The child is a child with a lot of special words, often annoying, and is not very obedient after entering puberty, so I have more "disgust", often do not respond to her inconsequential words, she will repeat several times when I see that I do not respond, until I am very irritated to say that she has repeated many times, she will stop. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

When I woke up this morning and saw my child sleeping sweetly and quietly, I suddenly felt that I was doing so badly! As a mother, how can I be so indifferent to my child?!

Everybody has gone through youth, who hasn't experienced that kind of rebellion and self-righteousness? And my youth is as good as hers, hasn't my mother always been tolerant and loving to me? And how inappropriate it is for me to treat my children with such a silent attitude!

When I got up in the morning, I talked to the child with a pleasant face, and did what she wanted, and the child seemed very happy and obedient.

When I went out, it rained, and the children hurriedly ran to take the car to school, and they chattered non-stop along the way, I patiently listened to what she said, occasionally responded a few words, and the child happily got out of the car and squeezed his eyebrows and made faces, and then went to school.

Yes, I read an article a few days ago, probably to cherish the days with children, because parents and children do not spend much time together, she will be admitted to college in three years, and she will live on campus for three years of high school, and she can only go home for a day on weekends, and see that the days of clinging to each other are getting fewer and fewer, and I should cherish the days with my children.

A few days ago, she went to self-study at night, separated in the morning, and went home before going to bed at night, I was bored alone, so I practiced calligraphy, played the piano, and read books to pass the time.

But if you don't strictly require your child to study, is it better to spoil and harm her, or is it better to give her a relaxed and happy childhood?

Watching her create her own literary club with great interest, planning, organizing and a series of other activities, hearing that she is recruiting as the president, the school radio is also in full swing, and she is still writing, these things she likes independently have been insisting on and using her brains to do well, I did not stop or encourage, just watched.

I hope that my words and deeds will give my child a good foundation, and I hope that she can feel the beauty of life and be strong and open-minded to face the ups and downs of life.

In the future, I should pay more attention to responding to children.