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It may be that the diet and rest during the summer vacation are uncontrolled and irregular, and Doudou's physique has declined. Pen fun and pavilion www.biquge.info
I didn't have a public holiday during a summer vacation, except for accompanying Doudou to Hangzhou for a week, I was at work, Doudou was at home by himself, I gave her lunch money, enough for her to buy a decent meal of steamed food, and settled down every day, but in order to save pocket money, Doudou ate a little simple thing every day, I knew, but there was no way, so I had to strengthen the nutrition at dinner every day, and I also regretted it when she had a problem. Doudou is free at home alone, and no one cares. I'm worried that I'll be nagging at home and causing more friction. At this time, Doudou was not very reasonable, and he didn't quite listen to reason, so he tried to make his own claims.
This period is the time when self-consciousness is the strongest, the most important moment for self-assertion in life, and it is also the moment when self-thinking is formed. I just treat her leniently, and I try not to restrict her activities without violating issues of principle, paying attention to safety and health.
During the three-day Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, Doudou's work and rest were irregular, and his aunt visited, so he got up on the morning of 17 and began to vomit with chills and blue faces.
At first, I ignored her, so that she could learn her own lesson, and be careful not to make the same mistake next time.
Two days of rest have passed, and the homework has not been completed, she is preparing to write on the last day, she doesn't want to get sick, and she writes her homework while getting sick. At this time, it was distressing to look at the child's appearance, but I did not express sympathy. Everything should be rushed forward, not backward, and dragging it around will make you very passive. What you have to do sooner or later, why not do it sooner rather than later?
Whether it was okay or not, I first asked her to sit under the shower and make hot water, until her whole body was hot and she felt sweaty. Then I cooked ginger porridge, took a shower, ate a bowl of hot porridge, added two pieces of VC Yinqiao tablets and a bag of Huoxiang Zhengqi Dripping Pills, and went to bed.
I slept for two hours and got up, okay.
Doudou's spare time activities have gradually increased, and the interest in learning seems to be less than before. It's a drawing, it's a chorus, it's a band, it's a school announcer...... There are a lot of extracurricular activities, and my grades will naturally be affected, so I began to hesitate a little: should I interfere with her freedom? After all, academic performance is very important.
Let's take a look, I also hope that she is a child whose overall quality is better than her grades. The path of life is not just about learning.
When Doudou was sick, he had to hold me and lean against me, looking weak. Hehe, this kid is tall, but he's still a kid. said that I wanted to hold her like I did when I was a child, hehe, no matter how tall and old, she will always be a fragile child in front of her mother. So having your own children for the rest of your life is a very happy and wonderful thing.
You are not only raising a child, you are also truly growing into a person in the child's growth, and the beauty of life she brings is far greater than the hard work you pay.
Every responsible parent who loves their children feels the same way, doesn't they?
2013.9.23