After yesterday's "two-pronged approach", Doudou took the initiative to get up this morning and come out to wash up and eat breakfast. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 info all morning performance is very good, very cooperative, very active play.

But the child was still wronged, and got up in the middle of the night and cried: "Doudou wants his father back, Doudou wants his father back." ”

I remember when Doudou was about two years old, she had a lively day, her father carried her to the bathroom, Doudou insisted on refusing to pee, and she peed into her pants within two minutes, her father scared and beat her little buttocks, and her daughter was very aggrieved but didn't cry, probably because she didn't care. But at night, he also cried in his sleep, crying and saying, "Stinky dad hit Doudou's little buttocks!" Dad had to get up and coax, and he cried for two hours.

The daughter is usually more well-behaved and reasonable, rarely blamed, let alone beaten, although she understands that she is unreasonable, but she is still wronged, and she remembers this unhappiness in her sleep to vent out. It is necessary to explain the channel and give emotional comfort to calm down. 2002、9、10

When I got up in the morning, I tried to ask my daughter if she could go to fetch milk alone, and she said yes, got dressed, and said, "Why don't you go with Doudou?" After taking the milk, when I went up the stairs, Doudou asked my mother to carry it, and I said, "Mom will go up first to help you warm the milk, and you can come up slowly." The daughter stood downstairs for a long time and kept shouting: "Doudou mother, come down and carry Doudou up." I insisted that she go up by herself, and my daughter said, "Doudou is tired, Doudou can't go up." I watched her quietly from above, and for more than ten minutes, my daughter came up slowly, and when she got home, she took off her shoes, hat, and socks, and lay down - she looked really tired. 2002、9、12

I washed a little clothes after eating at noon yesterday, and suddenly I couldn't hear Doudou's movement, so I called Doudou, no one answered, I searched all the rooms, balconies, and even the kitchen, there was no shadow of Doudou, I looked at the door carefully and found that the door was not locked, I guess she went out to play by herself, saw that there was no on the stairs, climbed to the living room window to see downstairs and did not see, I was a little panicked, and shouted loudly: "Doudou, where are you?" Doudou's sweet voice replied downstairs: "Mom, Doudou is here." I hurriedly chased down and found that my daughter was wearing her little water boots and playing in the rain downstairs with a small umbrella. She couldn't go out to play after a few days of rain, and she actually wanted to get out of the rain by herself!

The last time I went to fetch milk, Doudou pulled it to the bed, maybe it was a lot of stimulation for the child, and she said to me seriously: "Mom, Doudou told you, you must not leave Doudou alone at home!" 2002、9、17

My daughter has long known how to read words and feelings, and she has reacted quite quickly recently. If she secretly does something bad alone, you have to look at her, or call Doudou, and your daughter will immediately tell you seriously, "What didn't Doudou do?" If she sees that your face is wrong, she will immediately praise you, "Mom is a good mother, not a bad guy!"

My daughter has been considerate of us since she was born, I remember that my daughter was sick once and had a high fever of 39.5 degrees, my daughter was confused, and my father was not at home, I was very anxious, and my daughter smiled sweetly at me, and then fell asleep, when Doudou was just one and a half years old.

I went to pee on Doudou, Doudou said no, and after a while she peed a little bit, I asked her, "What is this without pee?" and Doudou actually told me "fart"!

Doudou is a slow child like my father, I always can't wait and am impatient, but she never spends up a little because my mother is in a hurry. It's been slow and methodical. Temperamental and stubborn, one thing he believes will definitely stick to the end. Once when I went upstairs and insisted on my mother's back, I went up first, and from time to time I heard my daughter shouting downstairs: "Mom come down, carry Doudou up." "When I went down to look, she was sitting at the top of the stairs waiting for her mother to come down and carry it. When he saw me coming down, he immediately smiled.

My daughter can't stand the grievances since she was a child, and I usually reason with her.

Last time, she spilled water all over the floor, and I was scared to hit her little buttocks, Doudou cried and said, "I'm sorry, Mom, Doudou is in a bad mood!" She also understood that she ignored it, so she only cried a little and went to play by herself. But he got up and cried twice at night, and said, "Doudou wants Dad to come back." "I coaxed for an hour to finally get this done.

It also reminds me once again: mothers should not be irritable!

I asked her what about her slippers? She told me, "Doudou went back to the bedroom to get the badminton ball and took off the slippers, and then it was gone, so Doudou was barefoot." I asked her: Do slippers have feet to run?Doudou nodded affirmatively and said, "Yes!" 2002, 9, 23

At noon, we watched Jin Yong's martial arts blockbuster "Dragon Babu" and "The Condor Heroes", Doudou actually "learned" a lot of moves from it, closed his eyes and swayed like Qiao Feng's eighteen palms of descending dragons, and asked me: "Mom, how do you see Doudou's fight?" and slashed over and said: "I want to kill you!" I said that she didn't fight as well as Qiao Feng, but she said: "Doudou asked you how you played, you said it badly, it's not interesting." "It seems that I didn't follow her mood, and it was boring. I also think it's ruining the child's interest.

During my lunch break, Doudou brought back the bucket and toys from the balcony and told me, "This is not dirty." Then I was unsure, and asked me, "Did Mom say this is dirty?" I knew what she was thinking, and I agreed with her, and my daughter happily put these things on the bed and said, "If it's not dirty, you can put it on Mommy's bed and play!" 2002、9、25

In the beginning, my daughter listened to the story only to listen to the excitement, occasionally silently pondering, and sometimes asking a lot why. After about a month, my daughter began to be moved by the joys and sorrows of the characters in the story.

Once told the story of her mother's suffering when she was a child, her daughter was in tears, it was a mother-daughter connection!

The daughter is worried or happy for the little animals in the story, and is completely immersed in the story told by her mother.

When she was one and a half years old, her mother wanted to take the graduate school entrance examination and sent her to a private kindergarten, not eating other people's food, only drinking a little clear soy milk, and her stomach was filled big every day, and Doudou cried loudly.

It seems that this time the mother's haste left a lot of trauma on the child's little heart, and she still remembers the grievances she suffered a year ago!

It's gone, but it has left me a very heavy lesson as a mother—— the birth of the nurturing!

When Doudou was angry, she would cover her eyes and cry, so I would ask what kind of sound was this? She would stop crying, put down her hand, and tell me, "It's Doudou crying." "If I don't say it's good, Doudou will stop crying and play. This is the child: childish, innocent!

Sometimes, Doudou bumped and was obviously wronged, but if he wasn't brave and didn't cry, his face was full of grievances and his mouth was flat.

I would say, "Is Doudou wronged? Is Doudou in pain? If Doudou feels wronged, he will shed some tears and cry, and that's it." ”

Doudou would climb to my shoulder and cry a few times, then wipe his tears and tell his mother: "Doudou is not wronged and does not hurt, Doudou is fine!"

Then I happily went to play again.

I often tell Doudou: "Crying is the same as laughing, cry when you want to cry, and laugh when you want to laugh." There's nothing wrong with crying. ”

So Doudou has never shown a bad crying action, she only uses it as an emotional expression like laughing. 2002、9、27

I went to Guilin's dad to play, and on the first night, I said that I would get up early tomorrow morning to catch the car, Doudou agreed, and I heard that I was very happy to see my father. At 7 o'clock in the morning, I shouted to her to get up, the child did not wake up very reluctantly, I forcibly picked her up, she fluttered in my arms, accidentally hit the child's head on the door frame, immediately got up a big bag, Doudou cried even more. I was in a hurry and applied aloe vera to relieve a little bit.

Sitting on the bus, Doudou got motion sickness, the middle car stopped to refuel, everyone got off, Doudou and I didn't get off, I was worried that the up and down would be more serious children's motion sickness. I haven't taken my children on a long-distance bus, and I don't know how to get out of the car and breathe some fresh air to get rid of motion sickness.

After driving for a while, Doudou vomited all the milk he had drunk in the morning, and the child fell asleep weakly on top of me. My heart was filled with self-reproach and helplessness. Fortunately, the child waited for the car to arrive in Guilin before waking up, and I was relieved.

It was a long way to get off the bus and it was a hot September sun, and I was very difficult and embarrassed to hold my luggage in one hand and my child in the other!

When I saw my father, although I had been separated for two months, I had kowtowed my head and got motion sickness, and I hadn't woken up after getting out of the car, but as soon as I saw my father, my daughter immediately smiled and ran into my father's arms.

After a few days of going out to the Li River and Seven Star Park to play, Doudou was very happy. Very active play, and like to take pictures, seeing dad take pictures of mom, Doudou will show the grievances and unhappiness of being ignored, and he must take a picture of her to be happy.

When I came back, the train ride was very smooth, Doudou ate, played, and slept well along the way, and several children in the same carriage had a good time with Doudou.

Doudou is a relatively generous child, without the domineering and squeamishness of an only child, more natural, quiet and sensible. People like her wherever she goes.

Dad has a very healthy mentality, so no matter what difficulties he faces, he will be able to meet evil and good fortune. Therefore, I am also trying to cultivate a healthy mindset in my children from an early age, and the years before the age of three are as precious as gold, and I will never leave my hands to raise them. When I go to kindergarten after the age of three, I believe that my daughter has a healthy body and mind and lays a good foundation for her future growth. It lays a good foundation for the formation of a healthy personality in children. 2002、10、7