a few thousand yuan in financial aid when he was admitted to university, and also during his college years, his second uncle visited him once when he was studying for a doctorate in Beijing. I don't usually have much love, but from the bottom of our hearts, we all feel very sorry for this child. His second uncle once said that boys should have more experience, but they should fully support him when he needs help, and I understand the protection.

Later, when we settled down and came back to see him, he was already grown.

The year before last, I went to Hangzhou with the bean child, he was working in Changzhou at that time, and he came to see the bean child, but I felt that there was an estrangement with this child, and he was no longer the child who was very similar to his second uncle.

I think it may be that after the death of his second uncle, the greed of his grandfather, aunt and the like was not satisfied, and the anger that affected him. After all, this child was taught by my grandfather, and I didn't dare to compliment my grandfather's tutor, nor did I dare to have any hope. But there is justice in the world, if he is a sensible person, he should know that I am far away from home, and the life of orphans and widows is not easy, so he should have some basic kindness of human nature and reflect on the cruelty and ruthlessness of his relatives.

I don't force anything and anyone, but I know that this child is a hard-working child, I hope he can take the right path, can have his second uncle after more than ten years of weal and sorrow awakening open-minded, tolerant, kind, I hope that after he has experienced the world, he can understand the reason, not bitter himself. Accumulate more blessings for yourself, without the blessing of the ancestors, you can only rely on yourself to accumulate, I hope that his second uncle has repaid all the disasters of their family, and I hope that the next generation will have no disasters and ups and downs.

But in the final analysis, a person's selfishness and narrow-mindedness can only set up obstacles for themselves to move forward in the end, and no one else will be affected, and only themselves will be harmed. This kind of karma can only be removed by oneself and progress can be made in the process of thinking and reflecting on one's life. A person's blessing is not only the shadow of the ancestors, but also their own cultivation, and I very much hope that our descendants can have peace, happiness and happiness in their lives.

There has been no contact for two years, and even the bean child has lost contact with his grandfather's family and even his brother. I have always encouraged my children to contact their grandfather's family, after all, bean children are the flesh and blood of their family, and they cannot be cut off because of their father's death. When asked about the contact between the child and his grandfather's family, the child said that there was no news from his brother, and I thought that he might no longer have anything to do with the Jia family, this child is just my child, and I and his child have no ancestors and no family origin.

In addition to the sadness in my heart, I no longer want to make any efforts, such a family is really chilling. But it is also understandable that during the period when grandma was sick, others also lived their own lives, maybe they were too busy to take care of themselves.

At the end of last year, I finally had the energy and energy to take care of what happened to my dad who froze to death after putting our savings for more than a decade in the stock market.

I finally found the cousin E-mail of the bean child, and tried to send an email, only to contact my father's relatives again.

My brother's phone call made me feel that this child has grown up and is sensible, and he no longer has his own understanding and opinions like the child I saw in Hangzhou two years ago.

Then I encourage the child to contact his brother more, I hope that these two hard-working children can care for each other and help each other for a lifetime, their relatives are too few, the family affection is too weak, after all, they are the same surname, the same ancestor, his father must also hope that they can love each other, right?

After the bean child got in touch with his brother, he was very happy. Two people QQ and WeChat often chat, some of the bean children are not supported by my brother's understanding and support, the two people interact closely, the brother's care and understanding, the sister's careful thinking and dependence, see the two children have no worries about the relationship, I am very relieved, Dad will also feel comforted in the spirit of the sky, right?

I hope that their brothers and sisters can get along freely and freely, and do not intervene in any world troubles, and I hope that in the future, they can also focus on love and family affection, and can cherish each other for a lifetime.