8. Educate children according to the situation

Yesterday my dad called back, and Doudou snatched the microphone from my hand from time to time to tell my dad something she occasionally remembered. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info got a new ceiling fan yesterday, and my daughter had a particularly happy expression on the side. I also chatted with my uncle from time to time. 2002、10、10

Yesterday I went to play for a day, and my daughter was more well-behaved. Today I was very tired, I didn't take her to play, I wanted to rest for a while at noon, Doudou kept arguing all the time, and I didn't rest well.

Then I started to clean up, and my daughter took the initiative to help. She helped wipe the tables and chairs, wiped the floor, and even got her clothes wet, but this spirit of participating and learning in everything was precious, and I didn't stop her.

Looking at some foreign materials, they educate their children to be more open, advocate freedom and autonomy, and rarely restrict them. The Chinese, especially knowledgeable, and parents in the city always restrict many freedoms for their children, and always hear the voices of parents "dirty, dangerous, don't..." However, they do not take advantage of the situation and tell their children where the danger lies and how to avoid it, not from the perspective of knowledge but from the perspective of knowledge! Especially when children climb up and down, play with soil, sand, and mud, parents will tear them away without any discussion, and even beat and scold the children.

I often think about my childhood, playing in the dirt and snow, not to mention how fun it was! If a child's freedom to play is restricted, her curiosity and desire for knowledge will be stifled.

I rarely restrict my daughter, I often encourage her to explore, to try, and even encourage her to play in the sand, to climb high to face danger, I only pay attention to the sidelines, to ensure the safety and hygiene of the child.

My daughter has developed a good habit since she was a child: she never puts anything in her mouth. So letting her play with something less hygienic reduces the danger a lot.

I also tell my children what the danger is, why it is dangerous, how to avoid it, and how to deal with it.

When I rested at noon, Doudou washed a few of her clothes in her small bucket and hung them on the balcony on a hanger, and I told her that the clothes to be washed were dirty, and one of them was clean and did not need to be washed.

In the afternoon, Doudou was spanked for spilling milk on the floor. Crying and saying, "Mom, I'm sorry, Doudou won't do this next time." ”2002、10、20

Chatting with my daughter yesterday, Doudou was very obedient when she was a child, but now she is not very obedient, she actually remembers the beating the day before yesterday. I asked her why, and she remembered, "I opened the mouth of the bottle and spilled all the milk." ”

When I went to the supermarket to buy things and bought snacks, Doudou always couldn't wait to eat, and told her that she could eat after paying the money a few times, so she picked out her favorite snacks and went to the cashier early, and as soon as I paid the money, she would happily "pay the money!

Every little progress of my daughter, every bit of growth is deeply engraved in my mind, every little change in her I give attention and good guidance, everyone says that my daughter is sensible and quiet, quiet is innate, half sensible is natural, half is the result of my childhood teaching.

From the beginning of a few months in Doudou, I took the trouble to reason with her and tried my best to lead by example. Develop some good living habits, I believe that children who grow up in such a quiet, loving and warm family will have a healthy body and mind, which will lay a good foundation for my daughter's future growth and life. 2002、10、23

My daughter put her arm around my neck to sleep. Suddenly, she touched my neck with her hand, and her eyes opened so that the boss "Doudou found that my mother's neck was full of bones". I told him that it was the tracheal cartilage, which supported a tube for breathing, and it allowed the gas to pass through smoothly.

Doudou touched his neck and nose as if he didn't understand.

I told her that the nose is connected to the trachea through the mouth and throat, and that below it are the lungs, which are bubbly like grapes for gas, and that oxygen enters the body from here to feed the various cells of the body, and that the parts of the body are made up of different cells, a small ball-like thing.

The daughter listened carefully on the side.

I have an idea: my daughter can understand everything, understand everything, and explain everything to her as long as she is interested. I thought: this is how knowledge is accumulated and sublimated!

I hugged the calf and pretended to pat it intimately, and Doudou asked with envy, "Why does mom shoot calf?" I said: "Maverick is obedient, calf is well-behaved, mom likes calves." Doudou asked again, "Does Mom like Doudou?" I deliberately teased her: "Mom likes calves, not Doudou." The daughter shook her head and said, "No!"

My daughter actually knotted herself today and tied the two ends of the plastic bag together, which is amazing!

The day before yesterday, Doudou sat on my stomach and rode a big horse, crushing my stomach, yesterday day was very painful, my daughter asked strangely, "Why does Doudou crush my mother's belly?" while stretching out her little hand, "Do you want Doudou to help my mother rub her belly?" There is a concern on her little face!2002.10.30