Last night, Doudou lost control of his emotions and cried again. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

Entering adolescence, Doudou's mood is a little unstable, perhaps also from the pressure of school learning, she is not a child who can sit down and study without distractions, and she is very repulsed by all kinds of school rules, so it is a little difficult for her to adapt to such an environment.

When I talked about the class last night, some teachers came to listen to the class, and Doudou raised her hand many times to answer the question, because she sat in the back row, the teacher couldn't see it, so he only invited her once, and the teacher praised her.

But I heard why she was in the last row again? Wasn't she in the second row?

Doudou began to feel aggrieved: "Originally, I didn't speak, I was talking at the same table, and the teacher thought I was talking and put me in the last row." "Crying as he spoke.

This kid is good anywhere, but he talks too much and can't control his mouth. I was criticized by the teacher many times because I talked a lot in class, and I didn't know how to change it. Maybe she wasn't talking nonsense, and I believe she might have followed the teacher's train of thought and then accidentally said it. But today's teachers require children to be obedient and silent in class. Doudou is a lively and active child, and he may always be criticized by the teacher when he speaks at the wrong time.

Doudou's grades are not outstanding, people are very smart, so the teacher hopes that she can be among the best, and the pressure on her is relatively great, with Doudou's strong personality, it is by no means something that can be suppressed, so there is one file after another.

I also tried to communicate with the teachers, but today's teachers are also impetuous and lack humanistic cultivation, just looking at the children's scores, not caring about the children's growth at all, and there is no result.

I don't want to teach my child too much, so I have to wait patiently for her to grow up and be sensible.

If she had my heart, she wouldn't be in such a situation, but Doudou was born a child without scheming, and I don't want her to be a speculative person, I hope she can live truly and follow her heart. So, I just told her to follow the necessary rules and know how to get along with people. 、

As for the grades, it would be nice to get by, but I don't dare to tell her that, in case she doesn't want to improve according to my words, it won't work.

Alas, everyone's growth has to go through this stage, think that I was also wandering, confused, uneasy, and even tired of learning during that period, didn't I also come over?

My brother's daughter can't adapt to the current education in China, so she went abroad to study in high school, and I also moved this thought, whether to send Doudou out to study? Money is naturally also a problem, and it is a big deal to cash out all the reserved education funds, wait and see, and see the future direction.

2013.9.24