79. Maintain the dignity of Doudou

I moved into my new home on the ninth day of August, and it was finally time to start a new life. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info

It took almost 10 months to renovate and move.

With a two-week public holiday and an eight-day holiday for the Mid-Autumn Festival on National Day, everything is almost ready.

I said that I wanted to buy a feather duster for use, and Doudou immediately responded: "Do you buy a feather duster to dust furniture? or to dust me?"

On the 6th, I took Doudou to Longhu Mountain for a day of play. Doudou fed the monkey, holding the peanuts with his hands, the monkey hung upside down Admiralty gently grabbed Doudou's hand with one hand, and took away the peanuts in Doudou's hand with one hand, Doudou was very happy!

In the future, if you have time, you will take Doudou to the surrounding area to play, and it will be a disappointment if you don't go to such a good landscape.

2012.10.8

Doudou was criticized by her aunt for talking at noon, and the teacher sued me, and as soon as Doudou got home, I couldn't help but ask her, and her tone was also very strict.

Doudou cried very aggrieved! said that the aunt who took care of her always criticized her, regardless of whether she spoke or not. She called the teacher to protect the child's dignity very seriously, and also said that the child should correct his mistakes if he or she made them.

Yesterday, I had another exchange with Doudou on character issues and learning issues, and Doudou once again said that he should be strict with himself.

In the morning, the teacher called again and said that Doudou used his mobile phone to play music at noon and made noise, and I told the teacher sternly: You should find out the situation first - Doudou never takes a mobile phone to school, where does the music come from? It seems that the aunt is really wronged by the child!

I said that if it was such an environment, I would rather she not live, and the teacher immediately said that he would investigate, and called to apologize after a while, saying that the aunt had made a mistake.

I said, "This time I made a mistake, was it also my aunt's mistake before? Adolescent children are already rebellious, you have wronged her like this, doesn't it further aggravate her rebellious mentality? If so, I am worried that my child's personality will be distorted when staying with you, I will consider whether to stay with you. ”

I said, "I was spending money to give my children a place to rest and eat well, and if that didn't happen, then why should I do it?"

Because the school does not have a dormitory, Doudou lives in the house of a teacher who takes a lunch break for international students.

I changed my humble attitude and said that as a manager, I should be fair and deal with things clearly instead of subjective assumptions, and I effectively maintained the dignity of children!

As soon as I got to work at noon, the teacher called me and told me that Doudou slept well.

I said to the teacher: "Any excellent child has some shortcomings, we must be tolerant and guided! instead of speaking ill of each other! That aunt, you have to tell her to be polite to my child, if she is not right, you can educate instead of being harsh!"

The teacher immediately said, "That aunt has been moved to another room, don't worry, I will pay more attention." ”

When I went home and asked Doudou about my accommodation, Doudou said that it was much better, and changed to a more kind aunt to cook for them and sleep with them. 2012.10.11

Yesterday I bought a bicycle and wanted to pay Doudou to go to school together, so I watched her arrive at school safely and go home safely.

But Doudou thought I was going to spy on her, and rode hard in front early in the morning to get rid of me. I also took the plant road, and the plant road was under construction, and there were several large unit gates, and there were many vehicles in and out, and it was a long detour.

Alas, this child, how good it would be to be considerate of my little intentions.

In this life, parents can take care of a child so wholeheartedly and without regrets.

If the child cannot comprehend, it is the helplessness of the parents and the misfortune of the child.

No matter what kind of children parents are facing, they can't give up their responsibilities, as children, if they can't experience the love and selfless care of their parents and feel warm and grateful, children will lose the most warm feelings in life.

Think about it, although I knew the love and distress of my parents during my adolescence, I was also reluctant to express and give back. Maybe people are like this, and when they understand that most of their lives have passed, there are very few opportunities to repay their parents.

I'm not a person who drags mud and water and chatters, but now I can't help but chatter. In fact, everything has its own certainty, why should I be so unable to let go?!

But often frightened for Doudou's father's accident, worried about what will happen to Doudou, every day a stick of incense to pay homage to Guanyin Bodhisattva, the first is to pray for the Bodhisattva to protect my Doudou, so that she can grow up healthy and happy!

I also hope that her father can protect her life and be safe, healthy and happy!

2012.10.15