I have been sleeping poorly for a few days, and last night I played the piano for a while and finished the housework, and I was already very tired, so I went to bed before 10:00 and told the child not to disturb me. Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info once you are woken up in your sleep, your heart will be very uncomfortable, and it will be difficult to fall asleep again.

It is said that there is a leader inspecting above, and I can't do self-study in the evening for the past two days. The little pot friend was doing his homework in the living room, and I went to sleep.

Just fell asleep, the dazzling light of "pop" turned on, and the little pot friend stood at the door and said: "Although I think it's not good to disturb your sleep like this, but I have a question that I really can't figure out, can you help me take a look?"

I was very annoyed by the panic and irritability of being woken up, so I said unhappily, "I told you not to disturb my sleep! ”

So, the little pot friend turned off the light and took the mobile phone and said to ask the classmates to see, I was confused, but I couldn't sleep, although people are tired like a mess of mud, but it is difficult to fall asleep again, slowly quiet the heart, silently recite the "Heart Sutra", I hope to be able to sleep.

Half an hour has passed at 11:00, the lights outside are still on, not at ease, worried that the child is playing with the mobile phone again, so I got up again to look, and found that she was playing with the mobile phone in the bathroom, I don't know how long she played in the bathroom, so I was very angry and took the mobile phone.

The little pot friend said that he just went to the toilet for 2 minutes, and the question was still not done, saying that most of the classmates did not answer the phone, and those who answered the phone did not bring back the question...... A bunch of reasons.

Don't be angry!

"Half an hour on this question, you're still wasting time here? Didn't I say I'll help you solve it tomorrow morning? You've been playing with your phone for another half hour, right?" I was furious.

"I'm doing my homework, am I still wrong in solving the problem?" asked the little pot friend rhetorically.

"Are you solving a problem? Are you doing your homework?" I forced to look at her.

"Yes!" began to shed tears.

Alas, it was really exhausting to face this child.

The child's personality is very strong, she is very stubborn in everything she does, she doesn't know how to be considerate of people, she doesn't mention these, and she doesn't work very hard, and she is in the third year of junior high school, and she can't see that she is anxious and hard-working.

I began to wonder about my own education style, is my loose and natural education method wrong? Caused her to have no sense of responsibility and lack of progress? My distressed and meticulous care caused her to not know how to be grateful, not to know how to be considerate, lazy and unruly?

That's how I was raised by my mother. I want to love her, take care of her, so that she has not grown up to face society, life can live carefree, once she grows up to face her own life and life, there will be no more relaxed and carefree days, I hope that as she grows up, she can appreciate my intentions, now I can't see it.

I think that I seemed to be like this when I was an adolescent, and only then did I slowly experience my mother's love and understand my parents' difficulties when I grew up and had a family and my own life.

In fact, for the growth of children, all things are small things, but it is these small things that slowly form her habits and character, the so-called words and deeds I can't see the effect yet, but I think the future impact is still in the bones, deep existence.

The little guy said that most of the results of this physical examination are excellent and superior, and it is this healthy body that I have spent more than ten years and painstaking efforts to raise, but this guy is now beginning to not cherish the fruits of my labor, does not sleep on time at night, drinks 7788 drinks whenever he has the opportunity, and secretly buys inferior color pupils to wear. I'm very angry!

I threatened: If you don't cherish your health, I don't care if you get sick or have a problem!

She said: You can't manage it if you want to.

Is!

In the morning, I read the problem, it's actually quite simple, but the calculation is a little more complicated, this kid is probably confused and has no ideas, so he can't solve it. But she just wasn't in a hurry to go to bed, preferring to play with her mobile phone, listen to songs and listen to the radio.

I was beaten by me, climbed into bed and went to sleep, I didn't brush my teeth, my teeth had broken a few, I was worried that it would be broken again, and I was very angry and asked her to brush her teeth! Perhaps every capable mother has an imbecile daughter, and this sentence is true.

I helped her with everything, including washing the water bottle in the morning, preparing the fruit in the evening, pouring the milk and sending it to her, washing and drying the clothes and sorting them in her closet...... This may be called coddling.

In this world, no matter how powerful and powerful parents are, they can't compete for their children, because you will never be ruthless and don't love your children, a strong sister looks like a bad woman in the face of her daughter, and a very capable and strong eldest sister chooses not to marry or have children in the face of her son (graduated from Cambridge in the UK with a master's degree and is now working in Beijing), after several quarrels, there is still no way, so she has to compromise.

It's really pitiful for the hearts of parents all over the world!