216. More love and less harsh parenting

After 16 years of careful upbringing, the child finally grew up. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

But she is still so attached to Ma Ma, so tall and big, but still a child. It's still the same as talking to Ma Ma without any worries.、Discuss all kinds of confusing things.。

I'm not afraid that Ma Ma will know her little secret, and I'm not worried about Ma Ma jokes.

Sometimes I can't help but "laugh" at the naivety of the bean child, and then have her self-deprecation and laughter to relieve it.

Last night, Dou Kid called and said that there were too many snacks bought on Taobao and he didn't know which one to eat first, and I laughed at him: "You are so capable!"

Text me in a moment: Happy Ma Ma Festival.

Finally raised the child in good health, and she is now starting to coax me to be happy. There is a little sweetness in my heart - the effort has finally paid off.

"In the first week of school, the teacher couldn't talk about self-study on Saturday, and she texted me and asked me to pick her up on Friday.

I replied: Good Kaisen!

Douzi: You like me so much at home, why don't I study on Saturdays.

Me: No, you can't!

Bean: Hahaha, teasing you!

Me: Oh!

Douzi: Mama, you're so funny!

Me: You don't have a good heart, don't scare me in the future.

Beans: Hahahahaha and hahaha......"

My nephew is also sensible under my unremitting supervision and care. I will think of me during the New Year and festivals, and in addition to greetings, I will also send red envelopes. No matter how much money I have, I feel very happy with this thought.

A few days ago, my nephew chatted with me on WeChat, and when he said that he didn't tell his parents a lot of things, he always communicated and interacted with me a lot. It's like my own child, my heart is really, and I'm finally growing up and sensible.

I have a stable job, and I know the length of the world and the sophistication of people.

I grew up in a similar environment as him, and I know all the hardships he endured, and I often can't bear to let him be restrained because of his lack of money like me, so I often subsidize some. It's all in him if he doesn't return it, and I don't plan to come back if I give it out. When a person is young and has no foundation, he should be helped the most, and guiding him to the right path and supporting him to stand up is what the elders and those who have the ability should do for the younger generations.

Now these two children who are cared for by me know how to be grateful and reciprocate. Although I didn't expect them to feed them when I loved them, I even told Dou Xiao that I don't want her to bear the burden of my pension, she just needs to be self-reliant, but the children who are nourished by love know how to love others.

This family style will also be passed down from generation to generation.