Forty-three, that little wish
I remember that my father read my "Doudou Growth Bits" and said that it was like a running account. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
In the morning, after Doudou got up, he was in a bad mood, and I thought it was because my father was gone. I don't want to, but I was criticized by the teacher because Eminem was often late for pick-up.
He also said: "Teacher Fang used to like me very much, but now she often blames me, saying that I am too late. As he spoke, tears rolled down his eyes, and he was very sad.
Yes, my daughter is a very strong, very cherished child who cherishes her own face, if she is criticized by her favorite teacher, how upset should I be?! I also feel a lingering guilt in my heart, in order to work less hard for myself to let the child get up early every day at 7:25 and go down to school, but because I am late for other children to go to school together, what kind of sadness and grievance should my little heart be? !
In recent times, I haven't taken much care of my children's mood.
So I immediately decided to take my children to school in person every morning. Doudou smiled.
Departure at 7:30 and arrived at the school gate at less than 7:35, and Doudou went to school happily!
Yes, the child is so easy to satisfy, her little heart needs her mother's patience, gentle and warm care!
I blamed her for the little tediousness in life and called her loudly, now that I think about it, it is really contrary to my original intention, I should love my child in every way, should be gentle and caring, should be with a warm heart to love her and give birth to her!
When did I lose a gentle and moist heart in the complexity of life, and when did I become so numb to the grievances and hopes of my children?
In the face of the child's weak hope, I am her sky and all, I have to remember from the bottom of my heart that I should give the child warm feelings and gratitude!
Doudou's 8th birthday has passed, and the clothes she bought are the result of her "reflection"! Books are birthday gifts from her parents!
I should always be grateful - thank God for giving me such a spirit - Doudou - a precious and unique spirit in my life! I will love her and care for her with the affection of my life! - I am the dearest person in the world!
This text is typed intermittently when the computer screen is blacked out more than ten times, and the thinking is confused by the computer, but my heart of realization has continued!2007-12-18
Yesterday, Doudou scored a perfect score of 100+20 in the math unit test. As soon as I got home from school, I happily called my mother and told her mother about her joy and excitement!
When the teacher told her about her grades, she almost jumped three feet high -- alas, only one foot high! The tone was full of regret, as if not jumping so high could not fully express her joy.
This was the first time she had scored a full score since she was in elementary school! No wonder she couldn't contain her joy! I was also encouraged by my daughter's joy! I became excited and joyful!
Doudou asked me to reward her with a perfect score, just a bracelet toy braided rope! I always remembered going to school in the morning, took a dollar and hurriedly ran to the commissary to buy it, and I picked and choose, and under my urging, hurriedly ran into the school gate happily.
Looking at the child's joyful back, feeling the child's simple satisfaction and joy!December 19, 2007
Doudou has been very well-behaved since his father left!
Maybe last time Dad's harsh criticism worked.
The homework is no longer procrastinated, and the work and rest are regular. Last night, I was suddenly tired and wanted to take a shower early to go to bed, so I didn't dictate words to Doudou, and asked Doudou to take a shower together.
Doudou hurriedly packed her schoolbag, I had already washed and dressed when she came in, and I didn't wait for her, Doudou strongly asked me to talk and count, but I was too lazy to wet my clothes and help her take a bath, so Doudou begged me over and over again, and even took off my clothes and ran to the room to beg me.
I was really uncomfortable and slapped her ass without agreeing. Doudou muttered, "Hmph, one day I'll discipline you!
It originated from what my father said that day, "You are now a little shooter, and your mother is a big lion, and when you are a big shooter and your mother is an old lion, you can shoot your mother." ”
Later, I took a shower and took the quilt away to sleep by myself, I think I broke the child's heart! But I was really tired.
After a while, he called his father again and said that his mother's words didn't count! Dad must have said that it was the child dragging his feet, and Doudou said, "I have used my fastest speed! Why are you both saying the same?! It seems that you are uniting against me." ”
After a while, he said, "Dad said that I was presiding over a joint confrontation! Hmph! Aren't you two adults joining forces against a child?"
Still don't remember that you were having a conflict with me, and you started chatting with me after a while!2007-12-21
"Coarse Family" and "Fine Family"
After watching the TV series "Journey to the West" with Doudou, Doudou is often attracted by the clouds and fog, clouds and fog, and infinite magical powers of the gods and goddesses in the play, and often yearns for Sun Wukong's eight-sided exquisiteness and omnipotence!
Yesterday, while watching the episode of "Daughter's Country Recruiting Relatives", Doudou was confused by Tang Sanzang's mouthful of "monks", and in her daughter's limited thinking and vocabulary space, "monks" is an unfamiliar concept.
I only heard my daughter whispering softly on the side, "Coarse family, fine family?" It seems to be solving a math problem and then having its own answer. I'm confused!
"Doudou, what? What are you talking about?" the daughter suddenly realized and said firmly: "Didn't you say 'coarse family' on TV? I think since there is a 'coarse family', there must be a 'fine family'." "Huh?
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