After nearly a year of adjustment and guidance, Doudou began to understand some human feelings, and patiently accompanied the child through her childhood, adolescence and youth!

Looking at the world -- there are so few happy children who can grow up in peace and security with both parents! Since Doudou is destined to be such a life, I, as a mother, must assume the responsibility for her healthy growth! Blame and praise are just as strong as love! But it is so important and necessary to be gentle and tolerant and patient with children!

Last night, I recalled that my mother's love and punishment for us when I was a child were the same as love, but what I remember deeply is the punishment, although I understand her mind, but it is also a matter of adulthood, but it is more bitter. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info It's better to treat children well, encourage more, praise less, blame and complain!

Chatting with Doudou last night, I heard her say that a classmate lost her book, and she handled this matter, I was very pleased: Doudou's domineering and courage in doing things reassured me!

The classmate said that he put it on Doudou's bed when he returned the book, but Doudou didn't see it. Then tell your classmates: You took the book from me when you borrowed it, but you didn't return it to me when you returned the book, whether you returned the book or not, now I didn't get my book, so you find a way to return the book within the **** time limit, if you can't pay back the book, you will compensate for the original price.

When the classmate made compensation, he said: Can I erase the fraction? Doudou replied: Yes -- round it up -- 17 yuan! The book is 16.8 yuan. The classmates had no choice but to give up and compensate at the original price.

I told her that this incident was normal, and that it was a good sign to borrow books for classmates to see, and that classmates should cherish the borrowed books and compensate for losing them. It's just that I think I can make less money, after all, it's not a new book. Doudou didn't agree, she said that she bought the book herself and lent it to her classmates just after reading it, and the classmates should be compensated according to the price if they lost it.

I told my child to be more tolerant and generous, not only to understand that she should compensate for the loss of other people's things, but also to make her feel reasonable and comfortable. Doudou didn't insist on his opinion anymore.

Yesterday, I brought back the Dove chocolate given by Zhuo Hui to Doudou, and the child was reluctant to eat it, so he ate one and said that he would keep one for the exam to eat, and he was very relieved and sad to hear the child's words!

After that, he discussed with me: Mom, when it's time for the exam, you can buy me some chocolates to give me some energy, okay?

In the morning, I saw that there was only one wrapper left, and the child still couldn't help but eat the other one!

In the afternoon, I went to help her buy some Dove, Jinwei, and Hsu Fu Chi chocolates! I think about life? Why save these pennies on my lips? Think about what we have in the end when we have been thrifty and thrifty in the past? It is better to give the child to meet her requirements within a reasonable range! Do not leave regrets for growing up! Do not leave regrets for raising children!

I have agreed to Doudou's request to buy a ticket for the 10th of January and return to my hometown for the New Year. Let children feel the care of their relatives and the joy of the New Year in their hometown!

However, I struggled for a long time -- in order to save money and safety, in order to bring something to my family, and then everything was put down! Safety is the first thing, and it is also the first thing to suffer less crimes! What I bring to my family is my behavior and thoughts! If I am happy, everyone will be happy, and if I am bitter, everyone will suffer! Life is short, and I spend every day calmly and peacefully! It is a happy and gratifying thing to be able to spend another year with my parents! Even if I am tired, even if I spend a little money!2011.12.28