Standing with Doudou, I feel that this child is taller than me, already 155cm!

Yesterday at noon, Doudou excitedly called me: "Mom, I made a small puppet, and the teacher took it to make a model for the students in classes 1 and 2!" I praised her in time for her ingenuity! Usually Doudou likes to do handicrafts, and the shadow puppet made the day before yesterday is also very good-looking!

Last night, Doudou was sad that she was not elected because she wanted to be a member of the school brigade committee, saying that if she was democratically elected, she would get a maximum of 16 votes, saying that the boys in their class did not support her, but she wanted to be a team committee member before graduating from primary school, and it was very distressing to see the child sad, but everyone has to experience the setbacks and failures of growth, I can only comfort the child:" Try to do what you can do well, grasp what you can grasp, don't have too much hope for what you want to decide by others, and the world is never fair, you can only fight for everything yourself, and don't force the result too much. Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info "Doudou was sad for a while, and fell asleep quietly, and he was in a good mood when he woke up in the morning! 2011.9.16

Doudou once again failed to resist the temptation and quietly took the money to buy toys with her classmates! When I asked where the money came from, she didn't dare to say it directly! I was very angry! Beating and scolding was to no avail! I also wanted to scare her in order to ease my emotions, so I took my bag and went out! Sadly, there was nowhere to go and nowhere to sue! Doudou called and said that it was the money that a sister had given her before, and said that she had admitted her mistake.

I went around downstairs and came home. Alas, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so why should they be so angry! I can't even grasp my own life, so what else do I want? Besides, the child's playful nature should not be stifled, but I am afraid that she will learn badly if she can't resist the temptation.

Wash and sleep!

When I woke up in the morning and saw the remaining money and toys on Doudou's desk, I didn't talk much and went out to work. I sent her a text message: Child, be angry! I won't mention it anymore and don't think about it anymore, but my mother hopes that this is the last time! I hope that the child can understand and take warning!

No one can understand the difficulties of a woman raising an adolescent child alone in a foreign land! But I believe that I have the ability to raise a child who is born and healthy both inafter! Doudou's nature is good! With correct guidance and pruning, I believe that he will achieve something! Work hard!

At this point, I have no power to return to heaven, I can only face the current situation, I just hope that the child can be a little more considerate, a little harder, a little harder, strive for a better future for themselves!2011.9.21

Today I found that Doudou took 1300 yuan from my wallet to spend it indiscriminately, maybe on Saturday, and I have squandered 300, and I also took a few hundred before, I thought I was mistaken, it seems that I am not mistaken. He also said to his classmates: "My mother won't find out if I take the money, she thinks the money flew away by herself!"

Through inquiry, I learned that it was a classmate who instigated her to say that there was a mobile phone that could give a smartphone for 1,100 yuan, so she took the money without hesitation. also asked his classmates to help hold it, and the two went to spend it together.

This heartless child was deceived by others.

I'm already so caught up in my life! I just put a little cash at home for emergencies, and she will find it wherever she doesn't want me to put it, and she will take it and squander it secretly!

The income I get every month is so limited! Doudou has 1100 for room and board, 700 for pick-up, 250 for milk, and 300 for saxophone every semester, these are fixed expenses, and I have to spend a penny for eating, drinking, and Lazar!

I don't dare to buy clothes in a big shopping mall to buy a brand, just a few dozen dollars can be worn, colleagues say I don't have new clothes, I just change a can wear out to meet people, some friends send a little dream island card to buy one or two decent clothes and shoes, most of them help Doudou buy better clothes and shoes.

I try not to let the child feel inferior to others, how sad and sad I am and not show it in front of her, I don't want to give her a lot to bear at a young age, but maybe I'm wrong!

In this world, no one will feel sorry for me except her father, including her own parents! But he is gone, I still have to face this miserable life alone, maybe one day I will choose to leave if I am overwhelmed! I hope I can last until the day Doudou grows up!2011.10.26

After Doudou came home yesterday, he was very sensible, knew how to leave food for his mother, knew how to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and knew how to take care of his mother. I give her a little truth from time to time, take your time, I hope I don't make this piece of huanghuali into a burning stick!2011.10.28

After painstaking teaching and always being by his side, Doudou has become a lot more obedient these days.

Doudou bought some of the teenager "Yilin" that she likes to read, and she has more time to read books, and badminton has also improved a lot.

Last Friday, I used the noon time to write a long letter to her, hoping to move and warm her, and it seems that she has done it!

But it's okay to walk to the office and the book market on Saturday! I'm tired enough, she didn't complain about being tired, she bought vegetables, I mean take a two-stop bus home, Doudou also taught me: I usually save money and thrift, and I walked to the ground at two stops, and it's not worth wasting 1.8 yuan! I said that I was worried that she was wearing a pair of roller skates and her feet were tired, and she said it was okay! When I got home, I said that my legs and feet were sore!

The child is a good child! I must adjust my behavior and emotions, guide education well, and grasp the rudder of children's growth -- let children grow up healthy and happy!2011.11.14